爱的背后：分手初期哪些事情能做？

 aidebianjieyoushenme？zaizuoridewenzhangneirongli，wojiangguo，xuduo qingganzuizhonglaidaosilu，fenhaomeiyouwanliudekongjian，queshibingbushiyikaishijiuxianrujuejing，zhishiyicicibuzhengquedewanliushijicaozuozaocheng de。neimeaide10getiaojianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidebeihoudewenzhangba。

 neimajinri，jiulailiaoyiliao：tichufenshouqianqi，shenmeshiernengzuo，shenmeshierbukeyizuo。yidanganlezongshitishengwanliunanduxishu，naizhishizaocheng wanliuyaoyaowuqi。

什么事儿能够做?

1，心理状态基本建设

 tichufenshouduiyigerendaozhideweihaiyaoyuanchaoguodajiadexiangxiang，youxierenyouyutichufenshouyuelaiyueyijuebuzhen，henduonianmeifacongfenshouhoudeheiyingzhongzouchuqu，yeyouxierenyouyutichufenshoubiandewuyigongzuozhongrichangshenghuo，naizhiyouxierenyouyutichufenshouzaochengzijinxunduanjianxiangfa。

 zheiyiqiesuiranhebenrendexinlizhuangtaichengshoulixiangguan，keshigengguanjiandehuanshixinlizhuangtaijibenjianshe。aidebianjieyoushenme？suhuashuodehao，xijiejuedingyiqie，fenshouzhihou，nishichenniyutongchubunengziba，huanshixunsuzhenglihaoxintai，zhenzuoquwanliulingyifang，douzaiyunidexinlizhuangtai。

jiarunizhunbeiwanliu，neimaxunsudiaojielianghaodexintai，rangzishenyuelaiyuejijileguanyidianyouweizhongyao。

2、见好就收

zhenxingfenshou，lingyifangyibanquanshilijingshenzhongkaolvhouzuochudejuece，duanqineiliyagenbutaikenenggenggai。

 yinci ，zheigeshihouwulunnixibuxihuan，zuihaoshidefangfaquanshimeiyouliyoudetongyilingyifang，erqiezhenxinshiyidezhiqian，jianglingyifangduinidefumianqingxujiangzhizuishao，jianhaojiushou。

danglingyifangsilexindeyaotichufenshou，zaicijiuchanbuqingmeifangzongshitishengzhonghouqiwanliudenanduxishu。

3、搞好分手的提前准备

 zhenxingfenshouyibanhuisuizhezhefenqidebunengdiaohehexintaibaofa，zheigeshihou，nanhaizizhiweikuaidianerwanbizheiyiduanguanlian，taochumaodundeqingkuang。

erqietaduinideyinxiangzongshichaburongyihao，tahuizhuyaobiaoxiandeshifenlengdanwuqing，duiniaidabuli。

 yinci ，nixuyaogaohaobeilaheibeishandiaodexingwu，yeyoufenshoudetiqianzhunbei，jianshaoduitadeyaoqiu，congtaderichangshenghuolinshichoushen。

什么事儿不可以做?

1、死皮赖脸

 aidebeihou,sipilailianyishishuang，zhonghouqiwanliuyizhimang。youderenganjueliangrenbujiutichufenshou，chedinenggouyunyongnanhaiziduizishenshenqingkuankuan，dayidataojinhu，yikuernaosandiaosi，lingyifangbianhuixintongkuanrongzishen。

 xiangganshenmeni?shigenanrenshigexianmafan，niruguoqueshiyikuernaosandiaosidequsaoraojiuchanbuqingta，tazongshiyouduodujueniduoyuan。

2、斥责辱骂另一方

youderennvhaifenshouzhihou，yishijihuogongxin，shiqulixing，jilingyifangtieshanghuaxinnan，zhanandebiaoshi。

 budangezhonggeyangduanxiaoxidianhuajingong，chizerumalingyifang，haiqidongzishendehaoguimizuihaodepengyou，weixinpengyouquangezhonggeyangshejiaowangluopingtaijilingyifangshiya。

 nvhai，zheileifangfazongshibaliangrendeguanlianyuelaiyueyulaiyujiang，ranglingyifangganjuenizhendeshiyigemanbujianglideren，congergengweiquexinyunitichufenshoudezhunquexing。

3、情感绑架

 fenshouzhihou，yizhihuichuxianyixienvhai，changshigenjuqingganbangjiadefangfaranglingyifangbubitichufenshou。lirubazijiweilingyifangzuoledeshieryiyilieju，huoshilijihelingyifangsuku：woweinitouruleneimeduo，nizennengneiyangyijianshi?

 aide10getiaojian,neiyangdegerenxingweizongshidailainanhaizijidadegongzuoyali，tabudanburongyikuijiuganxieni，fanguolaihaihuijixudichuni。qingganshiliangrendeshier，niweitatourule，tayiqianyejinitouruguo。ruguoniyongganqingqubangpiaota，zongshishitaganjuenishiyigexiaijinjinjijiaoderen。