恋爱理论：不懂得抓住男性软肋

 lianaimoheqiyounaxie？yingduinanshidelengdan，ruguonihaojinfangshi，dantayiranbuyizhisuohuo，naizhigangkaishiduinigengjialengkuwuqing。neimelianaileixingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaililundewenzhangba。

是否迷惑不解?

 guigenjiedi，wulunlingyifanggennimingquetichufenshou，huanshizaiyingduiniwanhuishidechuxianyichangzhuyaobiaoxian，quanshichuziyuyidian：lijizhuyizhe。

suoyourenzuoyiqieshi，quanshichuziyuliyiguanxide，danxibaoshengwudoushiyouyangzhangbiduandebennengfanying，gengbieshuorenmen。

 zhenduitalaijiang，dangzheiyiduanganqingchanshengdetongchubixingfukuaileduodeqingkuangxia，dangranzaitadexinlingshenchu，jiugangkaishiqingbuzijindepaichizheiyiduanganqing。zuichu，huoxuhuizaijiazhiguanniandejushuxia，beiyiwuhefuwuchengnuosuoqushi，burongyisuibianjiangchufenshou，danshijianyizhang，meifabaituokunjing，bingqielianggerendenantigengjiabijiaoyanzhong，bukedongyao，meifachuli，caihuizhenshidexiajuexin，mingquetichufenshou。

 tamingquetichufenshoudezhenshishike，bingbushizaishuochurukoudeneiyike，zhishishijianyiyoujiu，zhibuguoshiniyizhimeiyoufajuebale。

 ziran，yishidaofenshoudeshizhi，yezhiyourangniyishishangdegenggai，danyaozenyangzuo，caikeyizhenshidebalingyifangdexinlashanglaini?

chuangjianwanhuidejiben，jiuxuyaogaoqingchunanshideruanzhuzainaer。

tawangwangmingquetichufenshou，zhijieyuanyinqujueyu：zheiyiduanganqingzaoyibunengmanzutadexinliyaoqiu。

 ziran，fanguolaide，ruonikeyikaolvtazhenduiganqingdeyaoqiu，naizhichaoguotadeyugu，lianaimoheqiyounaxie？dajiadeganqingyidinghuichuxianyichangpingwen。

mingbaibawozhunanshidezheiyiruanzhu，niyinggaihaikeyiqingchudiyishidaozishenwanhuidefangfale

1.要求认知能力

niqingxilingyifangzaiganqingzhongyaoqiuma?

 laidaozheiyibu，dayuenishibuqingchude，jibian ruoyinruoxiandelejieyixie，danhenyoukenengyemeixiangguobixukaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu。

 dangshidenixiyinzhudaota，nengshitapeizhenizoudaoyiqi，yebingbuyiweizhezheniyejiuyouchedikaolvtaqingganxuqiudegongzuonengli，dannidebenzhihewaizai，quanshinenggouxiyinzhudaotade。

lianaililunyounaxieni？zheijiujitamenyizhongjuede：nishiduideren，shinageqianzaixingdenenggoukaolvtasuqiudianderen。

 danenaifeichangrongyijiaowangnan，dajiazhongjiandexiangchumoshichulenanti，lingwainiyemeiyouzaiganqingjiaowangquanguochengzhong，kaolvdaoxianghudexuqiu，yizhiyuganqingbuchenggong。

 xiangwanhuilingyifang，xianghetazaicilaidaoyiqi，jiuxuyaoshenzhongkaolvtadesuqiudian，duita，duidajiadeganqingyouyigezaiciderenzhinengli。

ruguoniyishidaotadeqingganxuqiu，zaijinxingjinyibudewanhui。

2.情绪价值

ruguoniqiqingganxuqiushi，danyejiaoweinanjinxing，zhongjiubukeyizhijieledanggentabiaoshu。

rujinnideyiqieyuju，doumeifarangqixinrengan，shuodezaiduo，bibushangxingdong。

 shishishang，wanhuibingbushiyishunjiande，shiyigechihuandequanguocheng。zaizheigequanguochengzhong，yaoxuehaojiyulingyifangqingxujiazhi，zenyangtigaohejiyulingyifangqingxujiazhini?

 lianaileixingshishenmeni？chukaishangbianjiangdetigaorenzhinengli，yeyaoshidudegenggaizishenpinpaixingxiang，jinidepinpaixingxianghuanranyixin，duanqineineizaicixiyinzhudaota。