恋爱理论：平衡价值差异

 lianaimoheqiyounaxie？youwangminliuyanbanliuyangankai：jiaoshi，wojuedehenmimangheyihuo。neimelianaileixingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaililundewenzhangba。

nvxingyouliaobuwandehua，youbijiaomingandexiaoxinsi，youmingxiandeqingtuyu。

ernanshengni?tamenyanjuanlingting，fangannvxingdexutao，gengweihaipanvrendemingan。

nvrenhenanrenzheibanbuyiyang，weiheyeyaozaiyiqichuduixiangni?

 weishenmeni?youyujishinanrenhenvrencunyoujidadechabie，dahuoerquezishizhizhongyouyigexianghudezongtimubiao：qipanhuodeaiyuguanzhu。

 yinci jiusuancunyouxuduo dewuhuihemaodun，jibian zaiyiqiyezaisuonanmianbiantilinshang，queyiranmeishenmenengzulandahuoerchongxiangganqingdebufa。

 zhenduichengqianshangwanchinanyuannveryan，ganqingzaoyudecuobaibukongbu，yaoshiliangrenenai，yiqietiaozhandouzhideyishi。kongbudeshi，nipinlemingdexianglingyifangaijin，lingyifangquezaozaoyigaohaolechelidetiqianzhunbei。

jiunawanhuizheiyijianshiereryan，henduorenzaiyidebingbushihuibeijujue，zhishidanyoulingyifangzaoyiruguobuaile。

“tadoutifenshoule，yinggaishiruguobuaileleba。”

“tadoubuaiwole，wodounengruhe?”

“zaoyimeiyouyiyile，tadoubuaiwole。”

 lianaililunyounaxieni？zhendeshilingyifangruguobuailelemeiyou?shijishangbingbushide，90%ganqingbuchenggongdenvhai，lianaimoheqiyounaxie？quanshizaiyongzhuguanyishichuduixiang。youyuzhuguanyishitaimingxian，yinci kanbujianzhenlidekeguanxing。

 juedaduoshunanhaizifenshou，doubingbushiyouyuqueshiruguobuaile，zhishiyouyuliangrenzhongjiandeshiyongjiazhichabieyuelaiyueda，meifazaibaochiwending。

 ganqinglaiyuanyuxiyinzhu，zheizhongjiulexihuanyigerenshibixuyuanyinde。dangshiliangrenzaiyiqi，nideshenshangmouyiyoushixiyinzhuleta，tashenshenaishangni。

 shubuzhiyigerenbingbingbushiqiaruqifende，bansuizhezaiyiqideshijianyulaiyuzhang，nidequexiangangkaishipulu。zheigeshihou，dajiazhongjianchuxianleshiyongjiazhichabie。

zheizhongshiyongjiazhichabie，zaiyicicidezhengzhiquanguochengzhong，beichixudefangda，zhizhizuihoubupingheng。

yikaishitaxihuannikailangzhanrendegexing，piaoliangdewaimian。keshizaiyiqiyihou，tafajuenishijishangxinggebaozao，zhanyouyu。

 yincidajiazhengzhiguohaoshuci，niyeshuoguozishenyaogai，keshiyizhimeiyougai，tayuelaiyueyulaiyuxinhan，dajiazhongjiandechabieyeyuelaiyueda。

 fenshouhou，tabuyidingshibuainile，buyuanzaicihenizaiyiqi，tajinjinmeiyouchongzudedanliangzaiqujianxindajianenghaohaodijiaowangxialai。

 weihefenshouhouniganlexuduo qinfenyemeiyouyong，youyushiyongjiazhichabiebaifangzaineibian，liangrendoumeiyoutongyigezhixian，nizuodezaihao，zaitalaikanyehaowujiazhi。

 yinci ，lianaileixingshishenmeni？xiangwanhui，zuixianyaochulishiyongjiazhichabie。xunzhaofenshoudezhenzhengyuangu，zhangwotadeqingganxuqiu，duizhengzhiliaocaikeyiqueshiheli。