什么样的爱?挽回需要规避的3点错误你知道吗？

 shenmeyangdeai?yiqianyoujierenguoyigejiaoweijiduanhuadexuesheng，henanpengyoufenshouzhihou，maotianxiazhidabuwei，yikuernaosandiaosi，danfankeyongshangdefangshidouyongle，keshilingyifanghuanshijianchibuxieyaofenshou，yuanbenhepingfenshoudeliangrenzuizhongbianchengleyigeduoyigezhao。neimeshenmeshixihuanshenmeshiaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeshizhenaidewenzhangba。

1、斥责另一方

 fenshouzhihounengqueshibaozhengxiangwangjianghuderen，yaobumeiyouqueshicengjingaiguo，fengqingyundan，yaobubeiwanquandesunhaiguo，tonghenzhiji。

 juedaduoshurenfenshouhou，douhaihuijixuyaoxiangheqiannanyoujiuchanbuqing，baochilianluo，youyutamendanxinjiaruzishenbuzuodianshenme，buchuxianlingyifangyanxia，zheiyiduanqingganbianhuiwanquandebenkuihewufakongzhi。

 shubuzhifenshouzishizhizhongshiyizhongsunhaihefumianxinxibiaoshu，zheigeshihou，xiangfenshoudeyifanghuifeijinxinsiyiqiebanfalaiwanchengzishendemudi，neibianshiwanbizheiyiduanguanlian，zhenduinidewanhuixingweichudichuhelengdan，huijuegoutongjiaoliuhejieshou。

 shenmeshizhenai?zheigeshihou，xuduonvhaidexintaibianhuigangkaishibaozou，yanfan，bianhuai，xintaiyehuichansheng180°dazhuanwan，shenmeyangdeai?yikaishishigezhonggeyangrenrangtaojinhu，rujinzehenyoukenengyuelaiyuemanhengwulimanhengwuli，bilingyifangjianzishen，huoshicaiyongweixiedengfangfaranglingyifangtuoxie。

 ruguolingyifangzheigeshihouhuanshimeiyouyiqiedafu，jiezhongerlaidebianshijiangzishenfangdaoshouhairendebuweishang，chizelingyifang，huoshilizaishehuidaodedezhuzhendishang，chixudequyuyanbaolilingyifang，jilingyifangshengchanzhizaobubian，qidainengzaochenglingyifangdeliuyi。

 shijishang，neiyangdezuofazongshiyamiaozhuzhang，shitahelixingfenshoudegerenxingwei，youyunidezhuduogerenxingweizhengshilenijiushiyigemanhengwuli，yiziwoweizhongxinderen，yunizaicizaiyiqizongshigengweilei。

2、没有底线的取悦

 yiduanshenxinjiankangqiepingwendehunyinguanxi，bicizhongjiandeshiyongjiazhihuhuanyingdangweichiyigedongtaixingdejunheng。meiyounaweikendingdeshangwei，doumeiyounaweikendingdediwei，yifangbuyongmeiyoudixiandedeququyuecaikeyidedao guanxin，lingyifangyebuhuizhangzhelingyifangdezhongaijiumingmuzhangdan。

 keshixuduo rendaochuangjianhunyinguanxideqingkuangxia，quanshibuduidengde。zaiqizhongzuishidiaodeguanlianbianshiyiweitouru，wusifengxian。zaiqingganzhongchediqueshizishen，sangshidaodedixian。jiangqinglvchushideshiyongjiazhiwujindebianda，suihouwujinbianxiaobenshencunyoudeshiyongjiazhi，weilegenghaodinenghuodelingyifangjijizhudongdedafu，ganyuantouruzishendesuoyou。

 fenshouhou，yixierenyaoweilegenghaodinengwanhuilingyifang，meiyoudixiandedeququyuelingyifang，jiusuanfenshoushilingyifangdecuoyehuisuoyoulandaozishendedeshenshang，erqiebazheileigerenxingweijiedingweileai。

 keshizhenduiqiannanyoulaijiang，neiyangdequyuejiuhaoxiangzhuiluoniningbukanlidehuashu，takandoubuxiangkanyixia，zongshishitajuedeyanfan，meirenxiangyaoheyigemeiyoudaodedixianderenxiangchu。

 shenmeshixihuanshenmeshiai?bulunshiduiqinglvhuoshipenyou，quanbudetourubixulianglierwei，guoduodexishengzijiquanyijinerquyuelingyifangdeguanlian，tongchangburongyiyouhaojieguo。