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 queshi，xianzaideni，xinlimanshicuoluandexintai。xinliyouyinqiannanyoushuofenshouchanshengdetongchu，youyindanyouzheiyiduanganqingwanquanwanbi，xinlimanshiyiyuqingxu。neimeyouduoshaoaikeyizhonglaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanyouduoainidewenzhangba。

 jinguan，nixinlisuodanyoude，shizishenruobushiwanhuidoubuwanliu，qiannanyoubianhuiwanquanliqu，cihouliangrenzaiwuguanlian，tashizishenzuibuyuanyiyingduide。

 danshi，zheiyebushiwanliuxinjideyuanyin。xianghudexintaidouchuzaizuicuoluandeshike，bingqienidianjizheliuyou，taqidailiqu。cike，liangrenniantoushinanyizuodaoyizhide。

rujin，liangzhezhijianzainaoziliyizhidianjizhewanliulingyifang，bibushangxiangqingxizheihaoduogenanti：

怎么会分手?

chuziyunaxieyuanyinwanliu?

wanliuqudechenggonghou，shibushiyougongzuonenglirangliangrendexinganqingzhangqibaochi?

zheizhongnantilijijuecezhenidewanliuqudechenggong，jiqidajiaweilaideganqingmaixiang。xiangqingxizheizhongnanti，zaiwanliudoubuchi。

 ziran，ruguonipingjingxialai，gengyaoshencengcidesisuodiyigenanti：dajiazhongjianzenmehuifenshou?liangrendeganqingbenlaifeichanghao，danruhejiumaixiangzheiyibuleni?

qingchukeguanyinsu，lianrencongenaimaixiangfenshou，tongchangyouzheijileiyuangu：

1.关联不平衡

 bulunshicongtanlianaiyikaishi，huanshiliangrenjiaowangquanguochengzhongdegaoaiweizhuanbian，yaoshishiganqingzhongcunyouzheguanlianbupingheng，zaiqizhongyifangzhangqixingchuzaiyingxiangli，bianhuizaocheng liangrenguanlianchuxianliefeng。

 zhongjiu，guanliantaidihuizaocheng “zhixiangyoubutouru”he“zhitouruwushouyi”deduilimianguanlianchuxian，zheidinghuiweihailiangrenganqingdepingwen。

 shijianyizhang，zhangqixingchuzaidiwei，zhiyouchixushuncongdeneiyifang，zuihouwufarenshou，dangranhuitiaoxuanwanbizheileibupingheng，fenhaomeiyouduideng，naizhikanbujianjianglaideganqing。

2.缺乏沟通交流

 airenjiaowang，zuizhongyaodegoutongjiaoliu。jibian liangrenxingqingxiangfang、yiqixiangtou，danzhongjiuhuanshicunyouchabiede。dangchabiedianpuluzaiganqingshang，dangliangrenyishichanshengfenqi，weichigoutongjiaoliu，getuiyibu，shishifenbixude。

 danjiaruliangrenjianquefajichudegoutongjiaoliu，zaiganqingchuxianfenqishi，bingbushikexuanzexinghulve，bianshixianghuzhijiantuixiezeren、zhizelingyifang，zuihouzongshirangliangrendejihuamaodun，baofachixu，ganqingzhongjiuhuiyiliekaierjieshu。

3.供求不对等

 zheiyidianxiangduixingjiufeichangrongyilejie，qingganshenghuozhongdexianghu，bingbushishibuqiuhuibaode。touruderen，douxiwangzheshouyi，danhenduorenmeixiangguotourudeshibushilingyifangyaoxiangde。

 zheijiurutonghuangmozhongzhaobudaofangxiangshurideren，zuibixudeshishuiheshicai，dannijiyudequeshiyitaoyifuhuoyishuangxiezi，neiyidingbunengmanzutadexuqiugan。

 qingganshenghuozhong，yiyangzheiban，yidangongqiuguanlianbuduideng，jiufeichangrongyidaozhixianghuzhijianbulijie：doutourule，danbicideganqingnongduzhiquejiangdile，zhidaoganqingliekai。

 dangyishidaozishendeshenshangcunzaidebuzu，gaoqingchudajiadeganqingliekaideyuangu，youyaoruhejiejue，caikeyirangganqingzhongfanzishenshenpangni?

zhixunigenggaierdian：waizaipinpaixingxiangheganqinghexinlinian。

 youduoaini,wangwangyaotigaowaizaipinpaixingxiang，mudibianshidazaochufengcaizishen。tafangqini，zaoyizhengshiyijianshi：niwaizaibiaozhunzaoyimeifazhichengdiandajiadeganqing，burantayeburongyisuibiandimingquetichufenshou，zuishaohuizaisanchiyi。

 genggaiwaizaipinpaixingxiang，shijishangxunzhaofuhexingdeneipianbibeipin，lingwaisisidiwojinshoushang。weiyouniyouyigequanxinshengjidewaimao，dailaitashenmigan，bingqiejiqiyouhuolide，shitayouzaicizhangwonidechongdong，niyejiuqudechenggongdekaiqinidefuhexingdedamenle。

 ziran，waizaipinpaixingxiangtigao，yezhiyouzhichengdianyishi，jibian nimingquetichuwanliu，dantaxinlishiduoshaoyehuichiyi，zhongjiuyiqiandeganqingwenti，quanshizulan。

 xiangjiaoda shuipingdejiangditaxinlingshenchudepaichi，jiejuedajiazhongjiandejiedi，jiuxuyaogenggainideganqinghexinlinian，shengjinideganqingyunyingmoshi。ziran，zheiyiqiedeqiantitiaojian，jiuxunzhaodajiazhongjiannantichuxiandeyuangu，jiaoda shuipingdejiejuezheiyiqie。

 jinyouhuajiemaodun，jiejuemaodun，caikeyishitaxuehuifangxiajingxiaxinlai，youduoshaoaikeyizhonglai,yunizaicixiangchu，dajiazhongjiancaiyouzaicilaidaoyiqidegailv。yinci ，xunsujianqingxintai，kuaisudebazhongxindianfangdaozheizhongshangbianlai，ruguonizhenshibianhua，qudejinbu，neimejiujianjuwanliuqudechenggonghenjinle。