谈恋爱的感觉是什么呢？如何利用男人的“情绪价值需求”挽回爱情？

 meiyigerendoushihuilijingchengzhanglichengzhong"fenshouhou"zheiyijieduan，yeshiyouyuzheiyijieduan，niyuelaiyuegengweiwanqiang。fenshouhoubingbukongbu，kongbudejiushinihaipayingdui。neimetanlianaideganjueyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankantanlianaideguochengdewenzhangba。

 fenshouzhihoudenizhengtianmomoliulei。shenghuoguodehunhundundun，nineimachusedeyigenvhai，xianrujinweilegenghaodiyigenanrenkudebeicongzhonglai，youcikejiannishiqueshihenbiequ。

 yikaishizaiyiqideqingkuangxia，tashuodaotahuifangrennidexiaopiqi，danshifenshouzhihou，zheizhonghuajiufangfojihuyemeiyouchanshengguo，suirannigezhonggeyangwanhuita，tabianshibugennizaiyiqi。

 jiandaotadewuqingyihou，nijuedezishenmeiyouzizun，danshiniyounenggaizenmeban?nijiushiwangjibushangta。shijishang，zheiyeshihenyiqiezhengchangdezhuangkuang，jiranwangbudiao，neijiuyaowanliuba!eryaoxiangwanliuzishendenanpengyou，yidingjiuxuyaoxuehaozhangwo"xintaijiazhi"zheigeci。

 shenmeshiqingxujiazhi，shijishangbianshiyigerenzaibuyiyangshikesuozaochengdexintai，zuixiandajiabianshuoganqingzhongsangehuanjienanshengdexintai：

追求完美期：

 youyunidegaojiazhi，yinci xiyinzhudaonansheng，nanshenghuifeijinxinjizhuiqiuni，neishitazhenduinichongmanlezhengfuyu，yinci wulunjiushinidexiaopiqihuanshixiaoxingqing，tadoushihuijiena，erqiehanyounichongdeyanse。

 nideyijuyidongdounengtuidongtadexintai，nigaoxingshitabianhuigaoxing，keshinibugaoxingshitabianhuibugaoxing。cikenihenhuituidongnanshengde"xintaijiazhi"。

热恋：

 zaizhuiqiuwanmeidaonideqingkuangxia，tayidinghuishifenxingfen，youyunanshengdezaiqianyishizhonghuiganjue，zishenzaoyihuodenini，neimajiexiaqubianshijiazhongduinidezhangwo，haikeyishuochengkantouni。

 yinci zheiyihuanjienanshengdexintairengranhuiyounituidong，duiniqianyibaishun。danshimeibuduanshiduoshaoshijian，tagangkaishiduinishilengshire，haoxiangduinimeiyouyiqianneimajiqingle。

 tanlianaideguochengyounaxieni？shijishangnizaizheigeshihoubianshinigaojiazhijiangdideqingkuangxia，nanshenghuiganjuezishenzaoyizhangwotounile，duinimeiyouxingquaihao，tadexintaibutaikenengyounizhengqueyindao，fandaohaihuijixuzaochengyixieyanfandexintai。

 pingchangni"zuo"yixia，tafangyanwangqunichong，danshirujinni"zuo"，tajiuhendichu，buguannizuoshashi，douquyuebushangnansheng，tadexintaizaoyilaidaonimeikekongxingdehuanjie。

分手后期：

 zheigeshihounanshenggennizaoyichuzaifenlihuanjie，youyunibenshenyouhuolijiangdi，zaocheng nanshengduinimeishenmexingqu，neimazheigeshihounanshengdexintaijiuchuzainiyipengjiubaofadeqingkuang。

 tongchangyouhenduonvxingqupengchuzheiyidaodedixian，bianhuizaocheng nanrenbanilaheishanchu。nichedimeiyoubanfagentakaizhanyiqiezhengchangdegoutongjiaoliu。

 nanrenzaiyiduanqingganzhong"xintaijiazhiyaoqiu"yidingshiyigeguanjiandewupin，baohanwanliu"xintaijiazhi"yeshiyiyangguanjiande，nimeimingbaijifananshengdexintai，tadangranbianhuifahuo，burongyigennihaohaogoutongjiaoliu。

 tanlianaideganjueshizenyang？yaoxiangjifananshengde"xintaijiazhi"shijishangfeichangrongyi，xuehaolizainanshengdeshijiaoqudulisikao，nilejiezheijianshiqingbingbukeyirunanshengdechangsuoyuan，keshiyidingyaojinanshengyigeqidaizhi，neiyangtadexinlizhuangtaishangbianhuihuodekuanwei。