谈恋爱的感觉是什么呢？冷落男人用这招

 fenshouzhihoudeni，meibanfajienazheiyicanqi，liangzhezhijianchengdantongchu，bibushangguzhuyizhidiquwanliu，kenideshengsilijie、sipilailian，querangnanshengduiniyulaiyudiyu。neimetanlianaideganjueyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankantanlianaideguochengdewenzhangba。

 nidefengkuang，balingyifangzuizhongyisichiyidehuoyanyejichuimiele，kanjiantadeliqugudubeiying，nicaigangkaishihouhuimojizishendebulixinggerenxingwei……

shijishang，wanliuhaipadebianshishengsilijiedejiuchanbuqing，neiyangzongshibalingyifangyuetuiyuezhang。

 jiarunigangtichufenshou，bumingbaigairuhewanliu，bibushangshizheyixiayongshehuixinlixuezhongde“ershiyitianlengbaoli”wanliufaba，mingbaiyunyongshehuixinlixuecaikeyibangniqingqingsongsongwanhuiairenxin。

yi、shenmejiao“ershiyitianlengbaoli”

zaishehuixinlixuezhong，yiqianzuoleyixiangyouguan“xiguanxing”yu“shijian”dechanshengkexueyanjiu。

 yanjiubiaoming，dajiazhendui“xiguanxing”dechanshengfenchengershiyitian，quanguochengfenchengsangehuanjie：1zhi7tianshi“tingcong”，7zhiershiyitianhuibianwei“renke”，erershiyitianhou，bianshi“neizai”。

 yijuzheitiaoxinlizhuangtai，dajiafajue，dajiadefangfanyishitizhi，huishiwomenzishenbazheixiebutaihaodejiyili，kaizhanzishenhuifu。

 liru，womenzaifenshoudeshihounaodezheixiebuyukuai，heburenke，zuizhongdoushihuizaifenliyiduanshijianhou，gangkaishizishenxiaohuaxishou，shenfenrentong，zheiyejiushiweihedahuoerzongshuoshijianhuixiaoqianyiqiededadaolile。

 yinci ，fenshouzhihouniyuefaxinjijiuchanbuqinglingyifang，lingyifangjiuyuefayanjuanni，youyuniyagenmeiyoujilingyifangkaizhanxiaohuaxishou，helejiedeshijian。

er、jutishijian，duiyushijiwanliu

 qiadangdezuofayinggaishi，yingdangneiyanghelingyifangshuo：“woyijingjienatichufenshoudekeguanshishile，zhihouburongyizaishuodaraonile，xiangbilianren，huoxudajiagengshihezuoyibanpengyou。”

neiyangcaihuizaiduanqineineijianshaolingyifangdepaichixinlizhuangtai。

 erqie，zaiyihoude10tiannei，yaorangzishenpingjingxialai，buyaolianluolingyifang，yebubichuxianzaitadeshiyeli，gengbubifayiqiedongtaixing，rangzishenweichiyige“xiaotui”qingkuangli。

 zheiduanshijian，nixuyaohaohaofanshengziji，xunzhaodajiaqingganzhongjiandenanti，erqieyaozhenshidijiena，dajiazaoyitichufenshoudekeguanshishi。

suihou，zaifenshouzhihoude11-16tiannei，changshirangzishenzaicizhenzuo，renzhenxuexiyixietanlianaijiqiao。

 kanyixieqingganleixingdeshuben，liru《nanrenlaizihuoxing，nvrenlaizijinxing》、《ruherangniaiderenaishangni》zheixie，rangzishentianbudaliangdeqingganyunyingzhuanyezhishi，fengfuduocaidaliangtanlianaijiqiao。

yihou，zaifenlide17-ershiyitiannei，rangzishenhuangeqingxuba，bubizongchenjinzaiyiwangdeyoushangli。

 ninengquhuanyigetouxing、maijigepiaoliangdequnzi，chuanzhedabandehuazhizhaozhande，zaiheguimiquguangguangjie，sansanbu，rangzishenweichiyigegengqiangdeqingkuang。

zuizhong，zaifenliershiyitianhou，lingyifangyehuiduinidefumianqingxuyongyouyidingjianqing。

 tanlianaideguochengyounaxieni？cikeninengtanjiuxingxuexidefuchouzhelianmeng4kanyixia，jiechuanyixialingyifangdexintai，jiarulingyifangmeiyoudichuni，zaizaicisuzaohetadexianliaoxiguanxing，jiarulingyifangxintaiyiranpaichi，neijiuxuyaozengjiazhilengshijian。

三、运用人的本性，忽然抽身

 jiaru，nizaoyiranglingyifangxiguannidechuxian，neimarujin，jiuxuyaoranglingyifanggangkaishibuxiguan，nixuyaohuranchoushen，ranglingyifangzaochengzaodongbuangan。

danglingyifangzaoyixiguanxingyunixianliaohou，tahuijianjiandigangkaishijienani。

 danruguonihuranliquhou，tabianhuigangkaishixinfanyiluan，naizhishimianzhengzaodongbuan，congerjinizijintourudaliangdexintaijiazhi，zheileizaodongbuanhuishitayaoxiangfanhuiyuanxiandeneileishufuqifen。

 zheileixintaidezijintouru，huirangzhengqueyindaotamenlaijijiyuenixianliao，danzheileifangshijinjinlinshide，jiarunimeimingbaitigaoziji，bumingbaigenggaiyuanxiandenanti，neimajibian lingyifanghuishoule，yeshihuishouyishunbale。

 tanlianaideganjueshizenyang？yinci ，yaoxiangzhenshidifuhexingqudechenggong，jiuyidingyaorangzishenyuelaiyuegengqiang，bubizaicifashengguoqudebuzhengque，xunzhaodajiazhongjiangengshufudejiaowangfangfa，mingbaiyunyingweihubaoyang，caisuanshiganqingdechijiuzhidao。