爱情面前女人放不下一个男人会有哪些反常表现？

 aiqingqijishishenme？wohenanpengyouyouyuyidiansuoshizhengchao，woyiqizhixiajiutilefenshou，rujinfenshougangshijitian。shanggexingqiwoxiangquyiqiangentayiqilaiguodeminsukezhan，shizhaodailaiyaowowandehaoguimi。neimeaiqingmianqiandefanyingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingpeiduidewenzhangba。

gangfenshouneiyiduanshijian，wogongzuozhonghenmang，yizhigongchu，yinci yemeiganjuetainanguo。

 kejinqikongyuchulai，fanzhewomenliangyiqiandeweixinliaotianjilu，kanjianshoujizhaopianliwomenliangdeheyingzhaopian，yishizhijiantounaochongmanlegentadezhuiyi。

wojinbuzhujitamenfaguogeshoujiweixin，yousheizhidaotajuranjiangwojiaruheimingdanle。woquanburenyishunjianjiuganjuetianditale。

 shijishang，wobenlaixiangchenzhezheiyitupokoulianluota，kanyixiataneixinyeyoubushi，youmuyoujiyugentahehao，kexiangbudaoshierbianchenglerujinneiyang。

wohaopa，lianxushimianlehaojitian，jiaoshi，zhenduineiyangyiduanwangbudiaodeqinggan，wogaizenmezuo?

答：

congnidexushuzhong，jiaoshikeyijuededaonineixinduizheiyiduanqingganhuanshinanyisheqi。

 niyouyusuoshigennanpengyoumingquetichufenshou，rujindanxinyuxubuxuyaoxuehuifangxiaqingmianjijihenanpengyoutifuhexing，aiqingqijishishenme？erqiebingqiefeichangrongyijijingshengqing，zheizaifenshouhoudeqianqishihenyiqiezhengchangdezhuangkuang。

lingwainanpengyoujiaruheimingdannidexingwei，yebiaomingduinilijimingquetichufenshoudegerenxingweijuedeqinao。

niwangwangganjuewangbudiaodeyuangudaliangdeshizhenduifenshouzheijianshiqingliangrenmeiyouhaohaodidewanbi，zaiwanhuiqiannixuyaoxixinsisuo：

 zuixianshibushiniweilegenghaodiouqiheduifucaiyaoxiangyulingyifangcongtoukaishi，cizhishibushiniweilegenghaodizhaotamibuqingganquekou。jiarunilianggendouhehu，laoshibutiyiniwanhui。

 youyuzheiduinihelingyifanglaijiangneiyangdewanhuiquanshitaobizeren，yebushichijiude，ruguoniquedingzhishanglianggendehuiyingdoushibushideqingkuangxia，nenggouwangxiakan。

jiaruniyaowanhui，jiaoshirangnixialietiyi：

1、制冷分歧，恢复情绪

 qingzhishen，henzhiqie，nanyoujiaruheimingdanni，biaomingnanyouhaichuzaibeinifenshoudeqingxuzhong，nanpengyoujiedaonideduanxiaoxihouqingxushangmianhuifuyixie。

 nixuyaozuodeshidenghounanyouduinidefumianxinxiqingxumanmanpingfuyihou，zaikaizhanlianluo。ziranzaizheiliquanguochengzhongnixuyaozuodeshicaozonghaozishendeganqing，qianyizishendezhuanzhuli。

2、反省自己，以诚相待的致歉

 aiqingpeidui,nixianhaohaodixiangyixiangniyizhizaizheiyiduanguanlianzhizhong，zishendegerenxingweishifoucunyouyixienanti，bingshizhelianluolingyifang。

nanpengyougenjunidepengyouhou，nenggouxieyiduanzishenzhenduizheiyiduanguanliandesisuoyuniduinanpengyoudeguanzhudexinxineirongfajita。

yaoliuyideshibuyaozaixinxineirongzhongbiaoshuchuniduizheiyiduanqinggansipilailiandexintai，zhengdehuodelingyifangdexinrengan。

3、提高自己试着修复关联

 zainanpengyouzaiqingxumanmanhuifuhou，xiufudajiazhongjiandeguanliandegailvyoubiandayibu，zaizheiqijiannixuyaotigaoziji，jiuzhengzishenqingxushangdenanti，fangzhixiayishifenshou。

qingshanggaodenvrenyaoxuehaoduoshandaiziji，neiyangcaikeyichuangjianqiqiangjingdexinxin。

4、理智解决两人中间的难题

 danglingyifangxiangyaojienanideqingkuangxia，shizhehelingyifangzhuiyidajiazaiyiqidexingfuheburongyi，duolizailingyifangdeshijiaodulisikao。

aiqingmianqian,duifazhanfangxiangnenggoushizhezuoyigekeshixingdejihuafangan，xiezhudajiagengqiangdejiejuejianglaidenanti。