爱情面前分手后，聪明女人这样“断联”

 aiqingqijishishenme？fenshouhou，nizenmedouwufawangjiyiqian，yaoxiangwanhuiquebuqingchuyongshenmebanfa，zhizhizaiwangluoshangjiandao“fenshouwanhuifa”，yincigangkaishiduanjuehetadeyiqielianluo。neimeaiqingmianqiandefanyingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingpeiduidewenzhangba。

kezuizhongbujinmeiyoujuyouyugudeshijixiaoguo，fandaoranglingyifangshandiaojiaruheimingdanlenidequanbulianxidianhua......

doushuofenshouyoushenxiao，danweihenideduanlianhuibalingyifangyuetuiyuezhangni?

 shijishang，bingbushifenshoubalingyifangyuetuiyuezhangle，jinjinzainibingmeiyouxuehaozenyangfenshou，yinci caihuiyongcuodefangfa，cuoguozuihaodewanhuijihui。

 womencengjingyouyiweixuesheng，jiaoxiaojing(biming)henanpengyoufenshouhou，jiucongzaiwangshangxueleyitaofenshouwanhuifa，kezuizhongbujinbuqizuoyong，haibalingyifangyuetuiyuezhang。

 yincitaxunzhaodajiafuwupingtai，laoshijianyizhangwohou，caihuozhitamenfenshoudejihui，hefangfatongtongbudui，yinci zaocheng letamendewujiejiazhong，yezengjialewanhuidenanduxishuhechengbenfei。

yinci ，wanhuizhongduanlianfajinguanyoushenxiao，danqueshifenzhuzhongjutifangfa，yongcuofangshifeichangrongyihuidaozhigengcaogaodejushi。

 zhihou，zailaoshidejutizhidaoxia，xiaojingjilingyifangfaguoyitiaoduanxiaoxi，zaiduanxiaoxizhong，aiqingqijishishenme？tazaicishuominglezishendexintai，heduiyiwangdeguandian，bingxianglingyifangshuomingzishenzaoyijienafenshou，bingganxielingyifangzheiyiludeshouhou。

 suihoufenshou，zaizheiqijian，xiaojingbuduantigaoziji，bingzaifenshouqineixianglingyifangzhanxianlezishendegenggai，zaicixiyinzhulingyifang。

lijinglesangeyuedeqinfen，qiannanyouzongsuanjijijiahuilailexiaojing，bingchupengyiduanshijianhou，juecezaicishizhezaiyiqi。

 nikankan，fenshoudequeyoushenxiao，danqueshifenzhuzhongjihui，fangfahefangshi，youxierennengyunyongfenshouqiadangdiranglingyifangjijiwanhuizishen，eryouxierenqueyongbuzhengquedefenshoufangfabawanhuiyuegaoyuezao。

yinci ，fenshouzhong，youjigeguanjiandianshishifenguanjiande。

分手机会

 henduorenzhenduifenshouderenzhinengli，haizhiliuzaiyigehencuqiandehuanjie，kanle2~3pianfangfawenhou，bianzaimeiyoujutizhidaodezhuangkuangxiamangmugenfengfenshou，zuizhongzaocheng balingyifangyuetuiyuezhang。

shijishang，fenshoushishifenzhuzhongjihuide，gangfenshoushi，lingyifangzaidichuqixiannei，fenshoushizuihaoshidejihui。

 kexuduo rendaofenshouhou，douhendanxinhelingyifangsangshilianluo，chiyizaisan，zaocheng cuoguolewanhuijihui，yibucuo，houbiandefenshouliuchengsuoyoudoucuo，zaocheng lebunengwanhuidechengdu。

yinci ，wanhuiyidingyaokanhaojihui，jiaruguoduchiyifeichangrongyihuicuoguolefenshouzuijiashiqi。

不可以急于求成

 henduoren，aiqingpeidui,zaixinxinfenshouhou，quezaibantuzhongbulizhitaitianzhen，meibiezhulianluolelingyifang，zaocheng gongkuiyikui，fenshoushijixiaoguoshoudaofeichangdayingxiang。

 fenshou，shuobailebianshiduandiaolelianluo，zaiweigaibianxianzhuangyiqian，bubiyulingyifangzaochengyiqiebiaocengshangdelijigoutongjiaoliuhechupeng。

 buranneiyangdefenshouqueshihaowujiazhi，gengmeifaduiqiannanyoudadaoercixiyin，yinci fenshouqinei，yeshiyaozhuzhongfuchouzhelianmeng4jihuihefuchouzhelianmeng4huanjiede，buranbianshigongkuiyikui。

分手期内

 fenshou，jinguanshixianghuzhijianzhongjianbulianxi，danbuyiweizhezheiqineishenmeshidoubuzuo，fenshoubingbingbushiyiweidebihen，zhishijibicixiaohuaxishoufumianxinxiqingxudeshijian，tigaoziji，damopaoguangzishen。suihouzaiduxiyinzhulingyifangdeyigequanguocheng。

 jiarunijiangfenshoudangzuodiaozhulingyifangshiyudefangshi，neinijiubudui，fenshoushiyigezishenzhonggoudeliandanlu，jinyouzaifenshouqineichixumolianzishen，caikeyiniepanzaisheng，dedao quanxinshengjideaiqing。

yinci ，fenshoubingbingbushiduandiaolianluoneimejianyibale，fuhexingyebingbingbushiwanhuidequanguocheng。

aiqingmianqian,jinyouzaichengzhangchengquanxinshengjidezishen，caikeyizhenshidibaozhengpojingzhongyuan。