爱情面前姐弟恋分手如何挽回男友？

 aiqingqijishishenme？zaixianrujinzheiyiduiwaikaifangfazhandeshehuifazhanli，yaoshiliangrenxinxinenai，fangfomeishenmenengzulanganqingdechansheng。gezibingbushinanti，nianjibingbushijianju，xiuzhongbingbushigongzuoyali。neimeaiqingmianqiandefanyingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingpeiduidewenzhangba。

 youqishishixia，jiedilianqinggangkaishiyuelaiyueyulaiyushixing，yulaiyuduodenanshiyuanyizhaoyigebizishendadenvhaichuduixiang，xiangyoulingyifangjiyudeqinjiejieyibandezhaoliao。

 keshiqingganzishizhizhongquanshiliangrendeshier，yikaishidelianaiyiwangzhihou，jiedilianqingyizhihuixianxianchubiyibanlianrengengnanchulidenanti。

 zuipubiandebianshi：nvhaiganjuenanshenghaiziqibuchengshu，meifatuofuzhongshen，ernanshengzeganjuechengshoulefeichangdadebihungongzuoyali，yidanmeifamoheqi，maodunzongshiyuelaiyueda，fenqiyulaiyuduo，zuihounengzhenshixiuchengzhengguodequzhikeshu。

 jiedilianqingyinweiqinvdananxiaodezuhemoshi，jiqigudingbudongluojisiweichanshengderenzhinengli，yidanfenshouzhihou，cuowucaozuo，zaidufuhexingdegailvbudabuda。

 zheishifoudaibiaozhejiedilianqingfenshouzhihou，zaiyebuhuifuhexingdegailvni?huidashifourende，aiqingqijishishenme？shifoukeyishiwanhui，zaiyufenshouhoushifoucaiyongleqiadangdewanhuifangfa。

neimajiedilianqing，fenshouyihou，nvhaigaiwanhuinanpengyouni?

多一点理性，少一点客观

 hulianwangdashujushuoming，tongnianlingdenvshihenanshibiqilai，nvshidexinlizhuangtaizhiliangzhibiaoyaogaoguonanshi。huanjuhuashuo，yiyangershisui，nvhaihuibinanshengduoyifenwanshan。

 tongnianlingrenhaishineiyang，zaijiedilianqingdezuchengzhong，nanshengwangwangtiaoxuanyigebizishennianjidadenvhai，gengshiyouyulingyifangdeshenshangdewanshanhekeguanxiyinzhuletamen，ernvhaiwangwanghuitiaoxuanyigebizishenxiaodenanshengchuduixiang，zeshibeitamendeshenshangdemeiliyureqingsuoxiyinzhu。

 keshibansuizhexiangchushijianyuezhang，nianlingchachanshengdefenqizishenfenbiedeshenshangdequexianmanmanpulu。nvhaibaoyuannanshenghaiziqi，guannianbuchengshu，nanshengzeganjuenvhaitaiwanshan，shuangfangdourongbujinqulingyifangdeneixinshijieyushenghuoshejiaoquan。

 zaineiyangdezhuangkuangxia，nvhaitangruoxiangwanhuinansheng，jiuxuyaochangshitishengbenshendelixing，shaoyixieshenrufenxihedaoli，duoyidianreqinghelejie，nidangshitiaoxuanlingyifangdeyuangushiyouyutademeilihereqing，zhihoujiubunengyongtadehaiziqihebuchengshufourenzheiyiqie。

不必给与过大的逼婚工作压力

jiedilianqingfenshou90%quanshiyinweiyigexiangjiehun，keshilingyigequebujiehunzaocheng de。

 nvshizhenduiyiduanhunyinguanxizuihoudeguidingquanshihunyinshenghuo，zhaoyigenengzhaoguhaozijidekekaonanshengjiale。jiedilianqingzuchengzhong，youyunvhainianlinggenggao，yinci beicuihunshibidingde。

 eryidanbeicuihun，nanshengbianhuizaoyuduozhonggongzuoyali。yifangmian，nvyoucuizhewanhun，keshiyoukanbushangzishenxinzhibuchengshu，meiyoudangdan。lingyifangmian，nvyoudeqinrenyoubukanzhongzishen，ganjuenianlingxiao，bukekao。

 erzhenduinanshengzisheneryan，yishinianlingxiao，wanquanhaibuyuanbeihunyinshenghuojushu，bujiehun。erzeshilaiyuanyunvpengyoujiweiqinrendefourenyouhuishitajuedebushangbenshendeairenshiyongjiazhi。

duozhonggongzuoyalixia，nanshengzhiyoutiaoxuanduobi，huoshilijiyongfenshoujiejuekunnan。

采用恰当的沟通方式

 aiqingpeidui,zainanxiaonvdadelianrenzuchengzhong，zuichangyushangdeyigegoutongjiaoliunantibianshi：yidanchanshengfenqi，nvhaiyouqifeichangrongyisuanpanzhufourennansheng，dakaishuojiaoshiyuyangoutongjiqiao，zheiduinanshengeryanshishifendichuhedichude。

“nizenmeneimebuchengshu?”

“niyejiubukeyixianggechengrenqidaidulisikao?”

“woyaogaosuni，niyinggaizenyangquzuo”

 yiweidefourenheshuojiaoshidegoutongfangshi，youqifeichangrongyizaochengnanshengdeqingchunqipanni，poguanposhuai，zongzhinijuedewobuxing，neiwoyebuhaoba，xiaochendiyu。

nanshengyebutaoyanbeipiping，youyuzheihuibijiaoyanzhongsunhaidaotadezizunxin。

 yinci ，aiqingmianqian,zaihebizishennianjixiaodenanshenggoutongjiaoliushi，yaoyijuxiangxiqingkuangbianhuazishendezhenshishenfen，ninengshiqinjiejie，keshilingwainishinvxing，shitadenvyou。gongpinggoutongjiaoliu，xianghulijiehenzhongyao。