爱情面前抓住男人的心理引导他主动挽回

 “aiqingqijishishenme？jiaoshi，woyaozenmezuocaikeyishitajijiwanhuiwo?”neimeaiqingmianqiandefanyingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingpeiduidewenzhangba。

 feichongmingzhidaomiehuozhihou，zishenjiangbeiranshaodaijin，quehuanshibuguyiqiedepuleshanglai。weishenmeni?youyuhuojiletayaoxiangdereqing。xiaomayibeibaochudetangkuaixiyinzhu，maozhebeipaxingdefengxianxingyiqunqun。weishenmeni?youyutangkuaijiletayaoxiangdetianmei。

 zaizheigequanshijie，yaoxianglingrenganxinqingyuan，jijiquzuoyijianshiqing，fangshizhiyouyige：jilingyifangyaoxiangdewupin。suhuashuodehao，wulibuqizao，kanbudaoxiwangdeyuanchuzaipingzhengyebuhuijiqidajiaxiangyaoqudechongdong。

 yiyangdedadaoli，fenshouhou，niyaowanhuiqiannanyou，queyouxiangweichibenshendegaoaozida，neimabawolingyifangdexinlizhuangtai，gaoqingchulingyifangdeqingganxuqiuhenzhongyao，jinyoulejietayaoxiangnaxie，caikeyibaozhengduizhengzhiliao，ranglingyifanggensuinideniantouzou，wuxunijiji，tabianhuilaolaoshishiyuenifuhexing。

zenyangcainengbawozhunanrenxinlini?nenggoucongxialiesangecengmianxiashou。

一、减弱主观意识

 henduorenwanhuibuchenggongdezhijieyuanyin，buqujueyuqingganwanquanliekai，doubuqujueyufangshiyouwu，aiqingqijishishenme？erqujueyuzhuguanyishitaimingxian，beibenshendeqingxuweihai，meifajianchidaodi。

 liru，dangnanshengmingquetichufenshouzhihou，yibufennvhainaohaizhonglishanguodebingbingbushi：“taweiheyaoyuwofenshou?”，zhishi“tazaoyixiangyuwofenshouleba!”

 yongyouneiyangdeyizhongzhuguanxingfenbianzhihou，neimawulunnanrenzenmezhuyaobiaoxian，tadoushihuijuedenanshengbianshiruguobuaile，fenhaomeiyouwanhuidegailv。

 yigerenzhuguanyishitaimingxian，tongchangzhuyaobiaoxiandehenzishen，gangbiziyong，tingbujintarendejianyi，wuluntarenzenmejitapouxi，tadounanyijianxin。

 zhuguanyishitaiqiangderen，zhongjiushimeifakaizhanhuanweisikaoyixiade，youyutamenzhijianxinzijitingjiande，jiandaode，jiqizishendefenbian，erduizhenlidekeguanxingchicaiyidexintai，zheileizhuangkuangxia，shijuebuhenyoukenengzhangwonanrenxinlide。

二、掌握男孩和女孩逻辑思维差别

 nvrenhenanrenyushengjulaijiubuyiyang，zheileibuyiyang，fanyingzaigegefangmian，yaoxiangkanchuannanrendeneixinzaixiangganshenme，zuixianjiuxuyaozhangwonanrenhenvrenyoushenmedebuyiyang。

 qinglvzaiyiqi，changchanghuiyushangdenantibianshixianghudoujuedelingyifangbumingbaizishen，wufagenshangjiezougan。zheilaiyuanyuluojisiweidechabie，nanshengkeguan，nvxinglixing。nanshengguishuyuxingdongpai，nvxingguishuyuyuyanpai。nvxingzaiyitihui，xiaibiaoshuganqing，nanshengzaihukeguanshishi，xiaichuandiluojixing。

 aiqingpeidui,nanrenhenvrendejidachabie，yejuecelenirenweishiduide，tahenyoukenengganjueshicuode，niduitadetouru，zaitalaikankenengshifulei。nizijuedezhangwota，zaitalaikandanshijiushinidezigaozida。

yinci ，yaoxiangkanchuannanren。bingbushiyongnvxingdefangfaquzhangwo，zhishiyaoyongnanshengdefangfaquzhangwo。

三、换位思考 一下 ，duolingting，duogoutongjiaoliu

 nvxingyizhiqidaizishenbuyongshuo，nanshengyekeyidongzishen，shijishang，zenmekenengni?nibushuodeshier，tahenyoukenengshizhongbumingbai，jiuhaositabuyongshuodeshier，nihenyoukenengshizhongyebuhuidong。

xianghujiangengkuaizhangwodefangfabingbushikaocai，zhishikaogoutongjiaoliu，xianghujiangchuzuizhenshideziji，ranglingyifangrenshiziji。

 nvshizaihunyinguanxizhongzuiyifandeyigebuzhengqueshi：zailurenyanqian，nenggaohaoyigelingtingzhederenwujiaose，keshizaiyingduiqinglvdeqingkuangxia，quemeiyounaixinlingting，qingxushuchuchaoguojianru。

 nimeiqukanchuannanren，zenmekenenglejienanshengdezhenzhengxiangmaoshisha。nimeizourunanshengneixin，ruhepanduantamenzaixiangganshenme，nimeiquhetazuopengyou，ruhepanduantayaoxiangdeshisha?

 aiqingmianqian,kanchuannanren，bukeyinulidezhuguanyishi，zhishiyaocongzhenlidekeguanxinghenanshitexingkaolv，zourunanshengdeneixin，chupengtashenkedeqipan。