爱一个人有错吗？明智的女性都收藏了

 aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma？ruguonitaruwanhuizheitiaolumianshi，jiudaibiaozheyaoyigerenyingduidajiadequanbuganqing。zhongjiu，zairujinzheishijianfanweili，wulunnizenmezuo，tayebuerweisuodong，naizhizongshilengmodefourenni，fourendajiadeganqing。neimeaiyigerenyoucuoma？cuoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenyouduokudewenzhangba。

 jiusuannijiyufuwuchengnuo，kujiaozhelejiebudui，yidinghuigai，danzuihoujieguoyingduidequanshitagengshendelengmo，naizhigangkaishidichuni，paichini。

 juedaduoshuyijingwanhuidenvshi，suoyingduidequanshineiyangyigexiankuang：gaoxiaolvbugao，naizhisisuojianbushangchengguo，danchengbenfeiquehengao，zheishiyigemeishenmexingjiabigaodekeguanshishi。

wangwanghuichuxiantouruchengbenfeijigao，danfenhaomeiyougaoxiaolv，tongchangshizheilianggefangmianyuangu：

①wanhuidejihuibudui，wanhuibingbushiyuekuaiyuehao，zhishijihuiyueqiadang，wanhuigaoxiaolvyuegao;

 ②weizhenshisisuoguofenshoudeyuanyin，jinjinjianyidejuedelianggerenganqingnongduzhijiangdi，yinciyizaiyonggezhonggeyangfangfaxiangzhengshizishenainita，changshihuanqitadeqingyi，danzheigenggaibushangdajiazaoyitichufenshoudekeguanshishi，naizhizongshishitagengpaichini。

 rujin，jiranbingbushiwanhuideyouliangjihui，hebupingjingxialai，xiangyixiangdajiazhongjianjiujingshishenmeyuanyin，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma？sisuoqingxifenshouyuanyin，caikeyixunzhaofangfancuoshi，xunzhaozhenshiheshiniwanhuidelu。

不是明白男人心理，才造成 两个人越来越远的吗?

shilianggerenshiyongjiazhibuduideng，daozhixianghujianmaodunyuelaiyueshen，zuihounanyirenshousanguanshangdechabie，caiyouneiyangdejieguoma?

 huanshilianggerencunyoumaodun，chuxianzhengchao，meiyouyouliangdegoutong，qianquelianghaojiejuetizhi，caizaocheng bicizhijianmaodunshengji，zuihouganqingmeifazaici?

 ziran，yehenyoukenengbenlaishijiaxingfenshou，dannidewanhuifangfabushan，buzhengquehepianjidegerenxingwei，zaocheng tichufenshoumaodunehua，zuihoushengchengzhenxingfenshou。

 wulunnayangyuangu，ruguoninengqingchudiyishidaonantideyagen，jiunengxunzhaofangfancuoshi，ruguonigangkaishigenggai，zheyanyuchulizheizhongnanti，niyejiusuanshizhenshidemaixiangleqiadangdewanhuilumian。

 ruocishinihuanshiyitouwushui，buqingchushijiyaozenyangkaizhan，hebuyizhaoxiabiandesanbuzou，xianghupeihexihuannideniantou，linghuoyingbian，yidingnengjinidewanhuitongguolvbiaodaozuida!

第一步：抽身感情，缓解关联

 zheishihoujirantachuzaipaichinidehuanjie，wulunniganshenmedoubuqizuoyong，neimejiulinshicongzheiyiduanganqingzhongchoushenchuqu，tashihuanjiexianghuxintaidezuihaofangfa。

 jinguannihenjiaolvqingxu，xinjiwanhuinideganqing，danrujinbuzhishitadepiqibaozao，nideqingkuangyehencaogao，jibian nizairuhezhuyaobiaoxian，danzheileicaogaodexintaiheqingkuang，shibuliniwanhuide。

 linshichoushenchuqu，rangxianghulizhiyiduanshijian，zaiheshidejihuizaiwanhuiba，erzheiduanshijianduinishiwanhuitiqianzhunbeidejinziqi，youyuruguoninengsikao，gangkaishigenggai，bianhuiyouyigetigao，tashiwanhuidejiben。

第二步：修复联络，出示心态

 aiyigerenyouduoku？xianghupingjingxialai，yexianzaishishihoutiqianzhunbeiwanhui。wanhuidiyibu，ziranshixiufulianluo，zhaoyigeshihedetuoci，huoshishengchanzhizaoyiciqiaoyu，dounengrangxianghuxiufulianluogan。

 zheigeshihouninengyishidao，taduinixianzhuyibuneimapaichile，zhuhenile，tadexintaiyehuanjiele，meiyoudangshimeiyoujueran，youyutayegangkaishisikaodangshidebulizhile——dantebiezhuyideshi，cishihaibingbushimingquetichuwanhuideyouliangjihui。

 nixuyaozuodebianshibawojihui，ranglianggerenzaiciqudelianxigan，shitaxiaishangyunichupengdezheizhongganjue。zheiqineijiuxiangyaoniduoyongxin，chukaigoujianlianggerenzhongjiandegoutongjiaoliuqifen，lingwaichushichongzudexintai，shitazaiyicixianrunisuochushideshiyongjiazhidangzhong。

第三步：展现转变，暖味升級

 qifenjishi，yexianzaishishihouzhanxiannidegenggai，yixiegenggainengxianshangshangshitaganshoudao，dannidewaizaizhuanbian，jinyougenjuxianxiatuiguangcaikeyishitayanqianyiliang。

 xiangrangdajiazhongjianqudejinbu，jiuxuyaoxunzhaoshihejiyu，kaizhanxianxiatuiguangyaoqing，bubizhuyaobiaoxiandetaishengying，zhaoyigeshihedejiyuheyuanyin。

 aiyigerenyoucuoma？laidaoxianxiatuiguang，bianshizuiheshiniwanhuidejiyule，tayuanyiyunipengmian，duinidebumanqingxuyeyibu，naizhixiangyaorangnijiyuzhanxianzishen。zheishihoujiuxiangyaoniyouxiaodezhuyaobiaoxiangenggai，fenweiyingzao，ranglianggerenzhongjianzaiyicizaochengxintai，nuanweishengji，xianghudeguanliandangranjiuzaidutishengle。