恋爱理论：男人如果放不下前任，会有哪些反常表现？

 lianaimoheqiyouduozhang？houtaiguanliliuyanbanliuyanzhongyizhihuiyouxierenwen：wobuhuitaimingquelingyifangjiujinghaiaiwoma，lingyifangjiaruyijianshimeiqingganle，neimawodewanhuibujiubianchengzhulandashuiyichangkonglemeiyou?zheileihuangkongbuandejuedezaiwanhuizhonghenpubian。neimelianaililunyoushenmeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaineidianshidewenzhangba。

dajiabutaikenengxiangqingxiaxianzifeidaozhizunbaodeneixinkanyikan，daodishisheiliudaoletadeneixin。

 danrendeniantoushihuigenjuyantanjuzhibiaoluchuqude，buguantaqingyiyanzangshiduoshao，ruguoninengzhuyidaoguanjiandian，jiunengfenbianchugedayue。

xiabiandajiagenjuyixieshililairangdahuoergengzhijiedetihuizheizhongguilvxing，fenbianlingyifangshibushihaishenaizheni。

实例一，一切正常联络的小陈。

 nvhaixiaochenhedajiashuo：woyunanyouyizhikekeqiqide，jishitichufenshouquanshiqingsongzizaide，bicizhijianmeishenmedademaodun，yemeishenmebuyukuai。

jinjindanchunxingdeyanfanpingfandeshenghuo，tichufenshoushiwomendoulizhiyixia。

 liangrenhaixiangyoulingyifangdelianxidianhua，keshiyehenxinyoulingxidetiaoxuanmeiqudajiaolingyifang。lianaimoheqiyouduozhang？youyulianggerenguigenjiediyijingfenshoule，zaixiangyiqianyiyangshuluodelianluo，qianquelexiangduidezhenshishenfenheguandian，zaisuonanmianganjuenankan。

tichufenshoushiliangrendeshier，fenshouzhihousheiquanshinanguode。lingyifangpachujingshangqing。

 yinci jishiliuchulianxidianhuayemeiqujijilianluo，tabuyuanzhuiyidajiayiqiandexingfu，weicilaikaizhanfangfanyishi，buhuitaitongchu。

yinci ，jiarulingyifanghaicunzhenidelianxidianhua，neimabiaomingdajiazhongjiandeqingganhuanshinengjiude。

jiarulingyifangqueshiwanquandeyanfan，fangqiledajiazhongjiandeqinggan。

 neimatayidinghuibadajiazhongjiandelianluoduandeganjingzhengjie，xiaochunidequanbuxinxi，yanbujianweijing，pingbipengyouquan，jiaruheimingdanpengyou，jiangdiyiqieyunizaochengxiangjiaodejiyu。

实例二，提出分手被昭告天下的小杨。

 xiaoyangxunzhaodajiadeqingkuangxiadaizhunaonu：zheiyihuaxinnan，qianmiangangtichufenshoujiumashangfaguoweixinpengyouquanzhaogaotianxia，haipadahuoerbuqingchutayoudanshenkeliaole，xiangyuwohuaqingguanlian?butaikenengde!zuomengba!

 lianaineidianshi，dajiakuanweitadeqingkuangxiayeganjueshifenquehan，youyuxianeryijianlingyifangzaoyixiajuexin，yibujixiaoyangnifengfanpandejiyule。yuanguqishibushihennan。

 yibanzhuangkuangxia，tichufenshoushiyijianshifenzaisandeshier。huoxuhuichiyi、bushede，ganjueliangrenyexuyeyouhenyoukeneng，zheihenyiqiezhengchang。

 keshilingyifangtiaoxuanlegongbutichufenshoukeguanshishi，jueranyoujueqing，fenhaobujizishenliuyudi，biaomingtayijingbizishenxuehuifangxia。

 zhangqidexingfukuailetanlianaiqingkuanghuranzhongguidaogududeyigerendeshenghuo，youqishixiangqiliangrenzaiyiqiqingkuangxiadexingfukuailewenrou，danshendeshenghuojiugengweinanguole。

cikefabufenshouhou，genggaodeyuangushixiangzhaogejiyuwufengpinjiexiayiwei，rangzishenjiejuegudu。

 yinci ，jiarulingyifangfenshouzhihoujihouhoudetiaoxuanbatichufenshouzheijianshiqingzhaogaotianxia，xiangdahuoershuomingzishenzaoyizhongguidanshenkeliaoqingkuang，neimahenkenengbiaomingdajiazhongjianzaoyimeiyouhuanjiedekongjianle。

实例三，分手之后仍受关心的茜茜。

qianqiangendajiaxianliaoshibiaoshi;tasantianliangtouhailaipengyouquanshibian，diangezanpinggelun，shifoutayijianshiyeyouniantoua?

lianaililun，danshiweixindianzanpingjiatingyiqiezhengchangde，woruguoxuehuifangxiaqingmianquwanhuita，ziqiqirenlegaizenmeban?