爱是什么?反复分手型恋怎么挽回？

 xuduo qingkuangxia，renyizhizhuomobutoude，yizhizaihuodexingfukuailehouhusiluanxiang，aiqingjiuxiangluozuanyiyang，bukeyichangchangshuai，jinguanbusuibianshuaihuai，keshiliefengduolezhongguishibukeyijizhide。neimeaishizenmeyihuishini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishishenmenidewenzhangba。

 youshi，aiqingjiuxiangchuizhiguoshancheyiyang，liuanhuaming，zaiyiqile，tongjushenghuole，xiangaile，zhengchaole，hehaola，fenlile，youzhengchaole，buduandefanfuzheiyiquanguocheng，laidaoqingganqueshiyuelaiyuewufamibule，caihuilaisisuoganqingjiujingyoumuyoucuo。

 henduorenyebumingbai，weiheqingganhuranbianhuiyuelaiyueshengshule，weihefuhexinghoulingyifangyoumingquetichufenshou，zhenzhengdeaiqingshizenyangyiyezhijianchuangjianyouzenyangyiyezhijianxiaotui?

neimabuduanxingdeqinglvhuiyounaxietedianni?

1、太过明显的自身与太过的烂漫剧情

yibanbuduanxingtichufenshoudeqinglvdoushihuiyou：

(1)、mingxiandeziworentong

(2)、zunchongyouqingyinshuibaodezhenzhengdeaiqingxinnian

(3)、juedelanmanshikuafuzhuridetaiyangguang。

2、没有安全感

 zhiqiandegaoxinkejimeiyouneimefazhan，dahuoermenquanshiyongxinjiangoutongjiaoliu，zhihoubianweifasongyoujian、duanxiaoxigoutongjiaoliu，zaizhihoujiubianweijishigoutongjiaoliu、shipintonghua，jinguanrujindajiadegoutongjiaoliugoutongjiaoliubianjiele，keshiyetuxianleyigenanti，yingyongshejiaoruanjiangoutongjiaoliu，erqiequefasisuoshijian，tongchanggengweisuikoushuochu，bubianyuyanzang，shanglelingyifangshangdaobenshen。

 erbuduanxingqinglvjiaoda denantibianshitaiguoqingjiyulianxidianhuachanshengdejingshenliliang，guoduodeyikaozheileijingshenliliang，conglaibuchuqupengmian，neimalaidaozuizhongbianhuizaocheng lebicideyouhaodubuzule.

 zaiqingganlizuihaoshidefangshihuanshichuxianduopengmian，wulundajiajianjuduoyuanbixuxuehaoruguonizuozhongtedadejuecedeqingkuangxia，dangzhonggoutongjiaoliu，youyuyoudeqingkuangxia，yixieshierbudangzhongshuoqingxi，huizaocheng ledajialiuyoushizhongdequehan。

3、善于消耗战，占有欲，不计后果

buduanxingdeqinglv，yizhifeichangrongyiyixinshengangui，youjiduanzhuyidegerenxingwei。

就例如：

xiaiyishengbushang，jiuyaolingyifangqiyeduren，qutamenjianao，naodeguangweirenzhi

youhuoshigangshuotichufenshoujiuqiangzhiposhilingyifangbazijideshoujishangweixinlahei。

keshiguohoulikehouhuimojiwanhuichengrencuowu。

 zheiqueshihuiranglingyifangyitouwushui，ganjuenizheigerenhenweixian，ninengweixiedaotadeqinren，neimatabianhuigengweidejuecegennitichufenshoushiqiadangdejuece。

 yizhiduilingyifangdeyiwangnanyishihuai，yizhitishenglingyifangdedaodedixian，yierzaideyanjiulingyifangdeyinsibaohu。buzixinquefazixin，yizhixiangxianglingyifangwaiyu，jiqinglvkoushangmoxuyoudezuixing，suihouwuyuanwugudechizelingyifang，shijishanglingyifangyagenjiumeiyouzuobaoqiannideshiqing。

neimagairuhechulizheileinantini?

1、更改沟通交流方法

 aishizenmeyihuishi?dangpengdaozheiyizhuangkuangdeqingkuangxia，womendouyaoxuehaofangzhibaganqingsuoyoujiaodaodianhuahejiaoyouruanjian，suihouwomenyaofangzhibaquanbudeshiqingdouhuijiaoyouruanjianshangsuoyoushuomingbai。

 youyuneibanhuizaocheng ，zaiwomenpengmiandeqingkuangxiabianhuishenxianmeihuakeliaodejiongjing，dangdajiayizhidouchuzaipengmiandoumeiyouhuashuodeqingkuang，neimashijianyizhangdajiajiubuyuanyichuqupengmianle，yaolejiezhengchaobukongbu，kongbudeshizhangqixingjileizaixinlidebuyue，youzongshigenjuweixinyiwenbendefangshifajilingyifang，bukeyilingjulidejiejuekunnan。

2、选准自身的精准定位

 dajiazairichangshenghuozhongyaoxunzhaozishendejingzhundingwei，rangzishenyuelaiyueyulaiyuchuse，neimazuixianwomenzaigongzuozhongdeqingkuangxia，jiudefangzhiyouyuqingganwentizaocheng deqingxubodongweihaidaodajiagongzuozhiliangdeyoulie。

 youxierenyizhihuozaixiaoshuojizhong，yizhirenweitanlianaibianshiquannengde，wuxuyongcan，danxinyouyanjiangcu，keshishijishangshenghuoshicanrende，dajiabixugongzuozhongyuyurenxiangchu，yinci weilegenghaodilingyifangsheqizishendegerenaihaohegongzuozhongshishifenfumianxinxideyizhonggerenxingwei，naizhihuiranglingyifangjuedenishiyigebuqiushangjinderen。

3、调整个人行为与心态的

 youxierenbianhuiganjuezishendebugaoxingquanshilaiyuanyuyulingyifanghewaibu，yizhiganjuezishenmeiyoucuo，suihouyicuozaicuo，ranglingyifangjuededaorichangshenghuoguodechuxianyichangjianxin。

yeyouderen，fenshoufuheyouyouyuzuoerzaocheng letichufenshou，yizhifanfudeweixieyuwanhuilingyifang。

shubuzhineibanzongshiranglingyifangrenqingchunidezhaoshu，xuehaobianbiezishengerenxingweidepianzhiyuyiqiezhengchang，qiadangdebiaoshuxintai。

erbushibeixintaisuocaozong，qubiaoshunideniantou。

banshijianghuayiqianbuduanqusisuo，yaoqingxishuo、zuozheizhongshier，shifouhuiranglingyifangzaochengyanfan。

aishishenmeni?nixuyaoqingxinishichengrenle，yaojizijishuodehua，zuodeshi,danfuxiangduidebuliangyingxiang!