爱是什么?想和他再次进入热恋期就得这么做

zirelianzhihou，lianggerendeqingganpingxingxianjiangdi?neimeaishizenmeyihuishini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishishenmenidewenzhangba。

zhangqixingjiaowang，chuyupingdanqi，xianghuqinggannongduzhibuzengfanhaidi，tazhijieshuomeiyouganjuele，mingquetichutichufenshou?

yingduineiyangdezhuangkuang，juedaduoshunvshiyaobushiyoukuyounao，yaobubianshibuduandibiaoshu。dannanrenshigengjiakeguande，zaitadexinlingshenchu，zaozaoyixiangqingxi，pingdingjieguo。yinci ，wulunnizenmejieshi，wulunnizenyangyoukuyounao，douburongyihezhiqianyiyang，nishihennanshuofutade。

ziran，nixinlingshenchugengqidaideshilianggerenzaicihuidaocongqiandeqingkuang，xianghujianzaiduxiangyouqinggandexingfu。

aishizenmeyihuishi?laoxiangshibuzude，zaizhengjiunideaiqingqian，yaomingbaidajiaqingganbianqian，yizhiyutamingquetichufenshoudeyuanyin。

shilianaiyihou，lianggerendechabieyuelaiyueda?huanshigongtongyuyantaishao?huoshigoutongjiaoliubuzu，xianghudekuanrongshuipingbugou?huanshishifangyalida，meijitamenchongzudeshineikongjian?

nanshimingquetichutichufenshou，yidingshilijingshenzhongkaolvde，jibian tazuizhongjiangguoxuduo yuanyin，“bushihe”“ganjuebuhao”“jianjuyuangu”……dantongchangjinjintuituo，zhenshideyuanguhaixiangyaoniqufajue。

xiangqingxinantidezhongyao，jiuxuyaojinxingwanliu。ziran，wanliubiezheji，yaotizaozuohaotiqianzhunbei。

提前准备1：心理建设

xiangqingxinidewanliumudi，shichuziyubugan，naizhishiyoudianyixiejingtixin，huanshiqueshishebude，buyuanyiyiqiedoujieshule，bingqiexinliduilianggerenzhongxinzailaishi，youchongzudezhangwonenggoujinjincaokongni?

xiangqingxizheizhongnanti，zaiwanliuyeganbuji，zhongjiuzheilijijuecezheniwanliudemudi，gengweihaizhenidexinlizhuangtai。

wanliushidexinlizhuangtaishijiweizhongyaode，youyuzaiwanliuzheijianshiqingshang，ninengpengdaogeshigeyangdeshi，zaiwanliuqinggandeqianqi，beijujuebeipaichiquanshichangtaihua。

youqiangjingdexinlizhuangtai，caikeyiyingduiwanliuquanguochengzhongdegezhonggeyangchuxianyichang。

提前准备2：调节情绪

nideqingxuzhuangtaiyeweihaizhelingyifang，ruoyiranzhuyaobiaoxianchuqudehuanshilaoyangzi，rengranshicaogaodexintai，tayouzenmekenenghuizaicijiyujieshouni?xiangyixiangyelejie，jiusuangennizaicilaidaoyiqi，danyixieyemeiyougenggai，youzenmekenengburongyizaimaixiangyiyangdejieguoni?

rensheidoubuyuanyijienayigeneiyangdeni。xiangwanliunideqinggan，jiuxuyaoxunsudiaozhengzishendexintai，rangzishenkuaisuhuifulianghaodeqingkuang，zuishaorangnanshiyibupaichini，caiyoupingxinjingqigoutongjiaoliudejiyu。

提前准备3：更改自身

dangqingganmanmanbaituoshi，niyeyaojianchibuxiebuhuigaibian，rengranshilaoyangzima?

yichengbubian，huishinizaiqingganzhongyuelaiyuechuyubeidong，shishishang，qingganshizhuanbiande，niyebixugensuibian，rongheairendeyaoqiu，zuochushidudegenggai，zheiyeshirangqingganlengzangdeyuangu。

danshi，jibian lianggerenqingganzaoyiyouliefeng，danrujingenggaiyeshidouhaimeide，xiangyixiangqingganchuxianliefengdeyuangu，sisuoyixiatasuoqidaide，suihouzuochunidegenggai。

ruguonigenggaidefangweimeiyoucuo，yiqiedouchaozheqiadangdefangweikaizhan，nidegaibianbianhuishitayanqianyiliang，zheijiushinihuifuqinggandezuihaotupokou，yeshirangdajiazaicijindaoreliandequebao。

wanliu，queshimeibiyaoneimaxinji，jiusuandangqingganchuxianliefeng，niyaodiyishijianhuifu，danhaiyaoxiangyixiang，niyoushenmezichanni?

xianghuifuqinggan，ranglianggerenqinggannongduzhitisheng，zaicifanhuirelianneibandexingfu，jiuxuyaozuohaozhunbeigongzuo，rangzishenhuanjiechulai，yijiangdilingyifangdebumanqingxu，weizijiyigegenggaideshijian，shitayougennizhongxinzailaideniantou，zheicaisuanshizuiheshidewanliubuzhou。

aishishenmeni?wuxuyoukuyounao，yemeibiyaotaiguodijian，wanliuzheijianshiqing，heqingganshiyiyangde，yigebazhangpaibuxiang，ruguoniqinfen，nizuochugenggai，jibian meiyouhaojieguo，danzuishaonizaiciyuelaiyuehenchuse，rangzishenchaozhegengxingfudefangweifazhanqushi，bugengshizuihaoshidejieguoma?