爱的艺术是什么？聪明女人懂得这样挽回

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xueshengyiduoduozhaodaowoshi，kudehaotaodaku，tagaosuwo：

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下列为一朵朵自诉：

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 shangshangxingqigangkaishi，taxiangfashengbianhuayigerenyiyang，zhiqianqueshishishajiawuhuoyebuzuo，jishifeiqiwuluozaitajiaobianyebudaijiande，huranyuelaiyuehenqinlao，youshihaihenzaohuijiamaishuiguozhufan。

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sheikeyixiangqi，zheihaimeiguoduojiu，tajurangenwotiliyi……

aideyishuyoushenmeni？suihuashuo“wushixianyinqin，feijianjidao”。