恋爱中的人经营婚姻指南

 lianaizhongderen，shiqizaibian，hunyinshenghuozhongdenvrenhenanrenyezaibian，danchunxingdegaohaoyigehaoqiziyexubuzula。tebieshizaijiandaozhangfuchuguideshilizheimeduo，jinishiduoshaozhangwojianxinzijidezhangfuyidingburongyiwaiyuni?jianxinmeiyoujigerendehuidashibaifenzhibai。dangran，zhenduizhangfuchuguizheijianshiqinglaopobingbushichedideshushouwuce，dajiahuanshinenggoutongguoxuexiyixiehunyinjingyingdefangfa，jiangzhangfuchuguidejilvjiangzhizuishaode。neimelianaiyuhunyinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaiyizhounianwenzhangba。

一、女性太顾家家居并不是好事儿，家是两人的，应当一起来运营

 qiantitiaojianquanshiweitayuxiaohaierxiangerzuo，zhangciyiwang，jiadeyiwujiuquanlaidaoyirendeshenshang，taganjueyiqieneiyangcaiquanshiyiqiezhengchangde，ruoyouyitian，niyaoguidingtajiniweijiaganshenme，bianyinqifangan。

 hunyinjingyingtixing：bianshifentanjiatingzeren，jianjiandiyaobazhongxindianjiaodaonansheng，zishenfuzhujiuxing，buyongjingcheng，lianaizhongderen，zuizhongleidaobansibuhuoqiebuquyue。jiawuhuoyedefentanyibufen，yaoburanzhenderenweijiawubuxingkua。

二、小孩要夫妇一起带，婚姻生活中的单身妈妈作法不可取

 dabufenmuqinyizhiduduanzhuanxinglexiaohaidechichuanzhuxinghexuexipeixun，zhuanzhangkehoufudaonaxiede，fuqinmenmeitianhanzhegongzuozhong、jiaojideguanggaopaiyongyou dabashijianwuqu，haiyiweijiazhongmeiyourenguanzhu，yinci daowaibianwangzhaorehe。

 hunyinjingyingtixing：biewangleletashixiaohaidebaba，weixiaohaizuoxieshenmejiaolisuoyingdangde，shitaduopeixiaohaiyuanbipeiqitanvshihao。

三、自身一定要身心健康好看

 shentishibenqian，yidingyaoaihuhao，yongtadehua“zishenzhaoguhaonizijihaola，niruguoshengbingle，woshiburongyiguannide。”gangtingzheijuhuashiqidehen，houbianyixiangyanzhiyouli，zishenyebushandaiziji，bierenzennengaizhenini。

hunyinjingyingtixing：yishixiandiaolirenti，jiankangdiyi，ershihaohaodidaban，renhaokanleqingxudangranyekeyihaoxuduo 。

四、不必总惦记着去更改他

 zhangzheimeda，meiyigerendouchanshengleyitaozishenjiaoweizhongaidegerenxingweifangfahejiazhiguannian，feidebierenrenkenideneiyitao，neiwodecuozhaochaerma?

 hunyinjingyingtixing：haodehunyinyinggaishiweilegenghaodirangxianghurichangshenghuodegengqiang，erbushibalingyifangbianweizishenyaoxiangderen。rongxulingyifangguozishenxiangyaodeshenghuo，yaoshibuhekaopupianyiguoduojiuyingdangnenggoujiena。

wu、jingjifazhanshiquanyaozhangwo，yufangxinbunengshao

 wangrizongtingtashuodaoxinshuibuzuzishenyong，jieguojiububitayifen，zuizhongguoduantajiuzhudongdaoxiaohaidoubuyangle，yinweizongmeikanjianzheigeshaoguoqianyong，zaixiongxiandeqingkuangxia，yekeyiwuxutajiunengdaidaoqian，haikuanneizirangengwuxutale，zongzhijiazhongyouxierentaoqianle，zishendeqian，yongyuquyuelianrengangzhenghao。

 hunyinjingyingtixing：jishinanshengqianzaishao，yedehehuilaiyong，suiranjiaolaidebiquzoudeshao，zongyaoyouyigedezhidewangxiang，yaoburannvshizishenxinqinhuasuanyangjiahukou，neiliqitanvshihuaqianruliushuibangniquanyongle。qiejingjifazhancengmianbudebuyufang，sifangzuyizhiyaoyoude。

六、不工作中没事儿，但是要有自身的经济来源

 youmuyouxuanbugongzuozhongdaomeiyouguanjian，ziranyouyigehaodegongzuoshizuiweianquanxing，tangruomeiyou，yedexuehaozuoxiexiangmutouzihuoshinaxiede，zongzhijiushi，denengyouzishenzhonghuozishendegongzuonengli。

 hunyinjingyingtixing：zuoxiangmutouziyibuduanquebaozishendulishenghuo，lianaiyuhunyin,weigongzuozhongzuozhunbeidianchichongdian，suishisuidizhuyihenyoukenengdetouzijihui，weisuishisuidihenyoukenengchanshengdebuxingzuozhunbei。

七、婆媳之间情难忱

poxizhijianshikexing，tashisuhuale。

 hunyinjingyingtixing：xinggebuhe，jishile，gonggongpopoaizawanrangtamenzijiwanqu，wuxujiezhao，wuxujiejue，youyunihuifajueniyijiezhaoshierjiumafanle，rutongyigerenmeifachangyitaixiyiyang，nimeilitamenzheixiejiliang，tamenzijiyeganjuemeiweierle，fandaojiumeiyoushenmehaoxiazhetengle。

 zongjie：lianaiyizhounian,hunyinshenghuoshiliangrende，nvxingbukeyibananshengneifenyiwuyelaguolai，neiyaonanshengganshenme?nannvzaiyiqiguoshenghuo，zenyangjiaowangshiyimenzaoxingyishu，nvrenyaoxuexipeixunhenanshengjiaowangdezaoxingyishu，xuexipeixunzenyangyunyingzishendehunyinshenghuo，caikeyiyouzhemeimanhunyin。