恋爱中的人父母反对的爱情怎么面对?

 lianaizhongderen，wojinnian25sui，henanpengyoushizaibiyehouhougongzuoshanglejiede，qingganfeichanghao。zailejiexiannanyouyiqian，wojiaoleyigenanyou，haizuoleyicirengongliuchan，cihouwoyuelaiyuebuzixin，naizhicaiyizishenkefouzaiyunqi，danyouzishenzhihoudezhangfuhuixianqiwo。ziran，zheizhongshierwohaimeiganhebabamamashuo，xiannanyoushilejiede，tahuanshiyirujiwangdeyijianshihao。neimelianaiyuhunyinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaiyizhounianwenzhangba。

今年春节的情况下，爸爸妈妈问及男朋友的事儿，我也属实相告了，没想到爸爸妈妈我们的爱，原因以下：

1.nanpengyouwenpingbugao，doumeiyouyimenshanzhangdejishuxing。

2.tajiazhongbiaozhunbingbushifeichanghao，genwojiabubanpei。

 weilegenghaodizheijianshiqing，wogenbabamamadachaodanaoleyijia，jinguannanpengyoubiaozhunbingbushifeichanghao，keshitahenqinfen，shigechengzhanggu，duinihenhao，yehentiexin，zheizhongdouyaowowufageshe。

 zhihou，bansuizheqinrenchixushijiayali，shenpangpengyouyeshuciquanjie，shuobuguanzenyangdouburongyijienawomenzaiyiqi，wogangkaishishenzhongkaolvwogennanpengyoudeguanlian。huoxushixinlizhuangtaishangdebianhua，wofaxiangennanpengyoumeishiduoshaogongtonghuati，womenzaijingshencengmianshangdegoutongjiaoliujiannan，weirenchushidefangfayebuyiyang，jiashangzhoubianrendedizhi，jianjiandidewoduitadeqingganzaochengleyaobaibuding。

 keshi，wowoyebuzhidaogaizenyangquwanbineiyangyiduanqinggan。yiqianyougentatiguotichufenshou，meiyicidouyouyutadepianzhiyoulaidaoyiqi。youguanqinrendedizhi，nanpengyouyezuolexuduo qinfen，keshimeishenmejinzhan。

 woneixinhenfenqi，womingbaigentazaiyiqiburongyiyoujieguo，lixingshangyelejieyingdangjinkuaiwanbizheiyiduanqinggan，bubidangeta，keshizisizilideniantouyouzaitishiwo，huoxucuoguota，wozaiyebunengxunzhaoyigexiangtaneiyangyijianshihaoderenle，yecaiyizishenkefouzaijienaqitanansheng。yingduibabamamadizhideganqing，woqueshibuqingchuyinggaizenmebanle?

【分析】：

 nideyilaiganjiaoqiang，duiqingganwentimeifaduli，bijiaoduodiqujueyubabamamajipengyoudejianyi，jieguo，yaobaibuding，nanxiaxuanze。shijishang，qinggandeshijinyouzishenzuiqingxi，guoduzaiyitarendejianyi，zhiyourangzishenxinpohunluan，gengweideshouzuwucuo。xiabianjiushiwodepouxijitiyi：

一﹑用什么的态度应对爸爸妈妈抵制的感情

 babamamadizhiernvdeganqing，daduoshushiweilegenghaodiernvhao，qidaiernvxingfukuaile。congnibabamamamingquetichudelianggendizhiyuanyinkanlai，suirankanqilaishijixie，zhenyingxie，danzheizhongyaosudequeshiguandaohunyinshenghuodexingfukuaile。

 liru：wenpingjimendiqingkuangdechabiehuizaocheng jinhoujiaowangjigoutongjiaoliudengfangmiandezhongduonanti;erwuyijizhizhang，　lianaizhongderen，henyoukenengjinhouhuishenxian“huannanfuqibaishiai“dechujing。

 danyiqieshierdoubingbushikendingde，richangshenghuo，yixie“menbushan，hucuowude”rendingzhebabamamadegongzuoyalijiehunle，richangshenghuodezhenxingfubingzuihouhuodebabamamadezhuyuan;youderenbuguanbugubabamamadedizhiqinglvjiehunhou，hunyinshenghuohenbeiju，caijingxing“butinglaorenyan，chidakuizaiyanxia”dedadaoli。yinci ，zailejiebabamamayifankuxindelingwai，yaoshensishulvbabamamadizhidenantishibushicunyou，shibushiyouxiao?dajiakefougenjuqinfen，jiejuekunnan，rangbabamamaanxin?qianwanbiemangmugenfengdipanni，genbabamamajiaojinger。

 tangruo，queshiai，queshiyaozhengdezheiyifenqinggan，nenggoujiangneiyiduantanlianaibuchenggongshenzhirengongliuchandelijinggaozhibabamama，jianshaotamenduiniganqingdeqidaizhi;yejiangnanpengyouzaizhiqingrenhouduinidezunzhonghekuanrongduibabamamahaowubaoliudechuanjijiamengshang，genggaibabamamaduitadeqianjiayinxiang，jianjiandihemutayunibabamamazhongjiandeguanlian，zhidaotamenjieshoubingshiyongyijing。

 zaibabamamayunanpengyoudezhengduozhong，zishenyaozuohaorunhuaye，liangcehongquan，zongzhininianjihaixiao，tuoliangnian，dengbabamamabeidajiadechixindadong，dengzheniduizheiyifenqingganmanhuaixinxin，zhangwoshizushi，zaiyanjiehundoubuchi。

二﹑再次审视自己的情感

 zainideshushuozhong，bijiaoduodeshitanqinanpengyouduinideai，lianaiyuhunyin,duinidehao，nijinjinyouyutabuxianqini，yiweiduinihao，caiwangbudiaozheiyiduanqinggande。danwojuedetishini，meiyousuoyourennengwuyuanbuqiudiduilingyigerenhaoyibeizi。taaizhenishixiwangniaita，taduinihaobidingyeqidaihuodeniduitadehao，zhenzhengdeganqingshihujingyugongpingde。

 nihebufangongzisheng，niaitama?niduitahaome?taiguoqujueyuyifenaierwugongzuonenglitouruai，zheizhongaizhongguibulaogu。youqishidangtafangshoubuxihuanshi，nijiangyuanhecunshen?

 yeyou，meiyousuoyourennengquebaonijiajitajiuyidingxingfukuaile，youyutanlianaikaoreqing，hunyinshenghuokaoyunying;neixinqiangda，jingyingyoushucaiyoukenengzhangjiu，erzaizheigequanguochengzhong，hunyinshenghuozishenyezaoyugezhonggeyangyinyou，tianmangezhonggeyangbianhua。youqishi：tabaoweiganqingdepianzhifangshiyefeichangzhidenijingxing，youyuguodupianzhiqianquebaorongdeaiyefeichangrongyilingrenshixi。

 ziran，yemeirengandaikuandanbao，niliqutayidingnenggouxunzhaoaizhenizhishenderen，qingganyaoyiqiesuiyuan，sheqiubuke。yiner，qingganwenti，zuihouhaibixuzishenzuochuxuanze，nizhiyoutingpingxinlidejuedezuochuzishenzuiyaoxiangdetiaoxuan，yidantiaoxuanlejiudangdanjiujing，buhuitou，zuodeziji，juebuhouhuicaihao!

 lianaiyizhounian,tangruorujinrengranmeifaxuanze，hebujiangxiangqinjiehundeshierfangyixia，duohenxiagongfuyuedu，gongzuozhong，qinfentigaozijidesiwei，gaibianxianzhuangxiaiyikaotarenderuodian。yeyunyongniduinanpengyoudezhimingdujilitazaigongzuoshangjijizhudongchuangdang，bingquanmiantigaozishendexuelicengci。daidajiazhongjiandechabiebianxiao，liangrendouyuelaiyuegengwanshan，gengyouxinxinshi，zaixiangqinjiehundoubuchi。