怎么会爱上这个人?如何打败第三者？

 zenmeaini？xiangjibaidisanzhe，jiuxuyaoxianzhangwodisanzhexinlizhuangtai，zhibizhijicaikeyibaizhanbudai。xiangneileiboguangdisanzheyifukuzienzaidimianshangdadefangfaxinshiqidenvshihuanshibunengyongle，jinguanjingyanjiaoxunledisanzhe，danshizanzishenyegensuijiangjiaya!dajiaxianlailejieyixiadisanzhezenmehuibianchengdisanzhe?neimezenmehuiaishangleta？aishangtayounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanzenmehuiaishangzheigerendewenzhangba。

第一类第三者、痴迷己婚男士的完善和贴心

 zheileidisanzhe，yidanpengdaoyigewanshantiexinyoukeyiguanaiguanhuaitadenanshi，jibian zheigenanrenzaoyiyouhunzaishen，yexiangyaoheneiyangdenanshengzaiyiqi，qixuyuweilaiyouyitianlingyifangkeyiliyi，zuizhongchengweizhengguo。keshidabufenneiyangdenvshinanyishishishunxin。youyuquefaguishugan，neiyangdenvshiquefaziwojiazhi，duinanshenghuihenmaiyuanhekeke，erqiedabufenhuichengshoubushang"disanzhe"dedidizhenshishenfenerposhinanrenlihun，huoyiyunqidengfangfaweibinansheng，dannanshengtiaoxuandejieguodabufenshiyuanxiandehunyinshenghuo。neiyangde"disanzhe"xuduo jiejuhejieguofeichangcan，juedebeibierenmengpianhuopanbian，jiduanhuadehuitiaoxuanzinvehuozijin。

第二类第三者、以击败另一个女人为快乐

 yixiebeichengzuo"yushengjulaidisanzhe"denvshi，gecengmianbiaozhundouchuse，jingjifazhanhejingshenshizhishangdoubuyikaonansheng，zenmeaini？keshizaihunyinguanxizhongyouyizhongxinliniuqudeyaoqiu，neibianshi"disanzhezonghezheng"。yinweiduiyixingpengyouguanliandejidukongjuhewaiqu，cushizheileinvshimeifagenjuyiqiezhengchangdehunyinshenghuoheganqingguanlianhuodekaolv，erzhiyougenjuyuqitanvshijiaozhulaogonglaidedao xinliniuqudeganqingkaolv，zheileinvshidabufenpoyoufengcai，zairichangshenghuozhongdoubuquefayixingpengyou，keshiquemeifawanchengzhenshihunyinguanxidechuangjianhebaochi。

tamendekuailequjueyujibailingyigenvren，yidanqueshihuodeyebianjuefawei。

第三类第三者、源于恋父情结

 tamenzheiyirenqunduijihunwanshannanshiyouyizhongyouqidehaogandu，zenmehuiaishangzheigeren？bingqiejuebugulvlingyifangjihundekeguanshishi，buguyiqieshijizuaifengkuangzhuiqiuwanmeilingyifang。liruzaishijizhongyixienvhaierhuimishangbizishennianjidaxuduo dehunwaiqingren，jibian zishenzhongpanqinliyezaisuobuci。jibian zailingyifangbunenggoujiyuyiqiehunyinshenghuofuwuchengnuodeqiantitiaojianxia，rengranxiangyaoweichihunwaiqingren，ganxinqingyuanyi"disanzhe"dezhenshishenfenyulingyifangjiaowang。

第四类第三者、受文化教育低或不自信，贪图享受

 yeshiyouweishubushaodenvshibiancheng"disanzhe"shiyouyupoyoufengzi，keshiyouyushouwenhuajiaoyudihuobuzixindengyuangu，daozhihaochilanzuo，dabufenjihunchenggongnanrenbianchengzheilei"disanzhe"dezongtimubiao。mingyuliyingxianglihecaifubianchengzheileinvshibiancheng"disanzhe"degonglixingyaosu，jiaruzheizhonghuodekaolv，jibian bukeyimingmeizhengqu，haikeyitanranjieshou。

 zongjie：zenmehuiaishangleta？xiangyaobaoweihunyin，jibaidisanzhe，laopomenjiuyaogaoqingxidisanzhewangwangkanshangzishennanshengdezhuguanyinsu，tajiujingchuziyunaxiedexinlizhuangtai，taxiangyaodeshisha，tadequedianzainaer，lejielezheizhong，niduijibaidisanzhedenanduxishubianhuifeichangqingchu，yejiuburongyiyouneimeduoduziyirenshenshangdeyelile。