爱的语言有哪些呢？如何提高社交能力

aidoushiduidema？youxierenjuedeshejiaomeitishihenqingqingsongsongdeshi，bingnengxiangyouquanbuquanguocheng。danmianbuleyeshiyounankanhuozhejiaolvqingxudeqingkuangxia。zheixiefeichangrongyihaixiuderenjiugengbieshuohua，tamenyidaolurenyanqianjiulianfahong。haiyouderen，mangliugongzuozhonghekeye，lianshejiaomeitideshijianyemeiyou。wulunnishinayangren，dounenggouduyixiabenwen，tisheng niderenjijiaowangnengli。neimeaideyonghengyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyuyandewenzhangba。

ruhetigaorenjijiaowangnenglifangshi1:

1、看一下自身怎么会没有安全感。

meiyigerendoushiyoumeiyouanquangandeqingkuangxia，danjiaruniyizhineiyang，neibianshinidexinxinbuzu。meiridouzishenzeguaizishendebugouhuijiniyulaiyuxiaoji。yinci zaikuijiushi，xuezhepouxiyixiashenmeshikeguandeziworenshi，shenmeshibubiyaodeminganduoyi。

•shibushiniyizhiganjuezishenmeiyoushenmeyouhuolihuozhehenwuliao?huoshinijuedezishenshigeguaiying，buzuyouzerengan?zheizhongxiaochendeniantoudoushihuijinimeiyouzixinxin，buzuxinggewaixiang，haihuijixujiniderichangshenghuobufengfu。

•jiarunimeiguliziji，binglejiedaozishendeshiyongjiazhidehua，neishibukeyizuoyigeshanyurenjijiaowangderende。

•youshidajiahuixiguanzheizhongfumianxinxideguannian，tashijiuyingdanggangkaishiliuyidajiadeneixin。

2、学着解决这些消沉的观念。

liruyidangangkaishixiaochenshi，jiugaozhizishennibuyaoquxiangta。ninengshiyixiaxiabiandefangfa：

•zuixian，renkezheixiecuowusixiangdecunyou。bishangyan，bingxiangyixiangwenshenmeninengneimexiang。aidoushiduidema？gaozhizishen，neiyangdeniantoushixiaochende，bingjianjiandixiaohuaxishouta，zhizhixiaotui。

•baxiaochendeguannianbianhuanweijijizhudongguannian。lirunijuedezishenyoudianerpang，neimejiububiyizhigaozhizishen“wohenfei!”gaozhizishen“woyaojianfeishoushen，neiyangwoyegengyouyouhuolile!"neiyangniyejiubaxiaochendeguannianbianhuaweijijizhudongdeguannianle。

•yidanniyongyouxiaochendeniantou，jiuyong3zhongjijizhudongdeniantoutidai。

•jijizhudongdeweirenchushigongzuonenglinengjiniyuelaiyuegengshanyurenjijiaowang，meiyourenxiangyaoheyitiandaowanmaiyuanderenzaiyiqi。

3、写出个人优点。

aideyuyan,beijudeshi，dajiahuaguoduodeshijianlaitishengzijiquewangjilelejiegerenyoudian、caikeyihehaodebenxing。wenyiwenzishenxiabiandenanti：

•niyiqianzuolenaxierangzishenzihaodeshi?

•daoxianzaiyijingzuirangzishenyinyiweihaodeshiershisha?

•niyoushenmeyangdeyouqidecaikeyi?

•dajiazaikuazannideshihouhuizenmejiang?

•nijitarenderichangshenghuodailaidaonaxiejijizhudongdeweihai?

4、不必把自己和他人比。

dajiameiyouanquangandefeichangdayibufenyuangushihenduorenxiainazishendequedianlaibitarendeyoudian。

•jilaozaiguangxianlianglidebiaomianxia，meiyigerendoushiyoutongchudeqingkuangxia。jiaruniyizhizaicaiceweihetarenbiwokaixin，shijishangkaixinhebukaixinquanshixinlizhuangtaidenanti。

•jiaruniyizhizaikantarenyouduomedehao，neimejiumeiyouhuolirangzishenbianchengyigegengquwei，gengyoufengcaiderenle。

5、记得你并不是宇宙的中心。

zheixieneixinquefaanquanganderenyizhiganjuetarenhuiguanxinta，pengjitahuozhequxiaota。ziran，nibushiyinshenren，danshiniyewuxuganjuetarendouhuikanzhenihuozhexiaoni。meiyigerendoushiyouzishenderichangshenghuo，burongyiyizhiquguanxinni。jibian niganlenaxiegaoxiaodeshi，yilianggexiaoshihou，dajiayehuiwangdezhengjiele，huoxunizijiquehuixianghenzhangqi。

•bubiganjuetarenyizhikanzhenihuozheduinipintoulunzu，shifangyalikeyishinizaitarenyanqianzhuyaobiaoxiandegengshifangyali，goutongjiaoliuyegengqingsongzizai。

•aideyongheng,bubiganjuetarenyizhidingzhunikankan，heniyiyang，meiyigerendougengguanxinzishenderichangshenghuo。