爱是甜的,思维差异和安全感

 aishitiande，xiangqizheiyi，shijishanglaiziyigexinlixiqqqundetantao，youyitian，yiweitongxuemenzaiqunneilejienaliyoulianaiguanxituantifudaodecailiao，yaoneileixunliannanhaihenvhaigoutongjiaoliuhelejieluojisiweichabiede。yinci，dahuoerzaiqunneijiuzheigehuatitaolunliaokaiguo：neimeaishiyiciyicidelunhuiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishiyiqiededaandewenzhangba。

 “shuodaonanhaihenvhailuojisiweichabie，zaiwangshangyouyigechaoxiaobubianshijiangzheiyidema!dagaibianshinvdepiaopiaosasaxielemanmandeyipian，caixiangnandeweihexinqingyumen，shifouyouhunhouchuguilashifoubuaiwolazheilei，shadouxiangqile……nanshengdesuibiqueshi：made，yidaliguojiaduiyoushudiao!”

“zheigennanhaihenvhailuojisiweichabiemeishier，genguishuganyouguanxi，youyumeianquangandenandeyehenyoukenengneimexiang。”

 “danhuoxudaozhimeianquangandeyuangu，bianshiluojisiweichabie——duitongyiexingshijiandebuyiyanglejiezaocheng leguishuganchabie。”

 “weiheneimeshuoni?zainantongxinglianzhongyehuicunyouyifangjiaoyouguishugan，yifangjiaomeianquangandezhuangkuang，danshilianggerenquanshinansheng，luojisiweilidangyiyang，zheiyegenluojisiweichabiexiangguan?”

 “nanhaihenvhailuojisiweichabiezaizenmejiangyeshicunyoude，nantongluojisiweichabie，kenengshimeianquangandeneifangjiaoweixiangfunvba……”

 “zhaozheigeluojixing，youguishugande，nvxingyeshinanxing，meianquangande，nanshengyeshinvxingge?neizhaonineimeshuo，aishitiande，guishugancaisuanshishizhia，xingbiebingbushimeianquangandechongyaotiaojian。”

 “keshizaocheng meianquangandebidingshirendeniantoua……ernanrendexiangfadaduoshuzaocheng guishuganchongyu，ernvxingzebuchongyua，zheihaibingbushinanhaihenvhailuojisiweichabiema?”

“aishiyiqiededaan,nizhimeianquangandenanshengyuhechu，nijiangtamendangnvxingkanme?”

……

xiaobianneishihoumeiyoufabu，zhihoucaifajueneimeyiduantantao，ganjuemanyouyiside，jiuzishenyexiangxiangxiang。

zheigegushizhong，luojisiweichabieheguishuganchabie，nayigecaisuanshishizhi?xiaobianjuede，lianggedoubingbushi。

 zheiyihuangmiuermeiyongdejieguo，tangruofeishuoqixienaxieyuanyinbatabiaoshuqingxidehua，taoruzhimingxijuyanyuanwujunrudezhilimingyaneryan，bianshi“taiwuliao”。danshihenganxingqudehuanenggoukanyixiaxiaobiandepouxiquanguocheng：

 aishiyiciyicidelunhui,youyunanhaihenvhaijiaowangburongyi，yinci 《nanrenlaizihuoxing，nvrenlaizijinxing》baohuo。ta“chuzhong”erguinadiqiangdiaolenanhaihenvhailuojisiweihegerenxingweidechabie，danzheileiguinafayexuzhiheshidabufenren，zheixiebuzudianxingxingdenvrenhenanrenzebeidichuzaiwaimian，xianrujinbuzudianxingxingdenvrenhenanrenyeyulaiyuduole，nvhanzhihecaoshinanchangkuangyushi，sheihainengshuo，zheileiyiwangdajindeguinafangfahaixingdetongni?