他不爱我,女生应当知道的爱情观念

 tiwoaini，wulunshilianaizhongdenvhai，huanshizhengchuzailianaiqidenvshi，douyongyou zishendeganqingyishi，danyinweiguoduozimeiyishixinzhibuchengshu，yinci zaizhaoduixiangshangmiangengquxiangyu“gaoduandaqi”denanshi：gaoshouyi、gaojizhishifenzi，youqiangjingdejiatingqingkuang，shanjierenyi，xinliqiangda……baituo!quanshijiemeineimajizhidenanshi，tangruoniyaoxiangyiduanzhangjiudeganqing，neimayidingyouwanshandeganqingyishi。neimetabuaiwoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankantabuaiwoledewenzhangba。

tangruoyaoxiangwanshandenanshi，ruonixiwangzheyiduanjizhideganqing，neiyaoshizheiyinanshengnenggoubaozhengxiabianzheizhongjiuchongzule——

第一点：想要花长期追求你/爱着你

 aikanzheiyinanshengduinishibushiyouzhenqinggan，yaoxianglejietaduinidezhenzhengxintai，neizaiyingduitadezhuiqiuwanmeishi，ninengtiaoxuanlinshibuzuochutiaoxuan，kanyixiazheiyinanshengdexintai。

 tangruojibian yingduinilinshidehuijue，naizhibingliangxintai，danduihainengjianchibuxiexiangyaohuazhangqizhuiqiuni，tiwoaini，duinidexintaishizhongruyidehua，neizheiyinanshengbiranshisilexindeyaoxiangzhuiqiuni。erzaijiaowangzhong，dangdajiaderelianyiguo，ruozheiyinanshenghaixiangyaoduinidexintaishizhongruyi，neiyebiaomingtaduinishizhenxinshiyide，kandaizheiyiduanganqingyeshizhenchengxiangdai。

lijingdelejiqing，gengliyingnengyouyinglaipingpingdandandexinli，younaixinderencaiyouchongzudezerengan。

第二点：有哄人高兴的工作能力

 lianggerendejiaowangshiweilegenghaodishenme?ziranshiweidegaoxingle，tangruolingyifanglianhongrengaoxingdegongzuonengliyemeiyou，youhekugentazaiyiqini?

 shide，zaizhaoduixiangdeyishishangyidingyaoquelizheiyidian：tamingbaijiejinnidexinli，yaoshijiandaonibuzugaoxing，neihaowuyiwenxiangyaozhaoxunnixinliqifudegenbenyuanyin，suihouyongzishendefangfahongrengaoxing，jinijiejuekunhuo。keyishuozheiyiliyingliezuonizuijichudezhaoduixiangyishi。

第三点：有工作能力让你要想的归属感

 nvhaimendouyaoxiangnanpengyouweizijichanshengguishugan，danyouyizhishuobuchuzheiyi“guishugan”jiujingshishenme……neimazuoweiduinanpengyoudekaohezhibiao，zheiyiguishugandaodishishenmedongxini?

 tabuaiwole,shijishangzheiyuanyuyugegefangmian，chukaikekaodehuaxuewuzhishuizhunyiwai，wojianyiniduoguanxinyixiajingshenshizhicengmiandewupin，xiangzaizheigeshehuifazhanzhongzhanwenjiaobu，bingnengrangnichongzudeweihugongzuonengli，neidangrangengguanxindeshiqingshangzhishang。

 nanrenzuoweizhuxingu，chongzudeqingshangzhishangcaikeyibamianlinglong，yinci yaoxiangguishugandeninengguanchazheiyinansheng，kantapengdaofanzanantishi，lingyifangshizenmechulide，duoguanchajihuinidangranhuifajuetadeqingshangzhishanggaoaishifou。hegaoqingshangdetajiaowang，nidangranhuiyouyizhonghenqingqingsongsongdejuede，youyunirichangshenghuopengdaodefanzananti，tadounengbangnijiejuededexinyingshou，shijishangzheijiushinvhaimenyaoxiangdeguishugan。

第四点：十分信任感你

quanbudenvhaidouhuixiwangzheyiduanjingyingtouliangdeganqing，zaineiyangdeganqingzhong，zishennenggouhenwenxin，wuxufeijinxinji。

 tabuaiwo,yaoxiangdedao neiyangdeqinggan，chukailiyingyoudegoutongjiaoliuyiwai，zuizhongyaodehuanshichuangjianxinlaigan，tahenxinrenganni，niyehenjianxinta，dajiazhongjiannenggouzaiyihuoshicuxizhangtan，hainenglijingdelejianjuyushijiandechongjixing，neiliangrendeqingganyounaxienantini?