女生约会防骗指南 是我不可爱吗？

 shiwobukeaima？yiguolianzheigecishuolianaiwangzaoyibushengshule，youyushuolianaiwangheggyeshiyiyiguolianzouhuilaide，changchangxiangdaoneiyiduanshijian，douganjuekeyijianchibuxiechulaibuyi。shuolianaiwangheggshilaotongxue，zhihoushanggaoxiaoshuolianaiwanglaidaoyidi，meiyicifangjialeneileihuanshengdeqingxuhemeiyicixinxueqikaixuebushedefenlidourangshuolianaiwangnanyiwanghuai。neimerenrendoushuowoainiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshijiehewoaizhenixinlixuedewenzhangba。

 shuolianaiwangggyizhihuiheshuolianaiwangshuoneishihoutameirichongzherilijisuanshenghuo，cesuanzaiguoduoshaotiannenggoupengmian，shuolianaiwangrujinxiangyixiangrengranganjuehenxinsuan。shuolianaiwangheggyouyigexiaohezi，libianfangledajiadaxuesinianquanbushiyongguodeshoujika，huochepiao，jiguodexin，neishiquanbudexueyejiangxuejinhelinghuaqiansuoyoudoujuanzengjilianggedifangdetongxinhejiaotongchuxingle。zongsuanzaishuolianaiwangduyanjiushengdeqingkuangxiagaoyiduanluozheitongchuyetianmeideshenghuo，zhidaorujintaruchouhundelu。shiwobukeaima？shuolianaiwangjiandaoxuduo yiguoliandelianrendounanyijianchidaodi，ganjuewaidibianshiyidaochaoyuebushangdechaju，shuolianaiwangjiuhedahuoergongxiangyixiazishenzhenduiyiguolianzenyangjianchidaodideniantou。

【异国恋的优点】

★切切实实的磨练相互的情感

 shuolianaiwangganjueyifenqingganzuizhongshifoukeyishizoudaozuihoushibixujienayixiemoliande，molianlingyifangdelingwaiyemolianzishen。shuolianaiwangggdeyigetanggeyiqianyouyigenvyou，zaoyixiangqinjiehunle，keshizaijiehunqianhuranzhunbeichuguoliuxue，huijiazaiwanhun。jieguochuguoliuxuemeiyouduozhangshijian，jiuyouyuwaidiqianqueguanzhuerfenshoule。shuolianaiwangganjuehenyihankeshiyeyingdangjuedehenxingyun，youyubukeyijingshoukaoyandeqingganqueshifeichangrongyifenbenglixi。waidinengjianchibuxiechulaideaiqingyibandoushifendelaogu，pengdaocuobaideqingkuangxiayekeyixianghuchuli。

★塑造自身独立生活的工作能力

 shuolianaiwangshiconglaimeiyouliquguonanjingshide，dudaxuedeqingkuangxiayixiazizishendanduderichangshenghuohaijianzhiyoudianerbuxiguan，jiandaotarenyouggbangzhuchoushui、zhanweiziyongcan、yiqishoukexiakele，shuolianaiwangshijishanghuanshihenyanxiande，mianbuleyehuiganjuebiequfanaopiqi。keshishuolianaiwangpobudeyirenke，zaiyidirichangshenghuodesinian，shuolianaiwangdandulexuduo ，yegaoqingchunvxingbingbushiyidingyaojiezhunanshengcaikeyirichangshenghuode。shuolianaiwangganjuejiaruliangrenyizhizaiyiqi，nvhaijiufeichangrongyihuizaochengyikaodexinlizhuangtai，ganjueggquandoukeyibaobandaiti，keyichuli，yichulenantijiuxiangqixianhanta。waidideniukendingshixinlizhuangtaishifenqiangjingde，jinguantamenyehuijuedegudanjuedegudu，keshitamenhenmingbaizishenpaijie。

★给与大伙儿个人的室内空间

 youdelianaizhongdeqinglvhenbunengmeiriershisixiaoshidouzaiyiqi，lejielingyifangdeyijuyidong，yiyanyixing。feichangrongyihuiranglingyifangganjuemeiyousuiyide。waididelianrenjiumeiyouzheiyikunao，youyubianshixiangguanyeguanbuzhe，guoduanjiuzishenguanzishenle，neiyangjiukeyiyouyidingdeguishuyuzishendejiaojiquan，burongyizaixiaohuobanmenjuhuihuodongdeqingkuangxialinshixingbeizishendelingyibantuizoufeichangganga。shuolianaiwangzaiyidideliangnianyejiaolexuduo depenyou，younantongyeshiyouyixingpengyou，shuolianaiwangganjuezheiyeshiyibicaifu。

★让相互在工作中在学习上可以心无旁鹜

 shuolianaiwangggshigezuoshiqinghenyongxinderen，jiaruyijianshiqingmangshang，bianhuigubudeshuolianaiwangde。shuolianaiwangrujinyoushiyehuiyouyigentadaodan，tabianhuiwanxiaodeshuohuanshiniyizhizaiyidihao，zhishaonenggoushitaananwenwendebanshi。nvhaima，xingqingzhongjiuxiaoyixie，zaizaijiashangyouggdeshouhoujiufeichangrongyishenxiandaowanshuazhongqu，xueshengzhongtaokeguangjiegouwudelianrenduodelebude。shuolianaiwangganjueheggfenlidesinian，shuolianaiwangheggdouhuiyuanxiaoxuedelexuduo dewupin，dajiameirichukaishoukebianshiqutushuguan，neiyangderichangshenghuoguoqulesinian，henjianxinkeshiyehenfengfu。ggbaosongyanjiushengle，shuolianaiwangkaoruleshuoshiyanjiusheng，zhihouyouzhaodaofeichanghaodegongzuozhong。zheizhongdouheneishihoudewaidishilibukaide，youyumeiyousuoshidedajiao，yinci caikeyiyimenxinsidequgongzuozhongquxuexi，qutishengzijidesuyang，weiwomendeweilaidahaojichu。

★距离产生美，久别胜新婚

 shijiehewoaizheni,shuolianaiwangganjueliangrenjiarumeiridounichongzhewo，woduizheni，shijishangshifeichangrongyishijuedeshenmeipilaode，yefeichangrongyijuedebushanglingyifangdeguanzhuheduizishenhao。keshiwaidibuyiyang，youyupingchangmeiyou，yinci youdeqingkuangxiadeyiwaijingxibianhuibiandaxuduo bei;youyujianbushang，yinci kandaodeqingkuangxiabianhuigengweidegaoxing。neixinyoubentou，jiuburongyixinfanyiluanle。

【异国恋的缺点】

★一个人应对全部事儿

 renrendoushuowoaini,shuolianaiwangzhenduiyiguolianganjuefanweiqideneijugequgeciqueshihenyouxiangzhengxing，“xiaochenshidouhuixianzhuhaipagududejingzhong，duoqipanmingbaiderenjixiewennuanjiegejianbu”。yigerenderichangshenghuoyouhao，ziranyeshiyoubutaihao，youyuzaitarenshuangshuangduiduideqingkuangxiazishenziranyishen，zuixianxinlizhuangtaishangbianhuijiaoweibushufu。huoxuyeyouxuduo benyingggnenggoubangzhuzuodeshierdoubixuzijilaiyingdui，xinqingyumendeqingkuangxiahuodedeyejinjindianhua，duanxiaoxi，hengudu，hengudu。