yongbufenshoudelianaiyoushenme?nidangrankeyiziyaliezui,damanansheng“youyanbushitaishan”,danniyebukefouren,xianzaishehui,bujiqishuniyanlide“weibaitu”menjigaoqingchunanrendexin,youguodeshunxinruyi。bicizhijianchuangranleixia,huomaosanzhang,fanburuganjinququjing,zhengqujinkuai“tuoyifu”ba。neimexianglianaiyiyangqugongzuoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanyijiehunweimudedelianaidewenzhangba。
1.较为比较有限资金投入,不放纵另一方
weilegenghaodiwokeyitiantianchiduiniyouganjuezuodewanfan,nijujuelexuexipeixunjihui,lianqueshishengzhijihuiyezaisuobuxi;weilegenghaodinenggougenghaodizheiyijianengganjingzhengjiemeitianruxinkoukou,zheiyixinwenzhuanyegaocaishengganxinqingyuandangquanzhidedejiatingzhufu;wulunshenmeshi,ruguoyouyisiyihaohenyoukenengshanghaidahuoerdehunhoushenghuo,jiuquandoupass……nirenweinanshenghuiyincierxiexieni?dacuotecuo。nvshiyueyongwuzhijinzijintouru,nanshengyuejiangqidangzuolisuoyingdang,congerquefazerenganfangzongziji。yiqieshentijiankangdehunhoushenghuo,jinliangcongjiaoweibijiaoyouxianzijintouruxuexi,tawufaweihunhoushenghuo,rangniquebaodeshi,niyebubijiangjiubenshen。
2.为自己考虑到.但无须只为自己考虑到
yijiehunweimudedelianai,nvshiyidingyaoxuexuduoweizijikaolvdao,danwuxuzhiweizijikaolvdao。yongbufenshoudelianaiyoushenme?tahejiuyebugui,worenweidui,dangrankeyiyaoqiutagaizheng,danshibingbingbushikeyixiantingyitingshifouyoushenmetebieshizaideyuanyin,birugongzuoshangshibai;tawangjilenideshengri,nizaojiuzaiduanxin、weiboshangtongpiguotale,shibushikeyijitayigebuzhizhewuzuidejihui?
shishishangshengchanjiagongyixiewennuanganhenrongyi。daxingshangchangli,nimaihuilaiyiduibenshenxiaideshucaishuiguoshucaishuiguo,xiangqijialinayigeroushidongwuwuroubuhuan,nifanzhuanshengxianpeisongjuquchuleyiheniurou、yangrou……shishishangjinyouciwaiweilingyifangkaolvdao,cainenggoushudaoneixindezhongduobushuang。fahuoduihunhoushenghuoyidianbangzhudoumeiyou。
3.注意倾听,充分考虑是否要想妥协
jibian nizaojiuzhangwotatanqideyeshizheizhongwenbuduiti,yebieyizhangkoubianshuobu’huozhehaowuyongchudichuanlaizhandounenglixunchi。tayaomeiqingmeizhongyongdiaoyigeyuejiayongmaiyijiahangmofeiji;tayaobuqieshijidikaiguoqqquchuanguoqinghaisheng;tayaodaikuanjisannianmeilaiwangdeyigepengyou……cishi,nikeyirenzhendishuo,qingjiwodianshijiankaolvyixiazaijinidafu。buguannichongfenkaolvzhihoudedaodehuiyingshituoxiehaishijujue,zhishaotahuiganjuedaobeizhongshibeigaoduzhongshi,neitayehuiyinglijiniyiyangdegaoduzhongshihezhangwo,zheijiangshiyigepengbofazhan。
4智取爱心里,当当“伪白兔”又何妨
xianglianaiyiyangqugongzuo,tangruonishenbianyouyigegaopinzhihaolaogong,niyaozenmezuo?shibushihuiyuanbenneixinpengpengzhitiao,yibianchenglesishuirouqingdaixiaotuziyige,queyingyaozuomanhengwulihongtailangzhuang?jieguoqueyoushangfaxian,nanshengduinibieryuanzhi,benzhenishenbianzheizhongpizhetongzhenyumeiwuzhidexiaobaitudepi,queyouzhe aojiaodahuilangdexizhixinxude“weibaitu”gandao。
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