永不分手的恋爱是怎样？第一次约会？

 yongbufenshoudelianaiyoushenme？diyiciyuehuishi，henduo jiemeihuiyouxinshenbuningxinlizhuangtai，yinweijiejuejizhangwoyoubuwanquanbawodeyixing，doushihuiyixienanyiyanyudexinlizhuangtai，erzheileifuzadexinlizhuangtaijiaodiezaiyiqi，yibanshiyouyisixinshenbuningzhineide。shishishangxinshenbuninghenyiqiezhengchang，danyiqiedoushiyoudiyici，jinyoujiejuediyiciyuehuicainenggoubianweiqingsongcaokong。neiliyingyaoyounaxiexiangduixingdeyufangcuoshini?qingchangshibawoxiamianzheileineirong——neimexianglianaiyiyangqugongzuoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanyijiehunweimudedelianaidewenzhangba。

1.弄清楚为何要处对象，为什么要约会

 jiranshidiyiciyuehui，neimezaidahuoerneixindouqianguazhejinyibufazhanquxiang，yiner zaiyuehuiqianyidingyaoqingchuhezheiyinanshengyuehuideyuanyin。

 jiaruonineixinzhenduizheishibingbingbushihenqingxi，neimajiuzhangwobenshenshifouhetachuduixiangdexiangfaba，jiaruonizhenduizheishishixiwangde，neimanijiexialaidechuduixiangxinlizhuangtaikendingshijijide;tangruonimeinongqingchuweiheyaoyuehui，weishenmeyaochuduixiang，neishuomingnideneixinmeiyouxiangguandepingjiafangfa，yongbufenshoudelianaiyoushenme？zheiduinidechuduixiangshijiqibutaihaode。

2.约会前的准备工作

 yiqiewubiyouzhunbeichongfen，jiaruobachuduixiangbizuoshiyichangzhanyidehua，neizhunbeichongfenchongzudeniburongzhiyinengdashengzhang。zhunbeigongzuodangranbudandanshizhideshiduiyuehuideshijianxiangxidizhimingjizaixin，jinjinzaiyuehuiqianjinkenengyaoqingxidizhangwolingyifangdejibenxinxi，baokuotadegerenxingquaihao，jiazhongjingjifazhanzhuangkuangzheizhong，zheiduiniyuehuizhongkaizhanhuatitaoluntantaokenengchuxianjidadezhidianzuoyong。

 zongdelaishuo，jiarunigaohaochongyudezhunbeichongfen，xiangxidebawolingyifangshi，niyizhizaiduishitadeyanjingshihenyoukenengdanranyixiao，ziranyebuhuiyinbuzhisuocuoerxinshenbuningle。

3.约会话题讨论探讨

 duiyuyuehuizhongliangrendetantao，douhuiyounvhaijuedezhaobudaohuatitaoluntantao，youqishizaijiejuegengjiachenmodenanshengshi，zheihenyoukenengrangbenshengengjiaganga。ruhezhaoxunyuehuizhongdehuatitaoluntantao，zenmecainengquebaoyuehuizhongbuganliaoni?

 yijiehunweimudedelianai,shishishangdequebuyongyouxinzhaohuatiliaotian。yinweitaiyouxindehua，henyoukenengkanshangquhensiban，nizixixiangyixiang，pingshiniheguimixiantanshi，huisibandeyizhaotiqianshezhihaodehuatitaoluntantaome?dangranbuyi!yinweidahuoeryougongtonghuati，yiner zaidahuoerdegoutongjiaoliushangdouhuikeliaobuwandehuatitaoluntantao，mashangyigehuatitaoluntantaojieshuzhongduangoutongjiaoliu，danshimashangbianhuichuxianxindehuatitaoluntantaozuoweimibu，zheijiushiyouhenduogongtonghuatidejutibiaoxian。

 yiner xiangzaiyuehuizhongbuganliao，bijiaojiandanyeshizuiyouxiaodefangshijiushixunzhaodahuoerzhengzhongjiandegongtonghuati。henyoukenengnikeyishuo，dahuoerzhengzhongjianpengchudehenshao，yiner wufayoukeyishuodegongtonghuati，tashiyouwudexiangfa。zongshidahuoerzhengzhongjianpengchucishuhenshao，danworenweidaibiaozhebunengzhaoxungongtonghuati。

 dahuoeryouzhe huxiangdenianling，jiusuan meiyoutongyigedadoushizhangdayihou，dandouhuiyouchabuduodeshenghuoguiji——yueduwenzhang、dushu、gongzuoshang，zaidahuoerdeshenghuoqijusuiyuezhong，nijingchangzhaoxunkeyiliaotiandehuati;dangranchucizhiwai，niburongzhiyihainengzhaoxunyiyangdeaihao，birudouyaoxiangshuaweibo，neizuijinshenmeweibozuihonga?huozhedajiadouyaoxiangkanju，neishuoshuozuiaidedianyingba，zuijinhuiyiyouyoushenmedeganshouni?

 nikanyixiashishishanghuatitaoluntantaohenduo ，yiner bushishuomeiyougongtonghuati，zhishinimeiyoufaxiankeyiliaodehuatitaoluntantaobale。

4.yixiegerenyinsibaohubuyaowenwo

 xianglianaiyiyangqugongzuo,jinguandiyiciyuehuiliyingfangkaixie，neibancainenggouranghuxianggoutongjiaoliudegengchangshun，danworenweidaibiaozhesuoyoudehuatitaoluntantaodounengliao。birulingyifanghenyoukenengyoubenshendexinxin，yiner bienalingyifangdexinxinwanxiaohua;huozheyixiegerenyinsibaohudehuatitaoluntantao，dequebushihediyiciyuehuizhongliao，haishifangjinjiexialaidejiaowangzhongmanmandibawoba。