yongbufenshoudelianaiyoushenme?diyiciyuehuishi,henduo jiemeihuiyouxinshenbuningxinlizhuangtai,yinweijiejuejizhangwoyoubuwanquanbawodeyixing,doushihuiyixienanyiyanyudexinlizhuangtai,erzheileifuzadexinlizhuangtaijiaodiezaiyiqi,yibanshiyouyisixinshenbuningzhineide。shishishangxinshenbuninghenyiqiezhengchang,danyiqiedoushiyoudiyici,jinyoujiejuediyiciyuehuicainenggoubianweiqingsongcaokong。neiliyingyaoyounaxiexiangduixingdeyufangcuoshini?qingchangshibawoxiamianzheileineirong——neimexianglianaiyiyangqugongzuoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanyijiehunweimudedelianaidewenzhangba。
1.弄清楚为何要处对象,为什么要约会
jiranshidiyiciyuehui,neimezaidahuoerneixindouqianguazhejinyibufazhanquxiang,yiner zaiyuehuiqianyidingyaoqingchuhezheiyinanshengyuehuideyuanyin。
jiaruonineixinzhenduizheishibingbingbushihenqingxi,neimajiuzhangwobenshenshifouhetachuduixiangdexiangfaba,jiaruonizhenduizheishishixiwangde,neimanijiexialaidechuduixiangxinlizhuangtaikendingshijijide;tangruonimeinongqingchuweiheyaoyuehui,weishenmeyaochuduixiang,neishuomingnideneixinmeiyouxiangguandepingjiafangfa,yongbufenshoudelianaiyoushenme?zheiduinidechuduixiangshijiqibutaihaode。
2.约会前的准备工作
yiqiewubiyouzhunbeichongfen,jiaruobachuduixiangbizuoshiyichangzhanyidehua,neizhunbeichongfenchongzudeniburongzhiyinengdashengzhang。zhunbeigongzuodangranbudandanshizhideshiduiyuehuideshijianxiangxidizhimingjizaixin,jinjinzaiyuehuiqianjinkenengyaoqingxidizhangwolingyifangdejibenxinxi,baokuotadegerenxingquaihao,jiazhongjingjifazhanzhuangkuangzheizhong,zheiduiniyuehuizhongkaizhanhuatitaoluntantaokenengchuxianjidadezhidianzuoyong。
zongdelaishuo,jiarunigaohaochongyudezhunbeichongfen,xiangxidebawolingyifangshi,niyizhizaiduishitadeyanjingshihenyoukenengdanranyixiao,ziranyebuhuiyinbuzhisuocuoerxinshenbuningle。
3.约会话题讨论探讨
duiyuyuehuizhongliangrendetantao,douhuiyounvhaijuedezhaobudaohuatitaoluntantao,youqishizaijiejuegengjiachenmodenanshengshi,zheihenyoukenengrangbenshengengjiaganga。ruhezhaoxunyuehuizhongdehuatitaoluntantao,zenmecainengquebaoyuehuizhongbuganliaoni?
yijiehunweimudedelianai,shishishangdequebuyongyouxinzhaohuatiliaotian。yinweitaiyouxindehua,henyoukenengkanshangquhensiban,nizixixiangyixiang,pingshiniheguimixiantanshi,huisibandeyizhaotiqianshezhihaodehuatitaoluntantaome?dangranbuyi!yinweidahuoeryougongtonghuati,yiner zaidahuoerdegoutongjiaoliushangdouhuikeliaobuwandehuatitaoluntantao,mashangyigehuatitaoluntantaojieshuzhongduangoutongjiaoliu,danshimashangbianhuichuxianxindehuatitaoluntantaozuoweimibu,zheijiushiyouhenduogongtonghuatidejutibiaoxian。
yiner xiangzaiyuehuizhongbuganliao,bijiaojiandanyeshizuiyouxiaodefangshijiushixunzhaodahuoerzhengzhongjiandegongtonghuati。henyoukenengnikeyishuo,dahuoerzhengzhongjianpengchudehenshao,yiner wufayoukeyishuodegongtonghuati,tashiyouwudexiangfa。zongshidahuoerzhengzhongjianpengchucishuhenshao,danworenweidaibiaozhebunengzhaoxungongtonghuati。
dahuoeryouzhe huxiangdenianling,jiusuan meiyoutongyigedadoushizhangdayihou,dandouhuiyouchabuduodeshenghuoguiji——yueduwenzhang、dushu、gongzuoshang,zaidahuoerdeshenghuoqijusuiyuezhong,nijingchangzhaoxunkeyiliaotiandehuati;dangranchucizhiwai,niburongzhiyihainengzhaoxunyiyangdeaihao,birudouyaoxiangshuaweibo,neizuijinshenmeweibozuihonga?huozhedajiadouyaoxiangkanju,neishuoshuozuiaidedianyingba,zuijinhuiyiyouyoushenmedeganshouni?
nikanyixiashishishanghuatitaoluntantaohenduo ,yiner bushishuomeiyougongtonghuati,zhishinimeiyoufaxiankeyiliaodehuatitaoluntantaobale。
4.yixiegerenyinsibaohubuyaowenwo
xianglianaiyiyangqugongzuo,jinguandiyiciyuehuiliyingfangkaixie,neibancainenggouranghuxianggoutongjiaoliudegengchangshun,danworenweidaibiaozhesuoyoudehuatitaoluntantaodounengliao。birulingyifanghenyoukenengyoubenshendexinxin,yiner bienalingyifangdexinxinwanxiaohua;huozheyixiegerenyinsibaohudehuatitaoluntantao,dequebushihediyiciyuehuizhongliao,haishifangjinjiexialaidejiaowangzhongmanmandibawoba。
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