爱是流动的 该如何跟男生相处？

 aishiliudongde,nvhaitanlianaishichangchanghuizhengchao，chuxianbiciduqidezhuangkuang。xiabianjiaonizenyangdiaozhengdajiazhongjiandeguanlian。neimeaishangtaderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishangzenyangderendewenzhangba。

 nvshengzhuinansheng：nvhaizaigennanhaizijiaowangshiyaoliuyiyixiebuzhengqueshiguoduanbunengfande，xiangxiabianmingquetichudehaoduogedianzhenduinvhaieryanshichuzhifeisijishang。yinci jiangnvhailianaizhonghaiyaozhaoliaoxialingyifangdetihuie，bubitianqueshijuedelingyifangaizheni，niyejiunenggoufenbuqingyoushiyulieshile。

一、资金投入得太快

 ruguoniyutadiyicixiangyuyihou，bubiqidaimeiyigelibaitiandouhetahuandu，huozhejianchibuxiexiangtachushijianyi，zaicibujutadejiajujiaju，bubizheji，dajiahaiweijiechengfufuni!

二、评定另一方过早

 xiangyunanyoutichufenshoudezuibianjiefangshi，bianshiduitashuoniaita，nixuyaoweitashengyigehaizi，aishiliudongde,tadefanyingdaduoshushitaodewushengwuxi。

三、自取其辱

 aishangzenyangderen?nishibushiqingxidizhuanyezhishitademeiyixiangzhuyaobiaoxiandeshenhouzhuguanyinsutaduinidexintaishibushihenpingpingdandantashibushilingwaiyuqitanvshengyouhuidajiashibushimeizhouzhilianxiyici，dannizexuanzetashikexinlaizhongshendemubiaohuozhenijuedetashidurubao，baonvedexingzidoubushishenmebijiaoyanzhongdewenti。

四、穿着打扮太过浮夸

 niyingzhuyaobiaoxiandexinxin，dafangdeti，youhuolibingbuqujueyutaiguoxianbaixingganmiren，nanshijuedechuntianrandeyouhuolibirenweiyinsushengchanjiagongdelianlixianghuadeduo。

五、讲话过多

 niyiweidajiayidingyaobuduanbuduanjiaotan，chenmoshijin，jibian dajiadouhenqipannengxianghuzhijianzhangwo，yebuxuyaozaizuizheijihuiyouhuilijiujiangyishengdelijingbuyierzubandaochu，jianmotongchangshinvshidefengcaizhiyi。

六、太留意他的钱

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