爱的感觉是什么？别用这些观念毒害你的另一半

 aidehanyiyoushenmeni？shijishangbingbingbushichengshudenvrenzhiyongshuangquan，shiqingchanggaoshou，zhishitamenmingbai，aiqingyuhunyinzhongdejiaowang，shiyigechixuzhuanbiandiaojiedequanguocheng。yaoshibenshenjuyougenggaidegongzuonengli，neimayizhinenggouxunzhaojiejuedefangfa。neimeaideganjueyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideguangdewenzhangba。

 juyigefeichangjiandandeshili，meiyiduifuqizaitaruhunyinshenghuoshi，doushihuixuguofuwuchengnuo，fuwuchengnuoshizhongbuhuigaibian。tashidajiaduiganqingdeyizhongqidai。shubuzhihenduonianhou，zhengzhideyuanguqueshi“douzheixienianle，nizenmehuanshizheiyisimoyang?”

 dajiazhendui“bian”yongyou bennengfanyingdeweijugan，keshijuedaduoshuqinggan、hunyinshenghuomaixiangshuailuohejieshudeyuangugengshiyouyuyouxierennanchubuyuangenggai。

 ershisuideqingkuangxia，dajiabixudeshiyigewenroulanmandenansheng，tayaoyoureqing，yaofengqu，aidehanyiyoushenmeni？neixinshenchumianhaibixuyoutanxiandedanliang，youyuneishidajiahaichuyutansuoyuzhoudehuanjie，bixuyigerenshouhouhetuidong。dantangruo，dajiazaoyisanshisui、sishisuile，youjialiyouxiaohai，zheigenanrenrengranzaiwaimiantanxian，neiyexumeiyouhaoduogenvxingchidexiao。

 rendaobuyiyangdehuanjiedoushihuichanshengbianhua，richangshenghuozhongxindianyehuiqianyi，ershisuixiangainideliyou，henyoukenengbianchengdajiasanshisuifenlideyuanyin。

 yinci jiexiaquwojiangxiazheizhong“youhai”deyishi(xialie6geyishiquzidemote·kelaofu《meigenvrendouxuyaoyoudeliugezhangfu》)，dahuoernenggouyonglaipouxizishenhelingyifang。

1.成人不用更改

 youhenduorenjuede，chengnianrenlejiudingxingle，buyonggenggai。shishishangrenzheiyishengquanshizaizhuanbiande，tangruoqinglv、fufuzaihaoduoniannaizhijishinianlidouweichiyiyangdeqingkuang(zheierzhidebingbushiganqing)，neimakeyishuo，liangrendefazhanqushidoutingzhibuqianle。tashibujiankangdeqingkuang。

2.如今发生变化之后就不用变

renherendeguanlianyeshineiyang，shehuifazhanzaifazhan，renhaowuyiwenhuichuxianzhuanbian。erliangrendeqingganbianshi，zhuanbianzhezaiyiqi。

3.更改会使夫妇生疏

 zheiyeshihenduorenzuidanyoudeyidian。womenbunengrichangshenghuoguoqu，yaochongzutihuimeiyigeshixia。aideguang,zheixiebaitouxielaodefufu，juebushiganqingyifanfengshun，zhishixianghujingliledafengdalanghebianhua。

4.回绝更改没有什么了不起的

 yixiekanqilaizhongtedadejinjishijian，huihuaihunyinshenghuodeguanjianxingexingshijian，shijishangshizaojiuzaijiaowangzhong“huijuegenggai”deqingkuangxialeijiqilaide。

5.更改直系亲属是种自私自利的念头，并且男生不太可能更改

 tashishengmumendeniantou，nvxingdeshengmuxinheduobixinlizhuangtaizaizuoguai，xuduo nvrendoushiyongzheiyiyuanyinrenxialaide。“ren”kendingbingbushigenggai，zhishihaipagenggai，yinci ren，zheiyidianshang，qidaidahuoerbubinongcuodingyi。tashigeguanjiannanti。

rendegexingburongyiyibaibashidubianhua，yinci wubikaolvdaoshenmebianhuashishijide。

 genggaibingbushibayigerenbianweilingyigeren，zhishizaiyuanlaijibenshangjianquan。yinci ，jiaruyigerenrouruo，jishidaotaizaibozishang，yebukeyibianweiyigenbayongshi。

6.更改是对自身的叛变

 aideganjueshishenme？tashixuduo nanrendexiangfa。wangluoyulunjinanshenggongzuoyali，juedegenggaijiuxiangdangyurenkelezishenrouruo。yinci xuduo nanshengziyiweishi。tashiwenhuajiaoyuhewaibushifangdegongzuoyali。