恋爱类型有哪些？三种类型的爱情模式

 lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？henduoshehuixinlixuekexueyanjiuzaojiuzhengshi，benrenchushi、fazhandejiazhongduibenrenderichangshenghuohuizaochengzhangqixing、zhangyuandeweihai，naizhihuijueceyigerenyishengdexingfukuaile。xinlixuezhuanjiamenjiadingyouerjieduandeqinzigoutongjiangweihaidaochengnianrenyihoudelianaiguanxi，zheijiushishuobailede“ganqingyilianlilun”。neimelianaileixingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaililundewenzhangba。

 yijuanquanxingyilian、huibixingyilianhejiaolvxingyiliansanzhongzhonglei，xinlixuezhuanjiahazehexiefuchuangsheleyuzheisanzhongyilianleixingxiangduixingyingdetanlianaifangshi。

•安全性增感情•

 anquanxingxingganqingzhedexinxinshi“wozhen，ninhao”(woduizishenyouxinxin，wofeichangzhidenixinrengan;woduiniyouxinxin，nizhidewoxinrengan)，anquanxingxingganqingzhedeganqingrichangshenghuogongchengjianzhuzai“gongping、xianghuxinren”dejibenxia，tamendeganqingzoudebijiaowending、zuiduo，ganqingpingwen，xiaoyoudafengdalang。jibian zuizhongpobudeyigebendongxi，yongyou“wozhen，ninhao”xinxindeanquanxingxingganqingzhemenyebuhuitarujiduanhua。cileirenyuezhanzongshuzhanbide56%。

•回避型感情•

 huibixingganqingzhedexinxinshi“wozhen，nibutaihao”(jinguanwoduizishenmeizixinxin，keshixiangduixingyuni，wohaishiduizishengengyouxinxin)。huibixingganqingzheyoujiaoqiangdejingxingxinlizhuangtai，shiketishizhezishenbubiyubierenguoduqinmiwujian，burongyichedixinrentaren，doubuqidaitarenyikaozishen，yubierentaiguoqinmiwujianhuibuzhisuocuo，buzhidaogaizenmeban。jibian shiguanlianqinmiwujianderen，yeqidainengyutaweichiyidingjianju，fangzhiganqingzijintouruguoduoerzaoshousunhai。yiner，tamendelianrenyizhimaiyuantihui    lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？bushangxuyoudeqinmiwujiangan。huibixingganqingzheyizhihuiduiganqingchifourenhecaiyidexintai。cileirenyuezhanzongshuzhanbide25%。

•焦虑情绪增感情者•

 jiaolvqingxuxingganqingzhedexinxinshi“wobuhao，ninhao，erwobuquedingxingninengbunengxinrengan”。yuhuibixingganqingzhebuyiyangdeshi，jiaolvqingxuxingganqingzheyizhizaitanlianai。“wobuhao”dexinxinshitamenyizhicongcongmangmangdiyaoxiangzhuiruqingwang，qidaimingandezishenkeyixunzhaonenggouyikaodezhicheng。keshi，zaoshou“ninhao，erwobuquedingxingninengbunengxinrengan”xinxindeweihai，tamenbuqingchuxunzhaodezheiyijiezhushifounenggouxinrengan，yinertamenyikaolingyifangfeichangnanxinrenganlingyifang。yifangmiantamenyingyonggezhonggeyangfangfawanjiuzishendeganqing(biru，quyue，weiquqiuquan)，lingyifangmianguidingchedicaokonglianrendexingji，yianzhuangbenzhidecaiyi。zheileizuofadailailianrenguoduodegongzuoyali，ranglianrenchengdanbushang。yinerjiaolvqingxuxingganqingzhedeganqingbaochideshijianzuiduan。cileirenzhanzongshuzhanbide19%。

 xinlixuezhuanjiagenjudiaoyanfajue，anquanxingxingganqingzhedeganqingkebaochishinianzhishang，erhuibixingganqingzhedeganqingquedaduoshubuchaoguoliunian，jiaolvqingxuxingganqingzhezhiyanbuhuitamendeganqingfeichangshaoyouchaoguowuniande。

nandaoshuozheishijieshang44%derenzhongjiuyaoshenfuneiyangbeicandeziwoanshiguoyishengme?

自然并不是!

 xinlixuezhuanjiatanchen，ruguonizhishenaiyuxinrenganderenjijiaowangzhong，nidezhongleifangshijiuhuiyouhenyoukenengzaochenggenggai，jibian zheizhongaiyuxinrenganzainiershishiqianquede。

 lianaililun，jiandaozheier，youxierenhenyoukenengshuoqile，no!no!no!wobingbushiyinweishenmeyilaideyuangucaidanshende，wozhishimeiyouyushangnageta，nagenengkaolvwoduiyixingpengyoudequanbuxiangxiang、nagekeruwofayandeta。

neikerunifayandehuishiruheyigejiaoseni?

 jiaruniwenyiwenzhoubianderen，talixianghuazhongdeairenshinaxiede，ninengfajuezheiyixiaoxingde“xinlixueceshi”haizhennengcedaoxuduoyouqudewupinlai。

>qianxiaomei：“jiaruchongfenkaolvyaowanhundehua，tawubiyouyitaofangwu，yaoburannandaoshuojiaowogentazufangma?”

zheiyidingshigeshifenxianshideren，tadejiazhiguandaliangdeshihehuaxuewuzhixianglianluode。

>mengxiaomei：“woxiangtashikeyizaihuni，yaogoulanman，nengjiwoyigexiaogongzhuyiyangdejuede。”

zheikendingshigezhongailixiangderen，youqingyinshuibaosuanzuotadezhenshixiezhao。

 >chengxiansheng：“wodelingyibanwuxuduomedechuse，yaoshixiaojing、zhuanyi、aiganjing、banshiyongxin、zhangxiangzhongshang、fengqu、conghui、danchunxing、shanjierenyi……wenpingma，yanjiushengzhishangjiukeyile”

lianaileixingyounaxie？zheikendingshiyigehuoshijiangyaobianchengyige……shengnan。