恋爱类型有哪些？如何处理失恋？

 lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？shilianhou?lai，rangwomenqujiaowaiba，rangwomenqujianshiyixiayuanshengshulindezhuangli，nikandaoneiyipianmaomidesenlinlemeiyou?nibushidiulekeshuma?rujinzheiyidaduishuquanshinidele，quandoushinidele!neimelianaileixingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaililundewenzhangba。

 xingba，nirujinhaibuyuanxuanshu，meishier，fenshouhouhebaituoqiannanyouquanshibixuyibuyibulaide，womenxianyizhaochengxuliuchenglai，danshinijilao，neiyipianshanlinquanshinide!

第一步：正确对待分手后

 tanlianairutongzhaogegongzuo，buchenggong100cidoumeiyouguanxi，yaoshiqudechenggongyicijiuhaole。ziran，henyoukenengmeiyicidebuchenggongdoushihuijiniganjuetongkubukan、beishouyanlidaji，haijidecizhanggangkaishishixiaozhaodeshilime?yaoshimeiyouzaiyiqide，neibianshiyunibushihede;yaoshishifangqinide，bianshibuainide。jiranshigebuainide、bushihederen，niyincizhanzhuannanmianyouyounaxieshijiyiyi?haijide，jiaruyigerenshuowoaini，neibuyidingshiqueshi，jiaruyigerenshuobuaini，neibachengburongyishijiade。

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 zuipubiandezhuangkuangshi，xuduo qingkuangxiadajiadourenweizishenshiquzuixihuan，yinci tongkubukan，keshishijishang，dajiajinjinyouyufushangdezizunxin(weiheshitashuailewo，ruguohainengzaiyiqi，yidingjiushiwoxianshuaita!)huoshishi“meiwanchengexingshijian”dexinlizhangaizaiqigongxiao。

 shenmejiaomeiwanchengexingshijian?jiushiyijianshiqingyaoshimeiyoujinxing，neimadajiahuichuxianhenqiangdezhuguanyinsuqubatajinxing。jugeshili，jiaruniyizhizaiwanyigeyouxi，100fubenniliantongle99guan，zheizuihouyiguanduinideyouhuolishiyouduomedekepa，keshidengzhenidaguozuihouyiguan，zaicongtoukaishikandiyiguandeqingkuangxia，xiangtuma?

第二步：解决两个人的相互物件

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jiranlianggerendeganqingzaoyixiazang，qingbuyaozaimeishierfantu，haohaodirangtaanzangba。

第三步：宣泄情绪

 lianaileixingyounaxie？quanweizhuanjiagaozhidajia，dajiadesuoyouxinuailedouyongyou fenbiedegongxiao，changchangfangtamenchuqushifangchulai、faxiedajiadexintaijiangduidajiadexinshenyouhendadeyichu。yinci jiarufenshouhourangnichanshenglehenduoxiaochendexintai，neibubibazheizhongxintaiyayiganxialai，eryingdangxiangbanfaduziyirenqufaxiechuqu。yaoku，chenzhexizaodeshihoudeshuideshengyinchangkuaidiku。yaojiao，zhaoyigemeiyourenzhichuyongjingsihan。yaosi，guanqimenlaiquanlisigeshuangkuai。xiangqingtu，zhaozhijipengyouhaohaoditanyitan。danxuanxieshiganwanyaoliuyimubiao，bubisuiyiqingrendangdaomeigui，duitaluannaopiqi、sunhaikelian。