爱一个人是什么感觉？恋爱时必須要思考的问題

 aiyigerenyoucuoma？dangmingqueyigerenzuolinghunbanlvshi，bicidoushihuiqidaibaitouxielao，shubuzhi，wulunshizaizhongguohuanshiguowai，zhongguolihunlvhuanshichixushangsheng，guigenjiedi，shiyouyuyixierendaotiaoxuanairenshi，fanleyixiebuzhengque，meiyouzixirenzhendisisuoxuduo wubisisuodenanti。jiarunizhenxinshiyiyaozhaoxunyigelinghunbanlv，neimaqingbuyaomangmugenfengtoushenyuganqing，yidingyaosisuoqingxixiabiansigenanti，suihouzaimingqueshibushijiangaiqingkaizhanjiujing。neimeaiyigerenshishenmeganjueni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenxuyaoliyoumadewenzhangba。

难题一：大家有相互的人生目标吗?

 tuozhannanti：jiarudajiazaoyiwanhunersanshinian，neimazaizheiliersanshinianli，niqidaijiangzenyangduguo，aiyigerenyoucuoma？zaochenyiqixinglai、yongcan、manpao?yeliyiqizhufan、kandianshiju、rushui?

jibenhuida：niwubiheairengongxianggengjiashenrugengjiayouyiyideshier，dajiawubiyouxianghuderenshengmubiao。

zaiganqingli，jingchanghuichanshengxialieerzhongqingkuang：

 yizhong，dajiayiqichengzhang，xianghufazhanqushi;lingyizhong，xianghufenbiefazhan，hubuganrao。youyibanzhishangdefufu，huizaihunyinshenghuozhongyiqichengzhang，xianghufazhanqushi。neima，shengyudeyibufenfufu，bianhuifenbiefazhan。danshi，jiusuanshifenbiefazhan，fufuyebixuyouxianghuderenshengmubiao，jiusuanfenbiederenshengmubiaotanbushangchedixianghu，haiyaoyouyigexianghuderichangshenghuodaodedixian。huanjuhuashuo，fufubicisuoyaozhuiqiuwanmeiderenshengmubiaodequbiebukeyihenda，jinyouneiyang，ganqingcaikeyilaoguchijiu。

 jiading，jiaruliangrenzhenduirichangshenghuozainaer，zainaeranju，xubuxuyaoxiaohai，zheixie，zheizhongjibennantidoushihuichuxianbijiaoyanzhongdemaodun，neimazheiliangrenyexunanyichijiudihexiexiangchu。

难题二：和爱人共享觉得与观念时，相互感觉安全性吗?

 tuozhannanti：dajiayiqikandianyingdianshiji，yiqitantaoshehuifazhanredianhuati，xianghudejianjiehuichuxianxianzhudemaodunma?nikeyichedijiangchuxinlidezhenzhengniantou，erburongyidanyoubeitadizhihuoshicaiyima?

jibenhuida：xianghudexinrenganshianquanxingjiaowangdejiben，erxinrenganyibangenjujianjiedeyizhihuoshisixiangguanniandehuxianglijie。

 gongxiang“ganjueanquanxing”，yisishishuonikeyitanchengxiangjiandiheairengoutongjiaoliu，juyoujibendexinrengan。zaigongxiangshi，yidingyaoduilingyifangchengxin，zheibushishuonimanbaotashiweilegenghaodihuodeshenme，zhishishuojiarunimanbaole，neimayoukenengtayemanbaole，niyejiunanyimingquenixuyaowanhundemubiaoduinizaiganqingshangshibushiqueshianquanxingkekao。jiaruniranglingyifangganjuebunengzhangwobunenglejie，quefaanquangan，neimajishizouruhunyinshenghuo，yemianbulezaochengjiedishenzhihunningtulixi。

 jianxinhenduorendoukanleyingpian《shouji》。jiarulianaizhongdeliangren，doubuyuancongrongxiangduixing，haipahuoshibukenjiangchushihua，neima，xianghujiudounanyizailingyifangshenpangxunzhaoguishuganhejieshougan，neiyangdeaiqingyuhunyin，zhongjiuhuichunanti。

难题三：你挑选的情侣在你眼中是个非常值得钦佩，而且很可爱的人吗?

 tuozhannanti：aiyigerenxuyaoliyouma？tashigegaozhiliang、youfazhanqianliderenma?tashibushirenzhendigaijinzishen，bingqinfentuidongzishendefazhan?nikanzhongtadejianglaima?

 jibenhuida：weiyounikanzhongta，caihuiqueshimishang，jiarunibuguoshimiliantadeyixietedian，lirurongyan，lirujinqian，erbingbuzhenshikanzhong、qinpeita，neimazheiyiduanganqingyexuyenanyichijiu。

 renshijianderendagaikefenchengerzhong：yizhongshizheyanyugerentishengderen，lingyizhongzeshixunzhaoshufurichangshenghuoderen。jiangshufurichangshenghuolierurenshengmubiaoderen，yibanhuibabenrenxiangyoubaifangzaidiyiwei，neimatazhenduilianren、hunyinshenghuoyujiatingdeshimingganbianhuishaoxuduo ，zaiyuzheiyangderentaruhongtanzhiqian，niduokaolvyixia，zheiyangderenzhibuzhixinlaiyisheng。

 aiyigerenshishenmeganjue？tadaodishiruheyigeren，tayounaxieyoushiyulieshi，nishibushiqueshiqinpeita，tashibushiyouqi，tadejianglaihuiruhe，tashibushikeyidanfunagebumingdejianglai，zheizhongnantidehuidahuoxunanyifaxian，shubuzhiniwubizaichijiudeguanchahesisuozhong，zhaodaozheizhongnantidehuida。