调情的艺术,聪明的女孩要学会装傻

 zhuangfengmaisha”shiyizhongrenshengjingjie，shicongmingdenvrensuozuo。neimediaoqingdeyishuyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankandiaoqingshidewenzhangba。

shijishang“zhuangfengmaisha”bingbingbushirangnvxingweishouweiwei，weiquqiuquan，

yiqieshierdoushiyoutademohubuqingdiqu，“zhuangfengmaisha”shihuanyizhongfangfa，

barichangshenghuodesuoshimohubuqingjiejue。

xiaodujichangdenvxinghenyoukenenghuihuodeyishidekaolv;

chuleibacuidenvxinghenyoukenenghuihuodeyikedexurongba，

dannichunfengdeyizhishihuoxumaixialeanquanyinhuan，zhongxialehuohuan，zhuangzhuangfengmaishahenyoukenenghuixunyou。

 congmingdenvhaiyaoxuehaozhuangfengmaisha，zhuangfengmaishabingbudengyuzhenchun，congmingdenvrenburongyizainanshengyanqianzhuyaobiaoxiandebitahainansheng，buranshitashengangongzuoyali。mingbaibaconghuilengjunyanzangqilai，shidurenrangxiangtaxunqiubangzhu，bichuleibacuigengyixiyintadexin，zheijiushicongmingdenvrendexingfukuailedangxinji。wenxintixing：mingbai“zhuangfengmaisha”caisuanshiconghuidezhendi!

 shikeyaohao、fengyongerzhideconghuibingbushizhenconghui，suichuluqiao、bumingbaibulufengmangjinguanfeichangrongyiyinrenzhuyi，danlingwaiyefeichangrongyidezuiyiyi，naizhichanshenghubianluanzaodewuhuiyuwaiqu。

 diaoqingshiyounaxieni？tiandiwanwudouzhuzhongjunheng，jinjintongchangzuibutaihaozhangwodebianshiyaobicijunhengdezhichengdian。zaiyiduanganqingzhong，ruguoyouyifangguoduqianghan，zuihouhuizaocheng ganqingdebupinghenghehunyinpolie。

zheijiushinvxingdangxinjidehuosheng，xuehaosanzhao“zhuangfengmaisha”miji，tagengchiminidewanshantinghuayuhututaorenxihuan。

1.使他了解自身的必要性

 ruguonishiganqinghexinren，zaiaiqingshizhongzhanyouyoushi，neimazuixiannenggoumingquedeyidianshi，tabiranhenaizheni，xiangyaokuanronghejienaquanbudeni。

 shichongerjiaodecuowuxingweizongshiyicicitiaozhantadexixindaodedixian，dajiarenweideconghuizuofashishidushitalejie，tazainixinlideyingxiangliyiyanghenzhongyao。fanyixiebuzhengqueqingtabangzhuchuli，bazijigongzuozhong、shenghuoshangdenantixiangtaqingtubingxiwangyongxinkaolvdaotadejianyi。

 shitalejiedaozishendecunyouduinieryanyouweizhongyao，gesanchawuxiangtasajiaomaimengyeshibaochinvxingmeilidehelifangshi。bierangtanlianaijiaosezhuanhuan：jilao，nishibixutalaiweihuderen，erbushiweitazuozhuderen，neiyangcaikeyilianaiguanxicaikeyipingwenchijiu。zheiyifangshiyejiaoweiheshishehuifazhanlijingjiaoweishao、qianquezishendezhuguanxinghanyiyixienanhaier。

2.换位思考一下

 yaojilao，zuoweiyouzhetanlianaizhudongquandeni，haiyaoxiangfankaolvdaonanxingdetihui。tisheng ganqingzhiliangdeguanjiansuozai，bicizaizheiqizhongjunnengxunzhaoxinrenganhecanyuxing。

 henvrenyiyang，shijishangnanshengyebixulaiyuanyuniyuganqingdeshuangxiangrentongcaiyouwujinqudonglireqing，zaicifaguangfarefengxiandongneng。yinci ，mingbaihuanweisikaoyixia，xiangtasuogan，tiexinlejieshizhongshixiyinyigenanrendegongxinji。zheiyiyeshiwohaizaihengenanshengjinvxinggoutongjiaoliuzhongchangchangshuodaodeyigehuatitaolun。

3.调节情绪

 diaoqingdeyishu,chaochaoshijishangshiyizhongxinren。nineixinqingxizairuhenaopiqitayeburongyilikai，zaiqianyishizhongjuedetachangchangkuanrongnidexiaopiqi。keshijianyijiu，guniangmendedecunjinchizuihouhuirangnanshengpijuanyanfan。shuawulaihaijidelianglierxingo，zhangwohaotadexinlizhuangtaichengshoulihexianduxingye，zaitakejienafanchouneizhengdedaliang，zaitabunengtuoxiedexingyeneishunshierweiquanhengqingzhong，caozonghaozishendexiaojiqingxu，xuehaoziwodiaozhengcaikeyituodangdiaozhengaiqingshimaixiang。