无暇的爱,如何更好地去爱一个人?

 shuangxiangqingganzhangaiyounaxie？buguanshifoutangzaichuangshang，buguandajiashiyikaishihuanshizaoyilaofuqile，niyirannengweilingyifangtourudaliangdeai，youyunideairenfeichangzhidenitourudaliang!kanyixiaxiabianjiangdefangfa，nengrangniyuairendeguanliangengxingfukuaile，gengcijixing。neimewuxiadeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshuangxiangqingganzhangaidewenzhangba。

1、关联第一。

 nifeichangrongyimangliurichangshenghuoermeishijianhelianrenqinmiwujian，tebieshizaitarenlinshizhanyounishijiandeqingkuangxia。shubuzhi，yiduanbukeyishibicikaolvdeguanlianyebuhuichijiu。yinci dajiayaoyouqinmiwujianxiangchudeshijian，shidajiadeqinggandianranbuduan。

•jiarunidehaizinianlingdayidian，gaozhitamenniyulianrentaileileyitian，yaoshuizhele。

•jiarunidexiaohaizinianjibuda，jiuhenzaohongtamenrushui。

 •bubijinjinyoushihouqinmiwujianyixia，rutongyoushihouchulailvyouyici，huoyoushihoufenpeiyici“youhuisuiyue”neiyangyinian2cideshier。neiyangzhenbutaihao。

2、建议要一致。

 shuangxiangqingganzhangaiyounaxie？fenbiebixuchediyuanyicaixing，yifangbuyukuai。nanhaihenvhaidouyiyang，jiarulingyifangzaoyizuidaoxuanchengzishennengkandaojidadelanzisexiaoyanshudechengdule，neimenicicijishile。dajiayaodeshi“xing”，erbushi“haoxiangxing”。

3、舍弃文化艺术忽悠。

 niyiweifuqishenghuoshiseqingdianyinglibiandemingmo，qianwanbuyaobazijixiangchengnaxiebieren，neiyangzhiyourangdajiaxinlibushufu，rangshuangfangdouganjuebuzuhemu。

4、科学研究一下。

 jiaruxiangyaozhidaoruheranglingyifangganshougengqiang，jiuzhaozhaofangfa。nenggoukanyixiayanqingxiaoshuolimiaohuiyixingpengyoudediqu，haikeyizaiwangluoshangkanyixiaxiangguanneirong，lejienajigefangmianbixuliuyi。

5、要有诱惑力。

 bushishuojinijianfeishoushenhuokuodayixieweizhi(tianchongrentidenaxieweizhi)，airenhenizaiyiqibianshiyouyulingyifangzaoyiganjuenihenxingganmirenle。dajiashuodeyouhuolishiyaojinigengqingjie，yizhededang，zheiyileideshier。xiuzhongdeguidingyinrenyousuobutongde，danfeichangshaoyouxierenxiaiyizhoubuxizaodeweier。

6、观查爱人的反映。

 liuyilingyifangduinidefanying，jiarunipengchuyixiediqudeqingkuangxialingyifangfanyingyouliang，niyejiuduozuoyixie!jiarulingyifangnaxiedifangnanshoule，niyejiumanxialai。niyeyaoliuyilingyifangweixiaodeanshizhe，lirubanideshoufangdaonaxieqitadiqule。ninengxiaofanglingyifangduinizuodezishi，zheichangchangshijiniliuyizuoshenmeshiqingdezhuyaobiaoxian。

7、降速。

 hunyinguanxizhongquanbudezishibixubiandemanyidian，jianjiandidekaizhanxingqianxi，gangkaishihoudezishihaiyaoman!neiyangnenggouzengjiahetisheng rentishangquanbuweizhidekuaile。

8、不求回报。

 niziranyaocongqinmiwujianjiaochazhongdedao xiangyou，danhaiyaozhongshilingyifangtihui，ranglingyifanglingrenmanyihehuanle，neiyangnenggouchijiudetigaodajiadeguanlian，lingyifangyexiangyaojinigengweikaolv。

9、探寻爱人。

 shuangxiangqingganzhangai,dajiadoulejieyixieairenxiaibeichupengdediqu，danbiewangjitanxunlingyifangdequanshenshangxia。dajiadeshenshangdequanbuweizhidoushihuibijiaomingan，bijiaominganshuipingyebutongyang。jiarunijiewenlelingyifangxiguanjiehoubian，zhibudinghuifajuelingyifangjijindiankuangle!zheiyehuoxuni!

10、学好接吻。

bianchengjiewendashendanshishifenzhongyaode，erzheixiefangmianbuhaojiuhuaidiao。zaibaozhengqitashieryiqian，yaoxianbawojiewen。

11、转变。

 wuxiadeai,bierangdajiadeqinmiwujianjiaochabianchengkekeqiqi。bubitongyigezitai，tongyigedizhi，yitianzhongdetongyigeshijianxingshenghuo。neiyangjiusangshilanmanle，yemeineimaxiangyoule。yaoganyuchuangxin，changchangzhuanbian，rangreqingweichixinxian。