爱一个人有错吗?如何成为好妻子

 aiyigerenyouduoku?meiyounvxingzaihunhouxiangbianchenghenchadelaopo。shubuzhi，ruguonimeiyougenlaogonggoutongjiaoliuzishendeyaoqiu，lingwaikaolvtadeyaoqiu，dajiadeguanlianhuibijiaoyanzhongsangshicaozong。hunyinshenghuo，yubiedeguanjiandeshieryiyang，bixuqinfenheyongxinqukandai。ruguonijiejinquanlibianchengyiweihaolaoposhi，nidelaogongcaihuizhenshiqushangxini。neimeaiyigerenyoucuoma,?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenxuyaoliyoumadewenzhangba。

方式1:有效的沟通

1、shuochunidetihuiheyaoqiu。

 nilaogongbingmeiyoutoushiyiqiedegongzuonengli。ruguonixuyaoshenme，bianshuochuqu。aiyigerenyouduoku?jiaruyounaxiediqubudui，yeshuochulai。bubizhijianshizhe，xiwangtahui“diaozhuanwaner”。

 •chuandi“zishenxinxineirong”。bubiyiweichizetameiyoumanzunideyaoqiu，zhishiyingbahuatitaolunfangdaozishendeshenshang。liru，duitashuo“womeiwanzhiyouzailiudianbanzhihoukanjianni，woganjuezishenbeihulvele”。

 •yongxintingtashuodaodehua。dangtaduinishuoshiershi，fanfutachangshuodehua，shitalejienigaoqingchuta。liru，“wotingjiannijuedehendanyoucaichancengmiandeshi，yinci nicaihuigongzuozhongdaoneimawan。”

 •fangzhikaizhanpingding。shitashuowanhua，bubijizhehuiying。zaitajiangwanzhihou，zaichushinidejiejuefangfa。liru，“jiarujiansuorichangshenghuochengbenyusuannenggouyaowogengchangkanjianni，neiwoyuanneimezuo。”

2、慎重争执。

 yixieshierfeichangzhidezhengzhi，danyixiequebuzhi，ruguonihuaguoduoshijiankeketabuzhiyitidexiaowenti，neima，zaidashierchanshengzhishi，tajiangburongyitingnide。

 •zhizehuicuihuiyiduanqinggan。jugeshilishuo，yaoshicaipanshizhengjiewanhaowusunde，jiububichixuxutao，jinilaogongde“mashang”bashuicaoxiwanjizhuanghao。shitayijuzishendefangfaquzuoba，bubidanxinyusuoshishangbian。

•bubimeiyouquanjuxingdizhizenidelaogong。jilaobaochilengjing、lixing，youyudaizhuguoduoxintaifeichangrongyijiangtantaobianweizhengzhi。

 •zaiduideshijiangentagoutongjiaoliu。bubibujujihuijiubanidewentipaojitamen。fangzhizaicanqian、zaitafuqianshitiwenwenti，yebuyaozaitazhuanxinzhizhiyujiejuejiposhiershi，lirutayijingxiunideche。yeyou，shizhongbubizainixiaohaiyanqiantiaodongzhengzhi。

3、有效争执。

 bubirangnuhuocaokongzishen，youyuzheihuishinijiangchushaohoubianhouhuimojidehua。jishinimeiyuanyilaogongdejiaofa，yeyingzhongshitadejianjieguandian。

 •dangnicuole，jiurenke。zaizhengzhishiniwubixuehaozenyangdafu，baochilizhi，neiyangnengshinizaizuocuoshishiyishidaozishendecuo，erqiezhiqian。

 •xugaoqingchuyixieshierdajiahenyoukenengshizhongwufadachengyizhijianyi。meiyouyiduifuqinengyouwanquanyizhidedaodeguannianhexinxin。zheidaibiaozhedajiadoudexuehaoyingduizheixiemeifarongqiadejianyi。

4、gennilaogonggoutongjiaoliu，erbushigentarentaolunta。

 zaimeiyougenlaogonggoutongjiaoliuyiqian，shizhongbubigennipenyouhuoqinrenshuonilaogongbutaihaodediqu。zailaogongshenhoushuotashuoxianhuashiyizhongpanbian。nihunhou，zuiyingzhongchengnizhixiqinshu，erbushinidechushijiazhongheshejiaomeitizuyuan

方式2:变成好老婆的方法

1、qieheshijideqidai。

 dajiadouyouquehan，meikaolvdeqidaitongchanghuirangdajiadoujuedecuozhe。ruguonideqidaiqueshitaigaohuoshibushiji，neimanixuyaokaishedadaoyugudeguifan。liru，jiyaoxiangxuduo dezichan，youguidingzheifenairenmeirihuijiachifanshibuhelide。ruguoniqidaiyoudaliangshijianzaiyiqi，jiugaohaoyincifuchuyingyoudedaijiadetiqianzhunbei。

2、bubichangshigenggainilaogong。

 jienata，shitalejie，nibingbuyuantaweiniqugaibianshenme。ruguonijitamenchongzudeshineikongjianzuohaoziji，tajiangjiyunidaliang。genniyiyang，tayeshigechixufazhanderen。aitadeshizhi，tayehuirangniyiyangdeshouyi。

3、操纵工作压力。

 aiyigerenyoucuoma,nvrenhenanrenmeirimeishidoudeyingduigongzuoyali，dajiagaijiejinquanlixiezhulingyifangjiejuerichangshenghuodegongzuoyali。baozheng jinigongzuonengliyingfubenshendegongzuoyali，neiyangnenghuanjiehunhoushenghuodeyali。

4、zaimanzunilaogongyaoqiudelingwaibubiequzishen。

 aiyigerenxuyaoliyouma,ruguonibixudaliangfuqishenghuo，jinlianggongbunideniantou。ruguonibixushijianhepenyouhuanjuhuoshizhuiqiunidexingquaihao，jiububiyouneimaqiangdeduzhanyu。tahuigenggaoxingde，lingwaiyehuiganxieniduitadezhongshi。