被爱的人,迟迟不和不适合恋人分手的几大原因

 beiaideren,yibanzhuangkuangxia，dajiadoulejieyiduanqingganheshizoulaidaozhongdianzhan——buyuangoutongjiaoliu、meiyouhuanle、meiyouhuanxiaosheng、meiyoushentijiechu、meiyouqingyi、yeyoutamenchanshengdewuqiongwujinyiyuzheng……zuihou2gexinhuaiguitaiderengangkaishitiantianguoqi“nitongwopaixi，woshouyiyibiaoyan”derichangshenghuo，kanjiantamenneiyanghuxiangcuican，woqueshigaobudong，zheishiweishenme?neimebeiaideyoushiwukongyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbeipianaidedouyoushiwukongdewenzhangba。

•习惯性•

 xiguanxingyouduokongbu?jugeshili，gebidelinjujialiyouduishifenqinfenducuxiaohailiangangqindebabamama，yizhiyumeirizaoshang6:30～7:10(dagaishixiaohaitiqianzhunbeinianshuyiqianba)wodoushihuibeixiaohaidexueqinxiangshengnongxing，chongfenkaolvzuolinyoushejiandehemujiqixiaopengyoudejiqing，woyubiedegebilinjuduizheishizuihoutiaoxuanlerenshou。gangkaishidejirihennanguo，hennaonu;guojitiangangkaishiganjuebutaizaiyile，bingqiejichuyebuhuiyingxiangwodeyiqiezhengchangrichangshenghuole;rujinjiarunaizhibixukeyiqutingcaihui“qingting”daogangqindeshengyin。kongbudeshi，jiarunatianxiaohaimeiyouliangangqin，wonengyouyizaoshangwuyuanwugudequeshaogan，zongganjueshaoledianshenme。

 renchangshuoyigexiguanyangchengbixuershiyitian，jiarunichixuzaiershiyitianjienafanfudecijixing，neimaershiyitianyihouniyejiuhuichedijienazheiyicijixing，jiusuantashigerangrenbuyukuaidecijixing，erdangzheiyicijixingxiaotuideqingkuangxia，niyaobixuershiyitianlaijienazheiyikeguanshishi。

 jiaruganjuezaoyihetazoulaidaozhongdian，neimaqingbuyaoyouyuxiguanlingyifangdecunyouerzaochengjiangjiudexinlizhuangtai，yaolejienengjiangjiudedoubingbushijiangjiuchuqude，bukeyijiangjiudezuihoudoujiangmeifajiangjiu。jiaruzhishishiyouyuxiguanxingerjinibukenbaituokunjing，beiaideren,neimazaozhongwannixuyaojizijidezheiyikesuxingfuchuyingyoudedaijia。rujinnagexiaohaizidagaishishengxuekaoshile，keyejiaolvbuandemeikongxueqinleba!meirizaoshangliudianbanwoxinglaishiyihouzaichuangshangdouhuiqianyishipiaodaozheiyigousishanglai。

jilao“wozhishixiguanyouleni，bingbingbushifeinibuai。”

•情面•

“jiarutarenlejietashuailewo，wogaiduodiumianzi。”

“jiarutarenlejiewoshuaileta,shifouhuijuedewoshigeshuixingyanghua/xinhuaibuguideren?”

“jiarutarenlejiewomenfenshoule，biwenwoweishenmedeqingkuangxiawogaizenmehuida?’，

“jiaruzaijieshangpengdaotadepenyougaiyouduonankan?”

……

 womenzhongguorenshigedui“qingmian”jiweiguzhiderenzhong。youduoguzhi?yaoduoguzhiyouduoguzhi。youxierenhuiweilegenghaodiqingmianerzailaotongxuejuhui、laoxianghuidengchangsuojielichuipengzishendezaojiu、gongzidaiyu、yingxianglinaizhiluomanshi。wangwangneimehaomianzi，zhibuguoshibuyuantarenyouyuzishenmoucengmiande“bugou”erqiaobuqizishen，yinci ，henduorenweilegenghaodibaochinage“youzhexingfuganqing、jiatinghunyin”de“qingmian”，meirishouzhezishenneicanjiubukande“lizi”guoshenghuo。yeyourenyouyuzishenheairenfenleshouerzhudongcongzheixiecengyinzhengzishenxingfuhunyindequntizhongxiaotui。shijishang，woqueshixianggaosuni，fenshou，meishier;beishuaile，meishier;youyumeifazaicilikaita,yemeishier，youyu“meiyousheihuikanbuqini，tarenyagenjiumeiyouqiaoni。dajiadoubijiaomangde。”

•投入过多，不甘•

 beipianaidedouyoushiwukong,youyigexiangduixingting“yemen”dehaogemenchajuezijixiangchuhenduoniandenvpengyoujingranjiaocaidebujintazheiyitiaochuan，keshilianggerenzaoyilinglezheng，yemailaixinfang，zheijiaorenqingyihekan?

 yincizaihedahuoerheguowushuchang“fenshouhoushushuo、jiandingbuyixinxin、shuailetazan18tianhouyeshiyitiaoliangshanhaohan”dejiuyihou，dajiadouyugulikejiangtingjianlianggerentichufenshoudexinxi。suiyuerushuiliubancongcongmangmangerguo，guoqubannian，dajiayemeiyoutingjiannagexinliqidaitingjiandexinxi。zongsuanyouxierenjinbuzhubazheiyijianbenlaibuyinggaibaishangchujutaimiandeshierlijiyonglaizhiyizheihaogemenle，dahuoercaizhidaotashi“nanweiyuejizheqiong”dedianxingxingyiweizhe，henduonianlaizainvyoudeshenshangdehuaxiaojiqizheiciyizhizaichouhuazhongdehunyanjibenshanghuawanletadequanbucunkuan，wangwangbutichufenshou，bingbushiyouyubushede，zhishiyouyubugan。

 beiaideyoushiwukong,jiarunimaihuilaiyikuairouzhunbeijianzhechi，yincinibaihaoyou，diaohaojiangzhi，mailaipingcanqianjiu，haiteyipeilejishuzhuanyedexicantingshukongdaopian，zaitiqianzhunbeiguodeqingkuangxianiyaoyibuxiaoxintanglaidaoshou，kaijiudeqingkuangxiahaigaozangcanzhuobu，diyijiebaxialaihaiyaodaoshetou，suihounifajueroushichoude。jiaruniyouyunizaoyizaizheifangmianroushangxiaohaoleguoduodeyuancailiaoheshijian，tourulehendadechengbenerjuecebatatunxiaqu，neiqingjiangzheigegushixiangxidifushuyibaigeren，haojinibaochiqingxingdiyishidaozheiyouduoyumei。jiarunijiandaozheierhaiganjuezheiyihaogemendezuofahenqiadang，neimeniwuxufushule，nicaisuanshizuiyuchunderen，jueshengdianfeng。