不缺爱,“出城”以后都懒得“回城”

 buyaoaita,hulianwangshangmianyouyipiantiezihenre：《zuoweiyiming35suiweijiadenvren，kanlebushaoshenbianrendehunyinzhuangkuang，jianjianbuneimezhejile》yinchulaichengqianshangwankafukachengbaorenduihunyinshenghuodezaicisisuo。dabufenbeihunyinshenghuosuokundenvxingyingdangdouxiangguo，tangruolihunzhihou，zishenderichangshenghuoshifouhuigenghao?zheiyitiezilijiuhuiyouxuduo lihunnvrenzaixushutamendemeihaoshenghuo。bulunshitiaoxuandanshenhuanshizaicidunzaihunyinshenghuoli，richangshenghuodezidehuanlecaisuanshinvrenyishengzhuiqiuwanmeidemudi。xiangxinni，quanbushi，dounengsuoyounaxia!neimebuxiangzaiaileyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbuqueaidewenzhangba。

chenglidexiangxiangyihuimie，chuchengnvrenbuxianghuicheng

 wangmin“hongguoguo”yiliyisannianle，qinrenhepenyoujiqireqingdibangtazhangluozheerhunmubiao，danshi，tadoujujuele。“shiquhunyinshenghuo，wozhishiyibugenmouyinanshengyiqishenghuo，erbushishiqurichangshenghuo。wowuxujiangdabadeshijianyongzaibutingdejiawuhuoshang，wuxuzaititawulunhaizijiaoyuerxiaojixintai。ziran，yebuhuiyinmileluerbeizuozhefuzhujiashangdetachizedepengtougoumian，‘baiduditudaohang’dexiangshenggengdaiciqiejishuzhuanye……wobuzaitiaoxuanercihunyinshenghuo，buyaoaita,bingbushi‘yichaobeisheyao，shinianpajingsheng’，zhishibaituohunyinshenghuo，wozhaodaolegengqiangdeshenghuofangshi，fajueledeziji。”

 wangmin“tianbuliangjiuxinglai”zebiaoming：“liyi5nian，qianrenlaogonghouhuile，meishiertouhuaisongbao，qidaizaihun，henbunenglianqingmingshijiedoubangwosongli，gezhonggeyangquyue。youqishimingchaanfangfajuewobingmeiyouxinnanpengyouyihou，jiqiquexinwoshizaidengta。taquanbudeqingshangzhishangdouhaizhiliuzaiyuandibudong，danshi，woyibuzaishinageyizinvelaiwanhuihunyindenvxingle。wolaiguoxuduo diqu，zaishuzhongheshijizhongjiejiaolexuduo bizishenchenggongderen，womingbaileshenmejiaoxingfudeshenghuo。yiner，wobuxiangfanhuihunyinshenghuonatiaofaweidelaodaoshangqu。”

 rutongwangmin“yigexingqishousanjin”shuode，zaidanshendeshenghuoli，tazhujiangaoqingchu，liangzhezhijianjiayigenanren，bibushangbazijihuochu“nvhanzhi”。zheihuayichu，wangminmenjingxianghuiying。gengyouwangminhuizongchu：“yigenvrendeqingkuangzenmeyang，dequegenhunyinshenghuomeiyouhendaguanlian。”

richangshenghuodeyoulieyuweichengneiwaibuxianggan

 mouzhuminghunyinjieshaosuodezerenrenganleyigediaoyan，youguanshujuxinxixianshixinxi：erlingyisinian，daozheigehunyinjieshaosuobeiandelihunnanshigong844ming，erlihunnvshijin121ming，zaiqizhongyeyouhaodiannvshishibabamamatidaiqilaibeiande。diaoyandejieguolingzheimingnanshizerenrenewantanxi：“dabufenlihunnantiaoxuanerhundemudishifenjuti，zuixianshixingdebixu，cizhishirichangshenghuodebixu，bixuyouxierenxiyifuzhufan，naxiazheizhongjichudecunhuoyaoqiu。danshiliyinvdeguidingquechaozhejingshencengmiantuokuan，rulingyifangyounaxiexihao、pingchangduxienaben、shibushixihaojianshenyundong、qinrendejiankangqingkuangzenyangdeng。zaiqizhongyiweilihunnvshideguandianhenjuxiangzhengxing：“diyicihunyinshenghuojingchangzhuzhonglingyifangdejingjifazhanbiaozhun，daizhenshizouruhunyinshenghuocaizhidao，jinyouzhaoyigeyoulianghaodexiguanhaohanyangderen，nicaikeyihaohaoguorizi。jiaruoerhun，yidingdaibiaozhechaoguoguoqudehunyinshenghuo，rangzishenguoshangmianyoupinzhiderichangshenghuo，buran，haibibushangbuxiangjiehun。”gaizerenrencengdiaochaguohaojigewoguodeleisizuzhi，zhenduineiyangdezhuanbian，zheimingzerenrenjiqigaoxingdibiaoming：shixianvshiduihunyinshenghuodeguidingyulaiyugenguojixingduijiele，gengzhongshixianghuxingquaihaoshangdelianjie，erbushijingjifazhanshangde“jiefujipin”。

 buxiangzaiaile,zaineiyangdeshujuxinxishenhou，youxuduonanshengzhanchuqu，jiqiqifendibiaoming：dajiazhuiqiuwanmeilequtouyuan，bazijixiuliancheng“nvhanzhi”。nandaoshuonvxingjiumeiyoushenglixuyao?yehuaqishuidiangongchengzuobianqihuaidiao，nandaoshuoniyejiubuqipanyishuangnanxingdeshou?guonianhuoguojie，denghuowanjia，niyejiuburongyigugaozixu?guanjiandeshi，xiaohai“beidanqinjiating”le，xingqingfazhanqushipianle，guangnizijiguodejingcaifenchengyouyongchu?shubuzhi，zhongduonvshiwangminyizhaozhididenaxialequanbunanti。

 youguanshenglixueguidingzheiyishuo，youxierenzhiyanbuhuidibiaoming，buhunzhuyibuyiweizhemeiyouxinghuoban，jishimeiyoushihede、anquanxingdexinghuoban，yeyouqingquyongpindian。

 shuodaojiazhongdegezhonggeyangyingjiansheshihuaidiaogaizenmeban?dahuoerdefanyingyeshichuhuyiliao。wangmin“qiangweihuadechao”shuo：“woyizhizaihunyinshenghuolideqingkuangxia，jiazhongdezilaishuiguandaoyehuaiguo，nagehuanshiwolaogongdelikenan，xiushixiule，danquanbuxishoujianrutonglijingledizhenzaihai，quanbudezhuanyonggongjuhefeishuidouliudaoneibian。bierenzhichengdanxiu，suihoujiuqiaozheerlangtuizuozaishafashangdenghoujingyang。lihunzhihou，ketingxidingdenghuaiguo，zuobianqilouguo，wangshangbaiduyixia，zhaolaijishuzhuanyeweixiugongzuorenyuan，xiudewenwende，linxinghaibadamenkoudesuliaodaijishaoxialoutile。wofandezheweiyiliangbaiyuanjiukeyinaxiadeshiergenyigenanrenjiangjiu、yingduiyibeizima?”

 buqueai,erguonianhuoguojiedeluoji，xuduo nvxingyeshiliyitiebadizhanxianlezishenbujiuduguodezheiyixinchunjiajie。youdequlvxing，youde“zhai”zaijialibeishuzheiyiniandundeshu，youdedaizhulaomahexiaohaibadourankongxiadecheng，congnanlaidaobei、congbeilaidaohei……“jishiguonianhuoguojieyoushihouhuichujingshangqing，yejinjinyishunjiandemishi。zhongjiuyinianyou365tian，guojiafadingjiarijinjinjishaoshu，dabufenshenghuohuanshiguangcaiduomude。”tashiwangmin“meitiankanbudaotiantianjian”dehuizong。