不缺爱,怎么才能让男人主动提出结婚？

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nansheng“hundian”dechanshengyuangujinyouxialiehaoduoge：

(1)laiyuanyubabamamadejidagongzuoyali。

(2)lianaitaileile，wantaileile，yaoxiangwanhun。

(3)yaozuogongzuoxiananju。

(4)yaoxiangyigehaizi。

(5)duinvxingquefaanquangan。

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zaiqizhongshidefangshimoguosanzhong：jiazhonggongzuoyali、gongzuoyinyouheguishugan。

 zuixian，nixuyaolejie，nanrenshiyizhongmeifachengdanjiazhonggongzuoyalidexiaodongwu。tamenjiranmeifachengdanbabamamadedizhierpobudeyitichufenshou，neimaziranyemeifachengdanbabamamadegongzuoyalierbeipojiehun。

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 shijishang，xuduo qiyedequejiaoweixiaichengjialiyehoudenansheng。youyutamendekekaoxingbijiaohao，yebixugudingbudongjingjilaiyuan，yinci nanshengdechengjiahegongzuofazhanqushishizhengxiangguande。

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zhenzhengdeaiqingzhongshehuixinlixue，shehuixinlixuedefangfa，bianshiyongzaizheileidiqu。

 zuizhong，niqianwanbierangnanshengtaiyouguishugan。yixienvhaierzaitongjushenghuoyihou，jiuyuelaiyuehuitoutulian，yitiandaowanyifurenlaozhuhuangdemoyang，renweizishenhaowuyiwenjiadechulai。

 danshishishang，nirangnanshengyueyouguishugan，nanshengjiuyueduinibuzaihu。ernanshengduinibuzaihudehua，jiuburongyixintengni;tabuzaiyini，ganqingjiuzaimanmandisuoxiao，tichufenshoudejilvjiuzengda。yinci ，bubirangnanshengyouguishugan。nixuyaogengweihaokan，yaochangchangchulaihexiongdiwan，yaozaiciyouyixingpengyou，yaonengjiedaolipinhehua。

 buqueai,yaoshinidenanrenmeishimeikeyoujinpogan，jiubutaikenengshifangyaliduinideguanzhu。cikeshitamingquetichuwanhunlaikunzhuni，jiuyuelaiyuemingzhengyanshunle。zheiyeshishehuixinlixuedeshizhanyanlianyunyong。