女生恋爱技巧 女人在恋爱中的6大行为误区

 shilianaima?henduorenbingbulejie，dangtamendeqingganchuxianleliefeng，bingbuyidingshiqingganmeibianle，zhishibumingbaizenyangjiaowang。neimenvshenglianaijiqiaoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqidailianaidewenzhangba。

lianaiguanxiyeshiyizhongdutederenjijiaowang，hequanburenjijiaowangyiyang，doushiyoufangfakexun。

zhaobuzhezheileifangfaderen，rutongfuyouyebuzhidaozenmehua，tuyouqinggan，huanshimianbulexiangaixiangsha。

zaizheixiefangmian，nvxingyouyixieguanlianxingde、hendianxingxingdegerenxingweicuowuguannian。

1、喜爱生气

 tanlianaihuirangnvxinggengfeichangrongyihuanle，yegengfeichangrongyibukaixinle——jiarunanpengyoubukeyiquanzidongmingbaizishenqingyidehua。

 tamenyizhijuedenanpengyouyouyiwuyeshiyougongzuonengliganshouzishenmeiyikedexintaiheyaoqiu，shilianaima?yidanzishenbukaixinhuoshiyaoxianghuodeshenmele，tajiuyingdangjijihuilailejie、kuanwei，huoshifansheng。ernanshengni，youyushengjulaiduizheizhongxizhibijiaomingandewupinjueyuanceng，yagenganshoubushangweixiaodexintaizhuanbianzhongjian，lingyifangxinlineiyongdongdedafenglang，yinci tamennanyizuochuneiyangdedafu。

 zheirangnvrenshengqidecengjichuxianyichangfengfuduocai。liru，qixianyouyumoujianshibutaijidong，qidaihuodenanpengyoudekuanwei，nanshengchihuan，ganshoubushanganshizhe，nvxingdenuhuogangkaishihuanlefangwei，congshijideshierbianchengle“nizenmeneimebudongwodexin”，yincitakeke、manhengwuli、naopiqi，qidaizheinengjinanshengyigeshujuxinhao，dannanshengjiranliankongxuelaifengdeexingshijiandoufajuebushang，neimakuanweiyejingchangshiliuxupaimapaidaomatizishang——zhaobuzheguanjianhuanjie，jitongyajiangyifan，zhiyoushiqishangjiaqi。

 nanshenghenyoukenengnanyilejienvxingdezheileixinlizhuangtai，“niyoushinijiushuoya，nibushuowozenmezhidao?”kenvxingganjue，“weihebixuwojiangchuqu，nizenmejiubukeyixiangqini?niruguoyixiangbudao，neibianshibugouaiwo。”yifangshixunzhaohuida，yifangbianshibujihuida，jiuneimejianchibuxiezhe，gaoshangtongguiyujin。

 wonianqingdeshihouchuduixiangyefanguozheileibuzhengque，wuyuanwugujiubukaixinle，yebuhangsheng，zhituyiweishengqi，qidelingyifangshoumangjiaoluan。shijishangyinweiwotexiangshuoya，kejiushibuchulai，neixinyibiandianjizhe：“tianni，neimenaoxialaiwokeruhedaotaiya?”yimianzaicixianghebangyiyangbishangzuijianmo。

jieguoziranshitanlianaibuchenggong。youyushijianzhangle，nanshengjiuyanjuanlezheilei“wocaiwocaiwoshicaibuzhe”deshoujiyouxi。

 rujinwodongdele，dangshiyouzheileixinlizhuangtai，shiyouyuxingqingshangdequefazixin，jiangzishenfangyuchuyubeidongchengdandebuwei。yuefachuyubeidongderen，yuehuizhuzhonglingyifangdejiji，guidingnanshengshikechuaicezishendexinsi，shijishangbianshizailingyifangdejijilizhegaizishenxinlidezaodongbuan。

2、提出分手挂嘴上

 youxierenyong“nvshuohenshucitichufenshouyebuyidingnengfendaole，nanrenshuoyicitichufenshoujiuwufawanliu”zheijuhualaizhengshinanshengdewuqing。shijishangganghaobingbushizheiban，xiangnanshengneiyangjinshendekandaiqinggancaisuanshikeguande，ernvxingwuyuanwugujiuhan“langlaile”dexiguanxing，zaozhongwanyedexiangnageaishuohuangdexiaohaiziyiyang，bei“langtundiao。”

 nvrenaishuotichufenshou，zheijibenshangbianchengquanbunvxingdebenzhitezheng。sheitanlianaideqingkuangxiameishuojihuitichufenshouni，bukaixindeqingkuangxia、zhengchaodeqingkuangxia、yaoxiangzuodaoyixiemudimeizuodaodeqingkuangxia，douxiaibatichufenshouguazaizuishang。wobabawomamadoukuaiqishisuiderenle，qianjirizhengchao，womamahaishuo，“liyi，sheibuliyisheixiaosunzi。”wojiangaiyo，nixiaosunzidoushangzhongxuele，jingranhaishuozheileihua?woyingduitazuiyouyitao，“xing，liyihao，woshiyong，nikankanzanneiyitianqu?”likebushuohuale，deyuwangquan。

 shuotichufenshourutonghuikudexiaohaixiangduoguanjiandiannaichiyiyang，buguoshiweixienanrenjianceqinggandeyizhongfangshi，“danxinwolikaiba，neimejiuyijianshizaihaoyidian”。kanjianlingyifangkukuwanliuzishen，huihuodefujiadekuaileheguishugan，“kan，huanshibushedewo”。ganqingzaitichufenshoudeyouxilimianbeiyicicizhongzhongdegouhua，yinci zheileishoujiyouxiyouqifeichangrongyichengyin，wanleyicibuzu，haixiangwandierci。jianjiandijiuwufazidonghuakongzhi，fajue“tichufenshou”liangziyouqifeichangrongyibianshuochulai。

 dannanshengshizenmexiangdeni?nanshengyigenjindebijiaoduo，nvshuotichufenshou，tamendoushihuidangyihuishi，wanhuishiyouyuganjueqingganshangzai，haibushangfenshoushi。kezongshuozongshuo，tamenbianhuicaiyizheiyiduanqingganbukeyijilingyifangmanzugan，caiyizishenmeiyougongzuonengliquaiyigeren，neima，dangzheileicaiyitishengdaodedixiandeqingkuangxia，tamenbianhuijienatichufenshou。

 nanrenaichangshuotichufenshou，shiyouyutichufenshoubianshitichufenshou，yicijiusuoming。nvshuohenshucitichufenshou，shiyouyutichufenshoubingbushitichufenshou，yicicizaisuoai。

 tichufenshoubunengchangshuo，shuoduolesuoaibianhuibianweisuoming。liansanguozhugeliangneimeyouxiuderen，doulejiekongchengjizhiyouyongyici。tichufenshoubingbushibukeyiyongyujingquecelianglingyifangdeqingganshenceng，danrutongqiongguangdanyingdangshenzhongyingyongtazuizhongdeqiancai，zheizuizhongdechaobishayaoyongzaizuizhongyaodeqingkuangxia。

3、老想当小公主

 ganqingzhong，nanshengzhuinvxing，erbushixiangfan，fuheguojiarendejiusixiang，zaoshouzheileiwenhuajiaoyuzhangdaledenanshenggengzhongshiquxiyin，bingfeiqujiena。nvxingyiyangzheiban，gengzhongshibeichudong，bingfeiquzhengde。

 zheijiuchanshenglenanrenzaizhuiqiuwanmeiquanguochengzhongyizhiyouyidekuadaqicizishendegongzuonenglihechengxin，liru，meiyouqianyeyingyaoqingchifanmaimeigui，yuegongzi3000derenqueganxiangyuegongzi30000neibanwusi。tashihuaxuewuzhishang，qidailianai,jingshenshizhishangyeshiguanaititieruwei，yinqinfengcheng。

 woyigepenyoudangshibeinanpengyouzhuideqingkuangxia，meirizaoshangdouxiangyounanpengyoulaijizuozaocandegongzidaiyu，tazhiyaochi，wanyebuxi，chilejiuguangjiegouwu，tachengdantibaochuqian。youyicitalaiwozheilixianliao，shuodaoshengxing，yigexiaoshiguoqu，tahuranrumengchuxing，“butaihao，tayiranhaizaiwaibiandengzhewoni。”dadongjidedongbeidiqua，zouchuquyikan，tarengrantatashishidengzaiwaimian，yijumaiyuanyemeiyou。

 zhenduizenyangtaonvxinghuanxi，nanrenmenxianghuzhijianjiaojigongzuojingyan，meinvmenxianghuzhijianxiqujingyan。feiyaozheibanbuneng，youyudabufenrendouzheiban，shehuifazhanqifendaozhilenixiabulaibenjiunanyizhuidaonvhaier。

 nvxingjingchangjiuzheiyangbeichudongle，“conglaimeiyourenyijianshineimehao”。weilegenghaodituzheiyifenhao，jienalezheiyifenganqing。kenanshengzaoyishihaoguangquanbudongnengcaidedao lezheiyifenhuosheng，zaididadingbuyihou，tamenjiuxuyaozouxiapole。dangnvxingxintouganjuezhongyushipengdaoleyigenengrangzishendangxiaogongzhuderen，nanshengdianjizhede，shiyao“bianhuilai。”

 nvshenglianaijiqiao ,zheileizhanlvehuobanguanxidebutongbu，jingchanghuichanshengfenqi。nanshengyaoxiangxunzhaoyigeshufudezitairangzishendaichulai，buyuanyitiandaowandang“nupu”le，nvxingdangxiaogongzhuquedangdezhenghai，chenjinzaiyiqianbeinanrenwanbanguanaidechuxianhuanjuezhongwufaziba，suoyaoguoduo，kaolvdaolingyifangtaishao。