爱的信号,会让自己心碎的错误

 aideyishuyoushenmeni？nianqingdeshihou，tingguoyishoulidudege《weiaifanlezui》：“wolaiaifanshi，chengbenshiwodelei。jiebushangxiangnian，duanbushangfuwei，benlaiyiweichuanleshiwojinijiyurangwoxinsui……”neimeaideyanjingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidexinhaodewenzhangba。

 yishengzhiaiyicishixingfude，beijudeshi，zheixiebeiganqingsunhailededajia，quezhongjiubujinaiyici。yinci ，ruguonihaibuyuanbaguoduodeshijianhuazaifenshouhoudezhibingshang，neimaniyejiugaisikaoyixia，shifouzaiganqingzheiyiweixiandeyouxili，yiqianweileaiduizishenfanle“zui”。

■第一宗自取其辱的宽容

kuanrongjiuxiangniqianbaolidehuangjin，meiyicidejiyudouyingdangyouliyouju，buranbianbianchengyizhonghaowuyongchudexiaohao。

 taxiaizaiwanshangyuepenyoupaojiubayinjiu，jingchangyaoguoquleshenyecaihuijiale，tazongshishuo：aideyishuyoushenmeni？“xiayiciliuyi，xiayicijinzao。”niyaozheishihoudahuoerhainianqing，zhihoujiehunlejianjiandijiuhaole。yici，niwuyijiandifajue，tayumouyinvhaierjingchangyiqichifan，ertayizaidishenminglianggerenshichunsuideyouqing。dannihuanshiyuanliang：“tadouneimeduzhoufashi，woziranjianxintazhihouburongyizaiyoushenmeshile……”

 quebuzhidao，nidebaorong，fandaohuisuzaotaduinidebugaoduzhongshi，chijiuzhihou，tahuiganjueyiqiejinyouzishencaisuanshiguanjiande，jinerhulvenidetihuiheduinixuyoudeyiwu。youyunihuikuanrong，taburongyigulvzaicifashengyicibuzhengque。

jilao：panbianbingbushiganqingdeweiyixiongshou，quanbudebugaoerbiebingbushizhichanshengzaimouyitian。

■第二宗沒有标准的宠溺

shibushinifeichangxihuanta?yizhiyuxuduo shierdouyoutalaiding?

 fadingjiejiari，nixingzhiangran，xiangtuotayiqiquguangjie，maiyixiezhuanjifushi。danshitapianyaobuyuan，yingyaozuozhejiazhongkanzuqiu。yinci，niweilegenghaoditaotakaixin，huoshishiyizhongzaiqianyishizhongdezhuisui，niyeyiranfangqilezishendefangan，yutayiqizuodaodianshiqian。tazuoshengri，niyongxinxuanzeleshifenbitingdeyikuanxizhuangzengjita，danshitajiushuoneitaibuhaokan，tazhixiaitxuheniuziku。beijiaoleyitouliangshuidenianzizhizezishentaicuxindayi，jingranbuqingchuxinaiderendexie。diertianqiaoqiaodequdianpugoudaotaxiaidefushi……

 fangongzisheng：nikuailema?huoxunijuedekeyihexinaiderenzaiyiqi，kandaotagaogaoxingxing，niyejiuganjuehenkaixin。danshi，neiyangdeqingkuang，henyoukenengduanqineiburongyiyoubutaihaodeganjue，eryidanchijiuzaiyiqi，niyejiuhuizaochengbumanyi。yuanbenma，aijiuyinggaishigongpingde、xianghulijiede。taiguodijiaozonglingyifang，huishitaganjueniduitadehaoquanshiyingdangde，fandaohuibuaixi。fanguolaidi，tahaihuijixubuduandijiaowei，ruguoyouyitiannimeiyouxiangzhiqianneibanchongta，tahuiganjueniduitabutaihao，lianggerendebufuhejiuzhongxiazhongzi。

jilao：bushidangdechongnihuirangdajiadeganqingfashengbianhuawei。

■第三宗一厢情愿的激情

nishibushiyecengjinglineiyangdexinxin：jianxinjingchengsuozhi，jinshiweikai。

 niqiaoqiaodejizhedajiahuandudemeiyigegengyouyiyideshenghuo。zaixiangyuzhounianjiniandejierili，yongxinweitaxuanzeyifenlipin，huoshimingsikuxiangyigenairenxunweidexingwei。erta，quemurandiwangzheni，ruheyexiangbuqilaishigeshenmeyangzidechuantongjieri。niyecengreliedeyaoyuetayitongcanjiapengyoudejuhuihuodong，xiangrangdaliangdepenyoulejiedajiadeguanlian，ketaquewanbanwunaiduinishuo，zheishihoutagengxiangyaozaijialixiexi、rushui……

 aideyanjinghuoxu，youyitiantaqueshihuijinidejiqingtouruerdadong，danqianwanbiejianxintashiganqing，jibian dajiahuibianchengqinglv、lianren，naizhifufu。neiyangdezhenzhengdeaiqingshifenmingande，tajianxindezhishijiushiniaita，erbushitayeyiyangaizheni。“gengshiyouyutayijianshihao，.wohetawanhun。”tatongchanghuineiyangshuo，erdangrichangshenghuolichuxianyigetasuozuiaideren，tabianhuiguoduandijiangnifangdaoyigeyifudebuwei。

jilao：aidetourushihuxiangde，tashizhongbushiyigerenhuanleyigerenbiequ。

■第四宗得寸进尺的妒忌

 dujishiquanbutanlianainanhaihenvhaidequanli，zhenaidewuzhi。gengshiyouyunizaiyita，nicaihuiguanxindaotashenpangdemeiyigenvsheng，qiaoqiaodenazishenyutamenjiaowei。dujibiancongerweizhi。

 zouzailushangnijiandao20suinvhaitongninanpengyoujiqingdidahuluni，ninengmeishenmeyuanyindiduineinvhaizaochengdichu，yincilengyanlengyu，naizhifuxiuerqu。zairu，niyoushihouzaixiangcetupianlifajuenanpengyouhetarendehezhao，aidexinhao,jiusuanshizuiyibandezishi，niyehuijueranguidingtajiangxiangpiancongyingjizhonghuatuichu，naizhisilan，chufeishineinvshengdexiangmaoqueshibunengfengcheng……