爱的日记,谈恋爱不能过分迁就

 aideshigetiaojianyoushenme？lixiaojiezaoyilaidaochuduixiangdenianji，taxiaidenanrenyouyigexianghudetexing，bianshizuizhongdoulitaerqu。lixiaojiegaobudong，zishenzailianaizhongneimazijintouru，naizhidoushiquzishen，zheixienanrenweihehaibumanyi?neimeaidesefangyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiderijidewenzhangba。

行为心理学：

 chuduixiangshiyijianpojureqingdeshi，tashiyiqiezhengchangde，danjiaruxianglixiaojieyiyang，zailianaizhongfangzongziji，chedibeinanrenluhuo，neizuizhongdejieguotongchangbingbubijiaomanyi。

 shijishanglixiaojieneiyangdezuofazhengqiaotixianletadebuzixin，youyutaduizishendefengcaiquefazixin，aideshigetiaojianyoushenme？yinci caihuineimafeichangrongyituoxieyunanpengyou;youyutadanxinbeinanrenpaoxia，yinci caihui“kenqiu”ganqing。danjutiqingkuangshi，lixiaojieyuefahaipashiqunanpengyou，nanpengyouyuehuipaoxiata。

 aidesefang,youyunanrendetianxingyibanshiyaoxiangxiyinnvren，bingqiedabufennanrenyouyigetexing，bianshiyuefajinglijianxianhuodedeganqingcaiyuehuiaixi。erlixiaojieyizhihensuibiandiqujiuyunanpengyou，zaocheng nanrenfeichangrongyibataxiaokan，zuizhongpaoxiata。

 ziran，zheiyulixiaojiexiaidenanpengyouqichangyeshiyouguanxide。xianglixiaojieneiyangziwojiazhiganjiaoweididenvshi，feichangrongyimishangyixiebatakandehendideyixingpengyou，huoshiyejiushishuo，renruhekanzishen，bianhuiquxiaiyeneimekanzishendeyixingpengyou，neiyangcaikeyishiwaibuhezishenxinlitongyi。yiner，lixiaojiedenanpengyou，doujubeiyigetexing，bianshifeichangrongyipaoxianvshi，xingqingbutaipingwen，yuefaneiyangdenanren，lixiaojieyuefaxiai;yuexiai，jiuyuefangzongziji，jinerrangzheizhongyuanbenyebupingwendenanrenduitasangshixingquaihao。

 shijishang，nvshijibian zailianaizhonghaiyaoweichizishendezijuexing，zheijiubixutamenchukaiyouduinanpengyoudeqinggan，yeyaoyouzishenderichangshenghuo、zishendexihaohezhuiqiuwanmei，erbushibeinanpengyou“tunshi”。

 lingyifangmian，xianglixiaojieneiyangdenvshiyaomanmanxuehaojiejue“zhemo”，jiejuexunzhaonanpengyou“lingnve”dequxiang，tigaoziwojiazhigan，tigaozizunxin，neiyangcaihenyoukenengyouyigeguishuyuzishendezishen。

 zuizhong，aideriji,lixiaojieyebixuxiangyixiang，zishenweiheyizhizhaoxunzuihouhuipaoxiazishendeyixingpengyou?zheilibianyounaxieguilvxing?bixudeqingkuangxiahaikeyizuogexinlifudao。