什么才算爱?如何追上优质男生？

 shenmejiaoai??wulunshichuduixianghuanshizhuinansheng，douyuanmeiyouxiangxiangzhongdezheimejiandan，zainiyanxianyiduanjizhideaiqingshi，nishibushixiangguozheiyiduanganqingdeshenhouyouruhedetouruni?aiqingshibixuyunyingde，yiduanjizhideaiqingbixudaliangdetanlianaijiqiao。nvhaimendouxiangyaozhaoyigegaopinzhidenanhaizizuoweiairen，shenmejiaoai??danqinglvjingongzongshihezhulingyifang，zenyangcaikeyihuodeaiqingni?zenyangcainengluhuogaopinzhinanhaizidexinni?zheipianwenzhangneirongjiangguanjianweidahuoergongxiangzheizhongnvhaitanlianaijiqiao。neimeshenmecaisuanaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeshiaidewenzhangba。

 xiangzhuishanggaopinzhinanhaizi，danchunxingdequkaozhuishibuzude。nvshengzhuinansheng，zuizhongyaodeshiyongfengcaixiyinzhulingyifang，chengxiannidechuselairanglingyifangqinpei，yinci duinieryan，rujinzuizhongyaodeshishouxianconggaibianxianzhuangxueqi，jinyouruguonichusele，caihuichuxiangengchusedeairen。neimayingdangzhongxiediquzuochugenggaini?

最先，改变现状的意识

 rujinduinieryan，youguanaiqingdeyixieyishishibixugenggaide，lirutaiguodebaijinzhuyi，henyoukenengnvhaimenganjuezishenhuaxuewuzhiyixiebingmeiyoushenme，youyutashiduizishenshenghuodequebao，sheidoushihuizhuiqiuwanmeigengqiangdeshenghuo。

 dantangruojinineiyangdeniantou，wojianyinibuyaozainanhaiziyanqianzhuyaobiaoxianchuqu，youyunanrenhenvrendejianjieshiyouyidingdechabiede，nisuojuededezhuiqiuwanmeishenghuo，huishitakanshangquchuxianyichangbaijinzhuyi，yibandenanshiburongyitaixiaibaijinnv，ruguoniyouneiyangdeniantoushi，shidudegaibianxianzhuang，youshihouqueshibietaiguofendezhuiqiuwanmeihuaxuewuzhi，youyuniyinci yaoxiangdeshiyiduanganqing，ertaiguodezhuiqiuwanmeiganqingyiwaidewupin，haowuyiwenhuijinideganqingzaoshouzulan。

次之，学好让自身单独

 tangruozheiqunnvhaimenweishenmeyaozhuiqiuwanmeinanhaizi，youdejiemeihuishuozishenzhenshitairuanruo，yixieshieryigerenkangbuhuilai，nineiyangdejianjie，zongshirangnanhaizikanzuonishizaizhaoyigemaikuli，erbushidanchunxingdezaizhuiqiuwanmeiaiqing。

 weishenmebuchangshirangzishendanduqilaini?aiqingshiaiqing，tayongyou chediyoubieyubiedeganqingdewupin，tahuijirennenglianghewangshangdedanliang，danbuyiweizheaiqingjiukeyishouyuniyiqie。zuoyigeguannianhehuaxuewuzhishangmiandandudenvhaiba，zheibudanhuishouyuniyizhizainanhaiziyanlidefengcai，genghuirangjinichongzudechengshouliquyunyingaiqing，jiqiweilaidehunyinshenghuo。

再度，明白在意他的情面

 shenmejiaoai?nanhaizishizheiyishijiezuiaimianzideweishengwu，tamenyaomianzideshuipingyuanchaoyunidexiangxiang，yinci shizhongbubiqunanideguanniankaoliangtaduiyijianshiqingdeguandian。

 bansuizhedajiachupengdeshencengci，nisuozuodeyinggaishizaiyitadetihui，zaitadeqinrenhepenyouyanqianzhaoliaotadeqingmian，kaolvtadexurongbagan，zheijiangdaibiaozhetaduinideyikaoshuipingyulaiyugao;chucizhiwai，yeyouyijiantebiezhuyideshier，bianshizaizhaoliaotaqingmianlingwai，jiyutayidingdefazhanqushishineikongjian，nanshidouhuiyoujiaoji，youzishendegongzuozhongshenghuoshejiaoquan，nimeibiyaoquyankedexiandinglingyifang，yaoshitabuzuochupianjidegerenxingwei，jitamenyikebaorongdexinba。

最终，维持信任感

 xinrenganshilianrenjianshifenzhongyaodeyigeyaosu，jibian rujindajiahaimeiyoufazhanqushiweilianrenzheiyizhenshishenfen，danyezheidoubudaibiaozhedajiazhongjianbuyongxinrenganzuoweishiyonghejiezhu。

 shenmecaisuanai?xinrenshishenme?jianyanzhi，xinrenganbianshiniaizhelingyifang，yinci xinrengantasuozuodeyiqieshier。zailingyifangwanhuigui，naizhiqingyixingyiqichigefan，nidouburongyijiyutataiguodeyanke，ernanhaiziyedangranhuibazheizhongkanzaiyanzhong，fangzaixinli，binghuimanmanjiangnizuoweizheishijianyiyangfeichangzhidexinrengandezuiqinmiwujianderen。