爱一个人有错吗?男人的真实一面是什么

 aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?renmendeshengzhangxixingbingbingbushizhikaojinqishubainiandequanguochengjileiercheng，zhishicongjiqiannianqian，naizhishiyirenmengangkaishicaiyong“goutongjiaoliu”degerenxingweiyiqian，jiuzaoyigangkaishijilei。goutongjiaoliudegerenxingweiyujieguojiaruyinershenrudnadangzhong，neiyeyidianyeburangrenchuxianyiwai。neimeaiyigerenyouduoku?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenyoucuomadewenzhangba。

 julilaishuo，nvshinenggouyibiantujiayou、yibiankanjiandianshilianxuju，hainengqingqingsongsonglejiedianshilianxujudeneirong。ruguozheishidamenkoudedianlingxiangle，tamenyekeyifajue“dianzimenlingxiangle”zheijianshiqing。tingshuozheishiyouyuzaizheilijiqiannianlai，mamawubiyibianliuyixiaohaizi，yibiankaizhanqitaxingdongsuodaozhide。yinweirendedanaodangrandiyanbian，yinci xianrujinnvshiduoyoulingwaijiejuegezhonggeyangxinxineirongdegongzuonengli。

 lingyifangmian，rutongnvshiyouzhekeyilingwaijiejuegezhonggeyangxinxineirongdegongzuonengli，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?nanshizaizheilijiqiannianzhongjianyeyouyuyizhikaizhanzhebuliegerenxingwei，yinerzuoweilierenshoudeshizhibiancanyuzainanshidednazhong，bingzaiqianyishijiancaozongzhenanshengdeyantanjuzhi。huanjuhuashuo：

男生=捕猎中华民族

yinci，womenkeyishulichunanshidexiashutedian：

①xiaizhuizherenpao(bushanyutaozou)

②juecehaozongtimubiaozaigangkaishibulie(yudadaomudidexiangfa)

③zaibuliedequanguochengzhongsisuoxindefangshilaijiejuekunnan(gaokuanbide“jiejuekunnan”guannian)

④buliedaodelieshishiguishuyuzishende(zhipeiyu)

⑤xinggaocailiedezhutihuodong(zhudongjingongdeshihouhuiyouqiyoumeili)

⑥taoyandenghou，erxiaichuzaijingongdeguandian(xiangbifangyu，gongjijiaoweinengcijixingnanshengdeshenjingxitong)

nanshengbianshizaijiqiannianzhongjian，bazheizhongtedianjinjinkehuazaidnadangzhongeryanhua

 chengrujinneiyangde。jibian shirichangshenghuobuzaiyibulie，zhishiyijingjihuodongweizhudaodexiandaishehuizhong，zheixiaoxiaojibainiandelishishijian，yebutaikenengzheibansuibiandijiuyaoconggudaojinchucunchulaideshengzhangxixingxiaotui。

 bazheizhongshengzhangxixingduofangmianzuchengyihou，jiukeyiyikuinanshibennengfanyingdeyantanjuzhi。ziran，dajiahaikeyiyijunanshengdexingdongfangshi，laifenbianlingyifang(nansheng)jiujingzhuiqiuwanmeizishen(nvxing)daonaxieshuiping。

 nanrenzaizhuiqiuwanmeizishenxiaidemubiaoshi，huishifenjijizhudong、qinfendijinxingxingdong。keshi，ruguoxiangfanyounvshizheiliduinanshengjinxingmengjidehua，nanshengdezhixinglifandaozonghuiyinererjiangdi。ciwai，yeshiyoubeifenleiwei“bujinadaodelieshichijingsiliao”denanshengzhonglei，dantashilisuoyingdangde，zainanshengdeneixinbingbuhuiyou“yaozaiqubuliezaoyibianchengzishensuoyouwudelieshi”zheileizhuguanyinsu。zheibingbingbushiyouyu“neigeren”jiaoweiyouqi，yebushiyouyutashisha“bujinadaodelieshichijingsiliao”dezhonglei，zhishi“yaoshishinanxing”，doushihuicaiyongxiangjindexingdong。

 chucizhiwai，bukanchuannanrendenvshihaichangcaiyongyixieshixiaodexingdong，birutamenjingchang“yinweixihuannita，yinci qinfendiqudadaolingyifang(nansheng)deguiding”。duinvshieryan，zheishiyouyuyaoxiangjiandaolingyifanggaoxingdebiaoqing，yinci caicaiyongneiyangdexintai。shibushiniyeshiyouxiangjindegongzuojingyanni?

可是，这真的是恰当的吗?

aiyigerenyouduoku?congnanshengdeguandiankanlaidehua，zheileigerenxingweibianshi：

chedizuncongnanshengdeyixiangxingdong→zishenxiangdadaodezongtimubiaolikejiunengdadao

 nanshenghuiruguoyigenvrenzheileixintaierzaizaiqianyishizhongdedaocixiangjieguo，duizuoweibuliezhonghuaminzude“nansheng”eryan，bennengfanyingshangmianzhuiqiuwanmeide“yingdangchulidenanti”zaoyibuhuiyoule，yinertamenjiuburongyizaocheng“zaibuliedequanguochengzhongsisuoxindefangshilaijiejuekunnan”dexintai，yinciziranhuijiasutaduilieshi(nvshi)sangshixingquaihaodesulv。

 neiyangdahuoeryingdangzaoyihenqingxileba?ruguobuduancaiyong“mashanghuiyinglingyifang(nansheng)guiding”degoutongfangshidehua，nanshengfandaohuimanmanduinisangshiguanzhu。mingbainanrendexinlidenvshihuibaxiabianzheijuhuazuoweimingyan•.

“要是逃走，男生便会自身冲上去!”

 aiyigerenyoucuoma?zheizhongtongtongshiyouyu，nanrenshikaizhanbuliedeweishengwu，jubeizhuiqiulieshideshengzhangxixingerzhi。bingqie，tamenbukeyikuanrongzishendelieshibaituozishendecaozong，fanbeiqitamubiaojiduozou。zenyang?youmuyouzhujianjuedezishengangkaishizhangwo“nansheng”leni?