女生如何应对死缠烂打?

 tanlianaiyaozuodeshiyounaxie？ganjuedoushixiegeinanrenkande?no!zheizhongneirongchukaixiegeinanxingkan，rangtamenxuehaotaonidehuanxiwai，yeyouleninenggoujiqudegongzuojingyan。diyi，jinguannantongbaoxuehuilezenyangcaiyongjiji，keshizheizhongjijitongchangbixudeshitianshidili。jiaruniqidaitajiji，neimaniyejiunenggouxiangbanfashengchanzhizaoneiyangdeqingjing，liruninengyaoyuetayiqiqupashan，suihouzoubudongdeqingkuangxiashitalani;pashangfengdinglailani“tizaotianqiyugaoerdezhi”dezhenyu，tabawaiyipizainidedeshenshanglanzheni;huijiayihouquertongyoulechang，shitatuiniqiuqian，huoshiyiqiqukongbuguiwu/guoshanche，neimehaojigejiyu，tabutaikenengyigedoubawobuzhuba?wanyitaqueshimuzhengzhengmeifanying，neimejiumaizheibenshuzengjita!neimetanlianaishuoshenmeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankantanlianaihuatidewenzhangba。

相拥

 jiarunilveweiliuyiyixia，bianhuifajuexuduo yixiaodongwuweizhurengongdenirendekatongpian、yingpianlizaixushu2ge“ren”deqinmiwujiangerenxingweishi，shuzuiduodebianshixiangyong(suiranlibiandekexingxingfenxihenfeichangzhidefanfutuiqiao，liruxiaoqie，liruyang，zheiyixiangyongdenanduxishutaida。tanlianaiyaozuodeshiyounaxie？danshi，nikankanpingchangcongbuchuankuzidetanglaoyaxiwanzaobuhaiweimaojinma?duikatongpianjiubuyaotaijiaozhenerle，lejiexiangyongzailimiandeshijiyiyijiuxing)，youcikejianxiangyongzheiyizishizaibiaoshuwennuandeganqingshangyongyou duomedeguanjiandegongxiao。

操控天时地利的相拥

 shineikongjianxiaxiaochu：lingyifangrentihuidangrandichupeng，xianghuhuidangranzaocheng“cixing”，yaobushifanganlingyifang，zheilei“cixing”deyouhuolifeichangda，nengshizhuanzhulijizhongjingli。

tanlianaishuoshenme?qingyoudechangdi：liangrendishengxiyushishilajinxianghujianjudehaojihui，zheishidenuanweiqifenyeheshixiangyong;

lingyifangxinqingdiluoshi：jitakuanwei，tabixudekenengshijienidejianbangyongyixia，gaixiashoushijiuxiashoua。

yonghunhoudexiangshenganshizheta：nirujindecixingshengyinshizaitianyanmiyu，zheigeshihoudexiangyongzishihuikanqilaibuneimashengying。

zaiheianzhong：neiyangnenggoubimian bierendaochangshitadexiuse。

 wennuan：tailenglemeiyougediao，jibian baozaiyiqi，liangrendexiangyongdaliangdishixiangkaozhenerbushilianren，yinci wennuan(danbukure，nibuxiangbaoyixiajiuhanjijichouhonghongba?)deziranhuanjingbijiaoheshi。

xiangyongdefangfayouxialiejilei，ninengtiaoxuanshihedefangfayingyong：

•轻碰•

 yingyongmouyizhongtuociqingpenglingyifangderenti，zheiyesuanzuoyizhongxiangyongdefangfa，keshiduochanshengzai“bujingyizhongdechuxianyiwai”。zheileichuxianyiwaichupengdezishi，wulunshinayifangmianchupenglingyifang，quanshiyizhonglingrenxinlvdeqiuaizishi。biru，zuisutaodefangshishiyongcandeqingkuangxia，yibuxiaoxinyudaolingyifangdeshou;huoshiyibuxiaoxinshuaidao，yibuxiaoxinkaozailingyifangdeshenshang;tingshuoyeyounazhebeiziyibuxiaoxinbashuisadaolingyifangdeshenshangsuihougankuaibangzhucaxi……sutao，danheli!

•抱紧•

 tanlianaishuoshenme?shuobailebianshibaodelaolaodide，zheileixiangyongyibanshiguanlianzaoyifazhanqushidaoyigehuanjiele，zheileixiangyongdezishiguanjianyousanzhong：

>nanshilouzhenvshidejingbu，lianggerendetoudingbujintie。tingshuozheiyizitainenggourang2gerendexintiedegengjin。

 >nanxingyunvxingcongyaochuhubao，zheileixiangyongshishifentianmeide，yuefabaodejinjiuyuehuilingrenyouyizhong“baodoubaotaisongdejuede”。ziran，jiaruzaiqizhongyigerendetunweiguosheng，yehenyoukenengqueshi“baodoubaotaisong”。

 >tanlianaihuati,nanshijiangnvshicongyaochulaolaodidibaozhu,jiubiexiangfengderenzuiheshizheileixiangyong。niyinggaichangcongyingshizuopinlijiandaozheiyiqingjing。ziran，jiaruzaiqizhongyigerendexiuzhongguosheng，zheiyihuanshihenyounanduxishude。tongxingnan，jiaqiangduanlian;nvxing，shouxiaqu!duiganqingyouli!