爱一个人教你把他牢牢牵在手心

 aiyigeren,dangnizaitongchuzhuixunzhongzongsuanpengdaolenilixianghuadeta，ninengshifenaixi，danshi，jinyouaixihaihaibugou，zenmezuocaikeyishitaganxinqingyuanpeizainishenbian，bingrangqitajingzhengzhewangerquebuni?hebushiyixiaxiabianjileifangshi。neimeaishiyigerendeshiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiwodemeiyigedewenzhangba。

1.将感情“曝出”

 rangrenherendoulejienimenliangshiyiduiqinglv，shitaqi“hu”nanxia，tuibukeye!liru，hetadepengyoujucanshi，zhihantaderuminghuodajiadezhuanyongxingnicheng，naizhiqinmiwujiandijiao“zhangfu”，huowanranhaoqiziyiyangbangtadiaojiekouzi;zaiqunzhongchangsuo，baichulaofuqideqipo，duitahuonidepengyoumaiyuan：“ai，tazhenxianggexiaohai，meirizhilejiegongzuohegongzuo，ruguobushi，tadoubuqingchuruhezhaoguhaozijile。”yibianshuohaiyibianwujinlianaidikanjianta;youshihoutongdianhuaqutaqiye，aiyigeren,zhufutapengyoutishitafuyao、zaijiayifukuzi。tayaojiabanjiadian，qingtapengyouweituochuanda：“wogaohaoyexiaodengtaa。”

 ruciyilai，tayaoganlingjiexinhuan，henyoukenenghuidaozhixinhuaibugui、wuqingwuyidezuixing，bianchengguojielaoshu，tachengdandelemeiyou?ciwai，lingyigeyichujiushininenggouyikaohunyinguanxigongkaitouminglaipaichuyiji，zujuebierendechuixian，duankaitalingmimubiaodetuilu。zheiban，zaibuguyiqie、yemeitibuhouxuanrenxia，tazhinenglaolaoshishidigennizouruhunyandeshengdianle。

2.时常地送礼

 shichangjitamenmaiyixiexiaolipin，lingwainenggoulingfunideqingyigaobai。liru，ninengmaiyitiaoweibozengjita，gaosuta：“worutongzheitiaoweiboyiyang，shizhongjinjinweiraozainipangbian!”huoshimaiyitiaomaoronggouzengjita，gaosuta：“worutongxiaogou，yongyuanzhongchengdishouhuzheni!”huoshisongyigehaokandebabilaoshi，zaitaerpangqingqingdishuo：“xiwangzhihoudajiadexiaobaobaojiuneimetaorenxihuan。”tadexinhaowuyiwenhuiyidiandianyuelaiyuemianruan。dangtadechuangbianzhuoziduimanlenisongdegezhonggeyangxiaolipinshi，tabuxiangnidoubuxing。

3.每日最少联络一次

 jiarumeirizhongwutadoushihuijiedaonideyigeduanxiaoxi，tashifouhuijuedezhenxingfu?huoxudajiayelibianhuipengmian，keshi，buguanzenyangnidoushihuiweichizheiyixiguanxing，jiusuanjinjinliaoliaowujidejigezi。zheiyiduanxiaoxibianchengdajiazhongjianqinggandeqiaoliang，shitalejienibaimangzhongneixinhaiqianguazheta，youmeiyoushenmebizheigengshitadadongdeni?zaiguanlianjiangudeqinglvzhengzhongjian，zheileizuofashifenguangfan，tamenburongyirangxianghusangshilianluo，jiusuanshiyitianyebuhao。xiandaishehuishenghuodejiezoujiaolvbuan，yalifanza，henyoukenengliangrenlianxujiridoubukeyipengmian，bulunshidianhua、duanxiaoxi、dianziyouxiang，zhibuguoshixiangbiaoshu:suiranwomenbunengpengmian，keshidajiadexinyongyuanzaiyiqi。

4.借势助力

 aiwodemeiyigeren,shuobaile“tuanjieyizhinengliangda”，nihebuyunyongqinqipengyoudenenglianglaixianghucujindajiadeganqingxianggengjiashenruyibufazhanqushi。liru，ninengquyuetadebabamama、longluotadejiaren，rangtamenducuta：“nianlinghendale，haibuyuechengjialiye，shiwomenjinzaobaoxiaosunzima。”huoshishifangdajiakuaiwanhundeshengxiang，shitadepengyouzhiwenta：“tingwendajiahaoshijinle，shenmeshihouqingcanjiahunlia?”huoshizhuangchuyifushouzhetaiyangshouzhetadechixinmoyang，shitapenyoukanbuguoqu，duitashijiayali：“bierenshigehaonvren，henzaoquletaba!”zaixuduorenguanaideyanshenjilejiezhong，tayidinghui“yingguanzhongmenguiding”tongyinidelangmanqiuhun。

5.背后议论的身家

 jiarunideqinglvzishiduanduanzhengzhengdijuedeninengshitaderen，huoshirenweinishimeiyourenzhuide“lengmenhuo”，huoxubianhuibuqingchuzhenxi。neima，jitamenyidian“youhuanyishi”ba!genjupenyoufanghuajitamen：“youxierenzhengshijingzhuinidenvyou。”huoshi，bujingyizhuyaobiaoxianbeizhuidehaofandemoyang，xugouyixie“yanyugushi”，pinyige“disanzhe”，biaoyanduiniyuzhanyuyong、qianxinwankujiuchanbuqingdejuqing，shengchanzhizao“jingtou”cuojue，cijixingta“qiangbiao”。daitashizhanshichuhunshenjieshujibaijiadisanzhehou，tayidinghuigengjiazhenxi，jiangnidangzuoyishengzuiaideren。rutongguouzhoudezhanshihuiweilegenghaodihuodejiarenhuanxin，ganyuanxiangjuduijuelaiyijuegaoxia。weiyoulijingmoliandeganqing，caikeyilijiumishen;weiyougenjuxiongyongpengpaidezhengde，hunyinshenghuodeguozicaihuikanqilaigengroumei、gengbaogui。

 weilegenghaodibatajinjinqianshouzhong，aishiyigerendeshi,zheizhongxiaojiliangniwubibawo。shidubeihouyilundeshenjia，chixujitamenyiwaijingxi，niyaopazhuabushangtama?