爱一个人 你爱的男人为何突然不理你了?

 aiyigeren,weihenanrenyoushi，budadianhuajini?tajiujingyoujigeyisima?tabenlaizhuyaobiaoxiandefeichangaiwodemoyanga!guoduorenwenxingzhizheigewenti……benwenni，henquanfangweidepouxileyuangu，zengjidahuoeryueduwenzhang。zongeryanzhiyijuhua，bubibeinanrengupiaobeitaocaisuanshizuigaojingjie!neimeaishiyigerendeshiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiwodemeiyigedewenzhangba。

▶第一，大家刚了解，联系电话不久拿到，他却迟迟不打来

 dabufenzhuangkuangxia，nanrenyuenijijiyaodianhua，shiduijinixingquaihao(jishaoshunantongdaduzhuangkuangyiwai)。keweihetaqingduyouxingquaihao，quebudahuilai，luoluodafangshuohuani?youyu，nanrendanxinshiluogan，pabeijujue，xinliyouqingdubuzixin+xiuse。taqingjingguanchayiduanshijian，shiweilegenghaodijizijihuodezhudaoquan。yinci ，meiyoubiyaodanxin。jianjixingshijiuxing。

▶第二，大家联络紧密，觉得非常好，但是他忽然断了联系你呢

 lianluojinmi，buguoshijizhonghuahuolidianquzhangwoni，erqiejinixiguanxingzheileijujidejiezougan，aiyigeren,haoweihoubiandehuranchelizuozhunbei。

 yinci ninengguaiyi，weihedajiajiaowanghemu，yijingjianjiandizhangwolingyifang，juedefeichanghaodantaweishenmekanbudaola?tabianshizaiyouyiguanchanidefanying。tajinmidelianluoni，nizaoyixiguan。ciketaturanchoushen，bianshizaijiechuannidexintai。yejiushishuo，jiechuanzheiyiduanguanliandenongdan。kanyixiashibushinifeitabukele。jiarunidanxin、fanmen、qingxushikong，jiuxiangdangyuduitashuo，nishinenggoubeitacaozongde。

 rujinnixintaidedianyuankaiguanbawozaitashoushang，ershijishang，tabingmeijinitouruguoduo，niyejiuxinganqingyuanshushoujiuqin。jiarunibeitakantoulezheiyidian，neimajiushitayanfandegangkaishi。tahuiganjuenizhenshitaimeiyoushencengle。nideminganhecuqian，yiyanjiunengbeikantou。yinci ，taburongyiduijiniguoduolianlianbushe。

▶第三，大家交往了一段时间，包含联络，出行，这些，他忽然毫无征兆地不联系了

 zhengtizhuangkuangkan，dabufenqingkuangxia，zheishiyouyulijingyiduanshijianheyixingpengyoudejiaowangzhangwo，shitatihuilaidaohunyinguanxideqichang。

 nanrenquanshidanhuang。kaojinleyiduanshijian，bianhuiyaoxiangdujue。yaoxiangzishendeshineikongjian。tashiyiqiezhengchangzhuangkuang。zhuweimmwuxudanyou。jiarunizaizheigeshihou，duitayuzhanyuyong，huozhedachaodanaodiaosiyaohenai，neitayidinghuiyouyuyanjuannidehaiziqi+qingxubuwending，erzaixinzhongmomodihuazuoxinyongheimingdanzhongzidui。zheileizhuangkuangxia，nizhibixugaohaonizijijiukeyile。

 aiwodemeiyigeren,nixuyaojingxingdeshi，youyudajiahaichuyuchupengjiaowangdeqianqi，tashideguanchajieduan。dajiaxianghudexinlaiganrengzaijianjiandichuangjianzhong，tadexiaotui，shiyigeshujuxinhao。jingjuenizaijianglaiyutadechupengzhong，jingjingdiliuyiguancha，tashifouqueshirutachangshuodeyiyangshigedanshenqingnianren?tashifouyouyigexiaohaiheyigehenmingjiuchanbuqingdeqizihuoshinvyou?bingqietamenhaianshihuoshijingchangxingdiyongyou danchaofangoutongjiaoliuguanlian?tadexiaotuishifouhuishiyouyutaaihaojianwangyouzhutihuodong，feidaolingyigedachengshihewangminkaizhandaoguodongzuopianpaishe?

这种全是你务必关心的物品。

 jilao，bingbushiyongyuyanzhiyita，zhishiyaquewushengdiguanchata，suihouyidingyizishendeguanchaweibiaozhun。jiarunijuedechuqu，tajiuyaoshuo，“nishizaitaicaiyile!nineiyangbuxinrenwo，woxiangruheyunijiaowangni!nixiangdetaiduole!nicaisuanshini!bushiwozheiyangderen!”

 qinaidedeguowangdexinyimen，nijianguolangwaipoma?danglangwaipojianzhehoulongduinishuo：“jiushiwolaolaoya。”jiuzainikaiguanmendeneiyike，neimejiuhui“awu”yixiajiangnichijinduli。

yinci ，aishiyigerendeshi,xiangxinnizijidefenbian。erbushiqingxintadeyimianzhici。