爱一个人的理由是什么？失恋后如何抚平爱情的伤？

 laoyibeigongrenjiejitanlianaijiamenjiaoyudajia：“buyaoshuoexdeshuoxianhua”。yinci，zheiyihuatitaolunshuoqilaishiduoshaoyoudianerxinyouyuerlibuzu。wojiejinquanliba!neimeaiyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerendeliyoudewenzhangba。

zuixian，yaogaizhengyigecuowuguannian：【nianji，yuwanshanshuipingbuxianggan】。

 wolejieguodawo5，liusui，rengranshifenhaiziqideshunan;yeyudaoguoziwo5，liusui，quefangyanwangqucangsang，yifuxinjideqingshaonian。

 wanshan，shijishangbujinyunianjibuxianggan，naizhigenzhishangshuizhun，jianshishiduoshao，shenghuogongzuojingyan，diweidouwushizhiguanlian，jinjinbenrensiwei，luojisiweihejingyanxianghuyingxiangdejieguo。

“buyuanlaojianqiu”zheileilaogeng，woyebuwanle，laigequeshide。

shishubenrenlejie，nijiaruduiwanshandelejiehewobuyiyang，buyonggaozhiwo，idon‘tcare～～

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●●●●●惊慌●●●●●

haiziqidejiaoda fanying，bianshiqianquejichudegongzuojingyanhesiweiluoji。

huanlaijiangzhi，bianshigezhonggeyangbukekao。

 aiyigerendeliyouyounaxie？nishizhongmeifayongyiqiezhengchangdeluojixingqulejiehuoshituiluntadexiayibugerenxingwei，yeyiner，huidaozhixuduo yagenduoyudewujiehebubian。

tamendeluojixing，nishifangbulede。

●●●●●疲惫●●●●●

tongchangzaixintaishang，qianquezizhili，zhehuodianherongdiandouhendi，aichengneng，haobubiyaodeqingmian。

 zaibenlaihenxiweideexingshijianshang，bulizhi，fennu，caiyongpianjidechulifangfa，basuoshinaoda，dashiertongtian，huajianweibutaikeneng。jiyuanbenjiufanzaderenshengdaoluzengtiannaoxin。

●●●●●无可奈何●●●●●

 youyuqianquexiangchugongzuojingyanheduiyixingpengyoudezhangwo，erqieyinweihaiziqifeichangrongyizigaozida，bumingbaiduiyixingpengyoudezhongshiheduiyinsibaohudeweihu，yinci ，jiweifeichangrongyizaochengbuguhouguodeyumeigerenxingwei，helengyanlengyuderuozhiguandian。

wuyuanwugujiutitichufenshou，yongtichufenshouzuoweizhulizijinlaizuodaoyixieyumeidemudi。

wuyuanwugujiuwuhuinideyantanjuzhi，binghuijuetingbiaoshu，bakekeqiqi，bianweizhanzhengmianyan。

wuyuanwugujiubadajiadesishikuozhangdaorenjinjiezhideshuiping，weilegenghaodizhengdeshuobailerenminqunzhongdeshiyong。

wuyuanwugujiuyaoshuoyixiesunrenerbuzisizilidejueyan，baqinggantuidaoyizhongwufamibudechujing。

haizuihou，doubazheiyiqieshaguadegerenxingwei，guinaweiduiniwujindeai，zheilingrenwukenaihe。

●●●●●迷失●●●●●

jiqiqianquedui“yanxingyizhi”zheisigezidegaoduzhongshi。

 tongchangshuodahuabudacaogao，weilegenghaodiyishidekoushezhikuai，erzuochuyixieshijishangzishenyagenbanbuchengdezhengtiguihua，huoshidechuxiezishenmeibanfawanchengdefuwuchengnuo。

 jieguodangranshimeiyouxiawen。pengdaojiaoqueshinvhai，huigezhonggeyangtaoyao，zuizhongdangranshidianranzhanzheng，dalianggaidong，bugaoerbie;pengdaoyoudianerxionghuaixinjidenvhai，suibiaocengchushibujing，yibutanji，qishianzifafen，jianjiandichanshengchenshang，wuyaokeyi，huitianwuli。

●●●●●失落●●●●●

dui“yiwu”erzi，yagenmeishenmedingyi，gengbuyaoshuozhuzhonghuoshishixing。

 chengdan，bingbingbushi“kenquni”huoshi“zaiyiqi”neimejianyi，zhishiyizhongcongneixinshenchu，duini，huoshidajiaguanliandexintai，zaizuoyiqietiaoxuanhejueceqian，doushihuijiangnideyaosukaolvyinei，zuochuyigezuiyouyiyuliangrendexianghudezhengtiguihua，bingfeizhicongzishendeshijiaohequanyikaolv。

naizhi，zuikongbudeshi，tamenlianduizishenyebuchengdan，nizenmejixiwangyutamenhuiduidajiadeguanlianchengdan，naizhiduinichengdan?

 shenmeshiyizhongduizishenfuzedexingwei?yigewanshandenanren，juebuhenyoukenengyouyushishuierwandao，sunhaiyigejijiadejiyu;yebuhuiyouyuqingxubujiaerchoulian，renaoyigeguanjiandeguke;burongyiweilexiongdizhangyi，bajiarenjiuyideqiannalaijiyoubenghaiqian;burongyiyuetouerdaiyueweiqitaozhe，meiyouqianshisichujiezhaiduri;gengburongyiyouyuwanyouxi，ercuoguoleguanjiandekaoshi，zhaopinmianshi。

 aiyigerendebiaoxianshishenme？zhiyaoshiduizishenbuchengdanderen，nijiarujixiwangyutaduinichengdan，neizhiyoubiaoming，niduizishendoubuchengdan。