爱一个人的理由是什么？找对象到底该怎么找?

 zaihunlianjiaoyouzixunlichangchanghuipengdaolianghuoqiuzhuzhe，yiboshidanshende，yaobushiyouyuzailianaizhongyizhimaodun，yaobushiyouyutichufenshoumeifahuanjietongchu。lingyiboshijihunde，yaobushiyouyuzaihunyinshenghuozhongyizhizhengchao，yaobushiyouyushibushiliyijuededanxin。neimeaiyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerendeliyoudewenzhangba。

wulunnayigenanti，zuihoudoushihuishuodaodangshiruhejiutiaoxuanlingyifangle?

 zheigewentidehuidawuhuabamen：youganjuede、kanzhongbiaomiande、shencaimiaotiaode、jingjifazhanbiaozhunhaode、gongzuoqinfende、zhurenweilede、zhenchengdairende、tiexinguanaide、huiganjiawude、jiangyiqide、laoshibajiaokaopude、kailangfengqude……huoshizhishishisangezi，yijianshihao。

douzhiangyangchongjinlai，quebiantilinshangtangchuqu。nvhaimena，palemeiyou?jintianbianshuoshuotanduixiangjiujingzenmezhao?

juedeshifoukeyishiquanxin?guoduanbukeyi!

 juedeshixude，laiyuanyuqueshishide，meiyouwujizhitan。juedeshizenmelaideni?tashidajiazaichengzhangjieduanzhonglijingderenshengdaoluexingshijiansuohuodedeganshouchendingzaizaiqianyishizhongzhongchanshengde。meiyigerendejuededougenxinlidejuqingmiqiexiangguan，shizhuguanxingde，meiyouwuyuanwugudejuede。niduimouyirenhuiyoujuede，shita(ta)deshenshangdemouyidianjihualenixinlidemouyijuqing。liruniershiquefaguanhuai，ta(ta)jiaruguanhuaibeizhiniyejiuduitayouganjuele。yinci fourenzishenjuede，shishishangshifourenlezishenderenshengdaolu。

 neimajuedeshifoukeyishiquanxin?guoduanbukeyi!youyujuedeshimeiyigerenzhuguanxingquanqiudewupin，jincongbenshendejuedekaolvzhiyouguanxinlingyifangyibufentexing，bingqiebuyidingkeguanxing，neiyangbianhuiduilingyifangdelejiezaochenglexuduo mangdian、cuowuguannian，niangchujinhoueyuxiangxiangdejiangchu：“wodangshiruhejiukanshangnini!”yinci tanlianaizuixianyaoyouganjue，ganjuebuhaodeliangrennanyizaochenglianjiedebulizhi，yongyoujuedeyihoukeyiyong1-2geyuedaizaizheiyijuedeli，yifangmianhaohaodixiangyouyixia，yifangmianzaixinideduoganshou。

 lijinglezuikaishidejuedejiechuanqi，jiarudajiazaicifazhanqushi，jiexiaqubianshizhongzhongzhizhongle，jishuzhuanyeshenrufenxidajiazhongjiandeqihedu。zheiyigongzuozhongshilianggerenshangtanhouyiqizuo。zheiyibudeshenkehanyiqujueyuyizhongduizishenfuzedexingwei、duilingyifangchengdan、duihunyinqingganchengdan。

情侣契合度专业分析

一、性格色彩分析

 dajialiangrennenggouzuoyifenjishuzhuanyedexinggesecaifenxiwenjuandiaocha，feichangrongyijiulejiexianghudexingqingxuanzexing，liruzuolediscxinggeceping(xingzhixianshangyouxinggeceping、hunyinpipeidupouxiwenjuandiaocha，youhunlianjiaoyouquanweizhuanjiajiangjie，xiangxunweixinhaomaiaskpan)hou，jiaruyifangpianzhongfangshouxing，lingyifangpianzhongrouhexing，neinimenliangjianglaijichushicaozonghebeikongzhideguanlian，jiaruyifangpianzhongjizhixing，lingyifangpianzhongkailangxing，jianglaidaduoshushikekehebeikekedeguanlian。guanximoxingzaozhi，shengduojiehunhouzaihouhuimoji。zheiyipouxideshijiyiyishizhangwozishen，zhangwolingyifang，zhibizhiji，jiaowangyoudaozaixian。

二、成长历程

 liangrenxianghuzhijianshuoshuocongchushidaoxianzaidegerenjingli，youqishiyixiezhongtedade、waishangde、zhuanbiande、cuobaide、queshaodeneirong，genjuzheiyiquanguocheng，xianghuzhangwolingyifangdexinlizhuangtaikunrao、zhimingshang，nenggoulejiekuanronglingyifang，fangzhishangdaolingyifang。zheiyiquanguochenghainenglejiexianghudexinlizhuangtaibixu，yiwentiweidaoxiangdixianghuzhijiankaolv。xianghuhainenglejielingyifangdebugou，gaoqingchuzishendeshenmebixulingyifangruanruowunengkaolv。danshizheierbixuliuyiyidian，jiarudajiadeguanlianguishuganbutaizudehua，youderenhenyoukenenghuiaiyuqingmianerduizishendelijingyouyidingdemanbao，zhongjiubazijideshangjiaojitarenkanshibixuyixiedanliangde。

三、家庭关系

 xianghuzhijianliaoyiliaozishenfazhandejiazhong，jiazhongyixienaxietexing，jiazhongyoushenmezuyuan，qinziguanxizhongyisheiweizhudao，babamamadexinggetezheng，babamamayuzishendeguanlian，xiongmeizhongjiandeguanlian，jiazhongzhongyoushenmeguanjianguidingdeng。lizaihongguanjingjideshijiaozhangwoxianghudexingqinghejiazhiguannianchanshengdeyuangu，zaiqingkuanglizhangwoxianghujiazhiguannian，renqinglingyifangderenjijiaowangshitimoxing。

四、爸爸妈妈关联运作模式

 aiyigerendeliyouyounaxie？xiaohaiyanlidebabamamaguanlianfangshijiuchanshengleta(ta)xinlijuededefuqiganqingshitimoxing，jiusuanzheiyifangshizhongyouhenduobukexuedebutaihaodezuofa，danyinweichanshengyuzaoqian，chengnianrenhouzaozaoyijindaozaiqianyishizhong，yinci nanyigenggai。jiarujialitamaguanqian，tamenjiatabaguanqian，nimenzhihoujiuhenyoukenengweilesheiguanqianfashengzhengzhi，youyuniliangxinliduizheijianshiqingchanshenglebuyiyangdezhuguanxingdingyi，shijishangzheishimeiyouduiyucuo，dandajiadeguandianbuyiyang，bianhuiganjuezishenshiduideshiyingdangde，lingyifangshicuodeshibuyinggaide，zhanshijiujiezhongerzhile!

五、情感表达方法剖析

 yiqianyouhaiwaidexinlixuezhuanjiaduirenmendeqingganbiaodafangfazuokexueyanjiu，fajuenenggoufenchengwulei：1、weilingyifangzuoshijideshier(zhufan、xiyifudeng)、2、yuyanzanyanglingyifang、3、fenpeizhuanyedeshijianshouhoulingyifang、4、songlingyifanglipin、5、rentidechupeng。

 aiyigerendebiaoxianshishenme？meiyigerendeqingganbiaodaxingshidoushiyouyidingdexuanzexing，ta(ta)changchangyongdefangfayeshita(ta)qipantarenjiyudefangfa。yinci liangrenyingdangzaitanlianaiqianqijiuzuoyigeqingganbiaodafangfadezhuanyeceshi，fangzhijinhouleisileihuodejiledabantianquanshibierenbuyaoxiangde，feilibutaohao，lianggedoubiequ!(zheiyiyibufenzaizixunzhonghuichuxianzishenzhuguanxingfenbiandefangfahejutijiancechudefangfabuyiyang，zhongjiuzhenshihenrenshizijiderenqueshihenshao!)