爱一个人的理由是什么？盘点女生相亲总是失败的原因

 xiangqinyuehuishiyizhongzhenduixingqiang、kuaisujieshudanshendechuantongshitanlianaifangfa。shubuzhibianshiyouhenduonvshengxiangqinyuehuichengqianshangwanquemeiyouyigelingrenmanyidejieguo。bansuizhenianjiyuelaiyueda，jiashangzhoubianrendeducuhegongzuoyali，henjiadeqingxuyebianzhong。weishenmedalingshengnvmenmangliuxiangqinyuehui，queyizhixiangqinyuehuiweiguoni?wojiexiaqujiangjinipouxixiangqinyuehuiyizhibuchenggongdeyuangu。neimeaiyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerendeliyoudewenzhangba。

1、腼腆不自在

 heshangbiandezhuangkuangfanguolai，yeyouyileidalingshengnvshitaimiantianbuzizai，chedibumingbaizenyangzhanxiangerenyoudian。quanbuyouhuiquanshifanshexingdewenda，meishenmequweixingketan，zheileiyayigandefenweiranglingyifangzhiweijinkuaidewanbiyouhui。miantianshinvhaixiangqindeyihaoxiongshou，yaoaiximeiyicixiangqinyuehuidejiyu。

2、佯装淡泊

 xuduo dalingshengnvxiangqinyuehuiweiguodeyuangushixiaizhigaoqiang，yangzhuangdanbo，ganjuezishengaorenyideng。fenqideshi，benlaihengaoao，queyehuanshixiangyaoxiangqinyuehui。jiranxiangqinyuehuijiuxuyaoxuehuifangqishenzi，zheiyishidai，zhudongjingongdoushiyouhenyoukenengbaganqingnongdiu，dengdaitarenjijisipilailiandanshitaichunla。paoxianeikeedemiantianba。miantianguoduzongshiranglingyifangxunsudefourenbencixiangqinyuehui。

3、针对性太强

 haowuyiwen，xuduo dedalingshengnvyouyuhenjiajiqiecaitiaoxuanxiangqinyuehui。aiyigerendeliyouyounaxie？keshiquanjiezhuweidalingshengnv，zaixinjiyebubibahenjiaxiezailianbu，benxiangzhutifenggeshuomingmudi，huoshiguoduoyinqinxianglingyifangtaojinhu，quanshihenchundegerenxingwei。nidetaiguojiqinghuihetuilingyifang，rangnagelingyifangganjuenishiyigekepadejiehunkuang。

4、过度注重第一印象

 zhuguanyiduan，duinanpengyoutaizaodewangdechujielunbingbushinaxielianghaodexiguan。bubitaizhuzhongdiyiyinxiang，bubiyouyudiyiyandeqianjiajuedejiufourenzhengciyouhui。rujindechujielunweishiguozao，yaojilingyifanghezishenyigeshenrulejiexianghudejiyu。

 zongjie：aiyigerendebiaoxianshishenme？yizhixiangqinyuehuiweiguodedalingshengnvmen，hebuyongxinduibizhishangsizhongyuangudiaojiehaozishenxinlizhuangtai。yaoshiyouxiaojingzhundingweihaozishendebuwei，quelizishenyaoxiangzhaoyigeshenmeyangderen，zaizaijiashangnidejiji，jianxindalingshengnvmenyidingnenggougenjuxiangqinyuehuixunzhaozishendelingyizhong。xinlizhuangtaihenzhongyao。