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shenmewentifeichangrongyirangnanshengtongkubukanni，xiabiandajialaiyiqizhangwoyixiaba：

1、語言致伤

 aiyigerendeliyouyounaxie？yixienvsheng，zaitanlianaiqianqizhuyaobiaoxiandewenxuntiexin，danbansuizheshijiandebianhua，danglianggerendexiangchujiazhong，ganjuezishennanyoubuhuilikaizishenshi，nvhaigangkaishijianghuajiansuankebo，yizhitiaoyixiewuguanjinyaodexiaowenti。

 shijishangsheidoushiyouxiaowenti，duorongrenyixieyoubufangni?jiarutadeyixiewupin，huoshiyoudeshenghuohexinlinian，nineineixinqueshishijienabushang，yebuyaoshuokebodeyuju，yongwenrouzhenchengdeyuju，shijishangduidajiadexiangchuhuigenghao。

2、缺乏激情

zheierjiangdejiqing，bujinshiyouguanlianggerendeyeshenghuo，daliangdehuanshizhidajiadepingshishenghuo。

 queshi，rizishipingpingdandande，meiridoufanfuzhetongyangdegongzuozhong，xingjinluxian，meirideshenghuohenkuzaofawei，danbubiyinererdiuqinidejiqing，dajiadeganqingbixujiqingdeziyang。

jibian shenghuopingpingdandan，yehuanshiyaoquchunidejiqing，yingduishenghuo，yingduinixinaiderenba。

3、不重视沟通交流

 lianggerenjiaowang，zuizhongyaodebianshigoutongjiaoliu，youyuxuduo qingkuangxia，yinweixianghuyishidenanti，zaikandaimouyishiqingshang，dajiahaowuyiwenhuiyouyidingdemaodun，dangdajiachanshengfenqi，bubiyouyuyishibuyiyangerzhengchao。

duogoutongjiaoliu，xianghuzhijiangerangyibu，caisuanshishidechupengfangfa。

4、很爱装傻

henyoukenengzainideyishizhong，zhenduinanreneryan，shahuhunvrendoushitaorenxihuande，yinci zaixiangchuzhongnihenxiangyaozhuangsha。

 aiyigerendebiaoxianshishenme？yishidezhuangsha，huikanqilainishigekeaidexiaonvxing，jiarunihenaizhuangsha，pingchangmeishierjiuwenxieshananti，nijuedenanrenshifouhuidichuni?