爱情与生活之宁可沦为剩女也别嫁给不爱的男人

 aidejiqing，xiajishilianaidejijie，yeshirangxinlizaodongbuandeshijie，zuijindexinjianzhongfeichangdayibufenjizhonghuazai“henjia”“kongsheng”deneirong，xinzhongdeneirongdoushifenleisi，huizongqilaidayuequanshi“jiaoshi，woyijingxx(28—35quduan)suile，worenweizishenzaoyishidalingnvqingnian，woyulaiyudanxinzishenyigeren，danqueshishizhaobuzheshihedemubiao，woshibushinenggouzhaoyigenanhaizijiangjiuyixiawanhunni/pengdaozishenbingbushishifenhenganxingqu，danbabamamaganjuetingshihedenanhaizi，wokeyituofuzhongshenma?”neimeaiqingyuhunyinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingyushenghuodewenzhangba。

 jiedaoqianhaoduogenantidezuichuwobingbutaizaihu，youyuworenweizheijinjingeanbale，danbansuizhegaileinantiyulaiyuduo，.wohuangruogeshifajue，yuanxianzheigewentiqueshihenburongleguan，guoduodegaolingnvhaiyouyuzishengangkaishilunluodalingshengnvdeyuangu，erjiangzishendezhaoduixiangyishiyijiangzaijiang，naizhidaozuizhongyaoshilingyifangshinanhaizijiukeyi……xixinxiangyixiangzheigewentishishifenkepade。

 xianzhuishuodalingshengnvchuxiandeyuangu，zuixianshiyinweishenglixueyuangu，nvshibinanxingfayudeyaozao，aidejiqing，zaineiyangdeqiantitiaojianxiananhaihenvhaidexingmingquxiantushiyousuoqubiede，niandaosanshisuishigengshinanxingyiqifengfazhishi，danzheigenianlingqueshinvshidenankannianling，zishendegeleishentijinengzouxiapo，ernanhaizibansuizhebanjidetishenggongzuoyehuisuizheyouyidingdezaojiu，zheibiandaibiaozhetamenyougengshihedetiaoxuan：gengnianqingpiaoliangdenvhai，yincigaolingnvshidebuweiyuelaiyuefeichangganga。yincizaizheileizhuangkuangxia，gaolingdedanshennvshihuiyizaijianshaozishendezhaoduixiangdebiaozhun，bingzuihouyou“poguanposhuai”deniantou，zheiyejiushijinqixinjianzengjiadeyuangu。

danzaizheier，wojuedegaozhiquanbudezheizhongnvshideshi：ningyuanlunluodalingshengnv，yebiejiageibuaideren。

 queshi，jiusuanniziyiweishigangkaishirenlaozhuhuang，bianchengwurenguowendenvshi，danwoyaogaosunideshi，zheiyidaidehunyinshenghuorongheyibuxiangbabamamaneiyibei，youyudajiaduihunyinshenghuodeyaoqiushifenduo，suqiudianzeshidiyiqiantitiaojian!zongranzhidaosishisui，yebubijiageibuxihuandenanhaizi，burannikenenghouhuimojizhongsheng!

yuangu?feichangjiandan，bukeyijiageizheileinanhaiziyousidayuanyin——

yuanguyi：zaiqiancaishangbuyuanyitouru

 bugouainidenanhaizi，shibuyuanyizaiqiancaishangjinitourude，jiangzheiyidianbingbushijinibianchengbaijinnv，youyuzheijiushishiji，zaizheigeshehuifazhan，yinweinanshiderenlizibentouru、gongzigongzidaiyuyuanchaonvshi，gulianggerenderonghedaibiaozhezaiqiancaicengmian，nanshiyaoyuanbinvhaitourudeduo。

 dantangruonibiequzishen，rangzishenjiageizhishishibabamamakanshangqushihedeta，dannixinliyelejiexianghubingbuzuenai，neimenikenengzaiqiancaicengmianzaoshouxuduo biequ。xiangxinziji，zheikenengbianchenghunyinshenghuozhongdeyagendenanti，zhongjiuqiancaizaiyidingshuipingshangkendingzhenidehunyinshenghuodeqingkuang。

缘故二：在生活中不愿意投入

 qianbianyeshuoguonannvdechayi，shijishangcongrichuerzuodeshidaigangkaishi，nanhaihenvhaideronghezaoyiyibushijianyidechuanzongjiedaile，daliangdeshijiyiyizaixianghudeyoudianxiahuxiangzhaoguyiqiguoshenghuo，ziranlaidaorujindaliangdeyeyouganqingshangdeyaoqiu。

 enaidefufushenghuoyiqiguo，shenghuoshixianghubangfude，dantangruonijiageibugouainidenanshi，tahaowuyiwenbuyuanyizairichangshenghuozhongyoujiaoduodetouru，yincininengxiangyixiangzishenjianglaijishinianruyiriderichangshenghuo：hangchihangchideganzhequanbudehuo，bucixinlaodefushilingyifang，wennuanyuelaiyuedi，guishugan，xinlaigan，zheizhongdoushihuiliniyuanxianyuezhang，nidehunhoushenghuokenengjinijuewang。

缘故三：愈来愈不爱你

 niliyinggaoqingchu，zaibabamamadeneiyibei，aiqingyushenghuo,zhenduihunyinshenghuozhenduirichangshenghuoquanshiyigemohubuqingdedingyi，gutamenshixianjiehunhoulianai，tamenxingrongzijihuode“hulihutu”，danlaidaozishenzheiyidai，hunyinshenghuozaoyigangkaishichedichuangjianzaiganqingdejibenshang，zheibiandaibiaozhedangdajiahunqianmeiyouzaochengganqing，zaijiehunhouyehuinanyihaiyouganqingdecijixing，yuangufeichangjiandan，neibianshidajiazhishizhizhongdoubushihe。

xiangzairichangshenghuozhonghetajianjiandizaochenghuomiaodejilvhendi，zheiyidianniyidingyaoqingxi。

缘故四：外遇的概率大

 buzuenaidelianggeren，shinanyizhishizhizhongde，zaiyiduanbumeimanhunyinzhong，lingyifangshifeichangrongyiyoubiededeniantou，liruwaiyu，zheiyiquanshijiedeyinyouqueshiduo，tafeichangrongyikanzhongduiyandenvhai，aiqingyuhunyin,bingqiebansuizhenianjidetigao，nanshishimanmanshengzhide，zheiyeshichangchanghuichuxiangaolingnanshiwaiyumubiaoshinianqingpiaoliangxiaonvhaidexinwenbaodao，yincizaiyikaishihunyinshenghuoshi，zheiyinanhaizibianfeichangrongyizaochengneiyangdeniantou，bingzuihoujiangzheileigerenxingweifazhanqushidaomingmuzhangdandechengdu。