爱情是什么?失恋了怎么办?

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应对失恋后该怎么办第一帖：再次思考心里

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应对失恋后该怎么办?第二帖：心理状态倾吐

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 xiaotishi：niqingtudemubiaoyinggaishiyigenengwanshanfenxiwentideren，zongshichizeyifangerbukeyiyifenweierkannantiderenshibukeyibangnide。

应对失恋后该怎么办第三帖：转移注意力

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应对失恋后该怎么办第四帖：对自身好一点

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 xiaotishi：：bixuwenyixiazijidenantiyou“woshibushitaiqujueyuta，ershiqugexinghua?”;“weihewodehaopengyoudoushuowotaijiaozong?”;“wozhihouyaozhaodenanyoushifouyidingyaobitagengchuse?”。

应对失恋后该怎么办?第五帖：充实自己

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xiaotishi：yongfensanhuahuolidefangfa，rangzishenburongyiririyeyeluoleidaotianliang。

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